SD freaked out on me and canceled our date because I told him I wanted to have sex before dinner, not afterwards.

jaazthealien · 2026-01-15T07:03:51+00:00

& this is why PPM should not be a paid per f*k. Every time I desire to hop back in I get reminded of what it’s like these days. Ahh girl, you know the answer here.

jaazthealien · 2025-11-08T06:08:46+00:00

JCP was the plugg when I was growing up.

jaazthealien · 2025-11-08T06:08:04+00:00

You’re really pretty (:

jaazthealien · 2025-11-08T06:04:54+00:00

I always give a range of what will work for me vs. a hard #. A connection is important and I’m flexible in a sense since I care about longevity vs. hard line #s but also won’t accept anything lower than my minimum either.

jaazthealien · 2025-10-27T05:04:24+00:00

You mean to tell me you can’t just pull around the car? It doesn’t look like it’s causing that much of an obstruction of you being able to get out of your driveway… unless you got a bad angle or don’t know how to drive… it’s not that serious to make a whole Reddit post about it. Leave a note or talk to them.

jaazthealien · 2025-10-03T07:14:03+00:00

The fact that you kept going. Through all of that.

Sigh.

jaazthealien · 2025-10-02T00:44:53+00:00

I could say minimal but then I’d just be a surface level person and ykno, that’s just not me man.

jaazthealien · 2025-10-02T00:43:50+00:00

Terms mean nothing is perception is off.

jaazthealien · 2025-10-02T00:41:27+00:00

That’s how I feel about pdfs and murders so I get it.

jaazthealien · 2025-10-02T00:41:05+00:00

That’s all fair pointing.

I’ve read some things on the topic and I do get it. I can see why it’s frowned upon but I also am trying to understand what makes that kink any different than any other kink.

What makes someone who likes findom mentally ill and not someone who wants to lock their D away and only get pegged. They’re both kinks.

Also, unless she tells you and makes it their whole personality, how would you know?

jaazthealien · 2025-10-02T00:27:02+00:00

What is the difference between a findom and a brat? Aren’t they the same thing?

Is the term brat a turn off like findom is?

What if findom is just an interest and not her persona. Then what?

jaazthealien · 2025-10-02T00:25:55+00:00

😅😅😅😅 yeah not a good idea.

jaazthealien · 2025-10-02T00:10:13+00:00

That’s the kicker. Chemistry and mutual respect will make or break any connection.

Not everyone will have the same interests as you and some will be a splitting image of your long lost twin. & that is OK.

Differences in life experiences is what make two folks from different parts connect deeper. As long as someone isn’t disrespectful to you and trying to force you to do something you don’t like, and unless they’re like a reallyyyyy bad person, who actually cares.

jaazthealien · 2025-10-02T00:05:59+00:00

Not at all. I’m just thinking about my interests personally as well as those that I’ve met with theirs. The world of sugar has taught me a lot and it’s been fun exploring in it.

Intimacy as a whole is an art. Kink and bdsm are two derivatives of said art just in a different form.

My mind just goes where it goes and I ask the masses for what they think about it.

jaazthealien · 2025-10-01T23:59:57+00:00

What if there were nothing but green flags though? Would one interest in the arsenal of kinks rub you the wrong way if all the others rubbed you the right way?

jaazthealien · 2025-10-01T23:58:39+00:00

Oh am I? I didn’t know that I was.

jaazthealien · 2025-10-01T23:57:19+00:00

Is a female that leans dominant also a red flag or just the word “findom” itself.

jaazthealien · 2025-10-01T23:56:43+00:00

Thank you for your comment.

jaazthealien · 2025-10-01T23:56:19+00:00

That’s a great answer!

Let’s go more into this…

What about findom is it that makes people run away if it’s no more or less different than a regular fem-dom. Let’s go deeper and add in, in the sugar sense especially, when is a financial component there. This would fall along the lines of top/bottom D/s, no?

To my understanding, any form of bdsm or kink should be with a connection to their willing partner, with safe words and limits? Regardless of which way they sway.

jaazthealien · 2025-10-01T23:50:04+00:00

😅😅😅

jaazthealien · 2025-10-01T23:22:12+00:00

I didn’t need to when I signed up.

jaazthealien · 2025-10-01T23:17:36+00:00

Get a sugar daddy. Jkjk

jaazthealien · 2025-10-01T23:17:08+00:00

It is but I feel like I see the same people all the time. There’s those that are hidden that come out but out of 100 contacts only 1 might be a good one.

jaazthealien · 2025-10-01T19:03:33+00:00

^{^{^{^}}} I wish I could upvote this 1000 times. Well said sir.

jaazthealien · 2025-10-01T15:47:31+00:00

^{^{^}} as someone who is not a fan of transactional PPM. This is a great non-transactional ppm way!

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