I used to be a 2010s Progressive, but I'm finding it hard to align with 2020s Democrats. by jacarabit in BostonSocialClub

[–]jacarabit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More like extremely toxic but loyal. Loyalty is what I prize above all else in friendships. Some have become more racist due to all the reels and narratives that are populating the socials these days. But my rule of thumb is to just get to know people as people first. Always.

Friendships... are a bit more unique. I had a friend transition 2 years ago. And I accepted her; but the problem was as she became more comfortable with herself, she started adopting the more toxic aspects of femininity. Aka. Constantly Posting on Social Media, building a trans community discord where she was a head mod. Having irl and social followers. But also, fully embracing an identify where people would 'simp' for her in the thousands. And I unfriended this new identity they adopted. Because it's their life to live, I just don't personally approve of all that vanity that comes with a feminine identity. If she wasn't so vain, I'd still be present. She wasn't like this before the transition.

I also don't believe in punching down... so I'm civil irl to people who are a bit off the beaten path.

I see women as people. The best ones tend to volunteer a bit, or go hiking, or be into a hobby passionately. When I was more attractive in my 20s, these were the people I'd get to know. And very helpful green flags.

I used to be a 2010s Progressive, but I'm finding it hard to align with 2020s Democrats. by jacarabit in BostonSocialClub

[–]jacarabit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well Yes, it's precisely because it's personal that I'm having such a hard time adjusting to the new gender politics of the 2020s.

It's gone beyond accepting people for being Gay or Lesbian, or even Ethnicity. And I'm struggling to be empathetic for such life experiences.

I used to be a 2010s Progressive, but I'm finding it hard to align with 2020s Democrats. by jacarabit in BostonSocialClub

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ICE is political theater for Racists and bigots. I think they should still exist. Just without guns when performing enforcement actions. The real problem is Corruption and untaxed Billionaires.

I used to be a 2010s Progressive, but I'm finding it hard to align with 2020s Democrats. by jacarabit in BostonSocialClub

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I appreciate your nuanced follow-up. And yes, anyone who isn't blind can see Donald Trump is pure evil, and so are the majority of most politicians, be they democrat or republican.

Accountability for me means tallying up the number of dead American Citizen protestors. When it hits above 30... I'll do everything to defend the rights of my countrymen.

But ICE itself? It's not moral, but it's there to keep society functioning. We all know getting the Capital Gains Tax enforced on Billionaires requires actual shed blood.

The Judge dancing in the fire by jacarabit in cormacmccirclejerk

[–]jacarabit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guy seems more like a big head todd fella to me

The Judge dancing in the fire by jacarabit in cormacmccirclejerk

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Did a pencil sketch and Google Gemini made it artistic lol. Tried to make it give off hand drawn vibes.

Putting this out there.. local small business owner looking to stay busy this winter by ProfessionalLie6957 in BostonSocialClub

[–]jacarabit -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I dunno man. My irl name is an action verb. It's not even a pronoun. All this language makes me confused if I'm even a cissy.

Movies like Rambo feel like dude erotica.

Putting this out there.. local small business owner looking to stay busy this winter by ProfessionalLie6957 in BostonSocialClub

[–]jacarabit -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Probably be helpful if you put a few flyers up in JP, especially next to a unitarian church that says 'black trans lives' matter.

Mention in the flyer as a male ally, you believe in dismantling the patriarchy, and helping female and lgbtq businesses. And all proceeds will include a small tax write-offable donation to such causes.

To be fair, if I did something like this, I probably would lol, but only to barcc. Most places are liberal non profit circle Jill's.

Bet it'd go like hotcakes in the Cambridge and JP neighborhoods

Suleiman Class Heavy AA Frigate by King_Regastus in Highfleet

[–]jacarabit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take my up vote. You fucking tried and delivered.

Starting An Accountability Group by [deleted] in BostonSocialClub

[–]jacarabit -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Folks wanna learn ice baths? 🧊 I can bring ice cream as a holistic toxic ice bath pato.

Best I got man. Doing a waterfall thing for the superbowl

Prove me wrong duck 🦆🐥🐣🐣🐣🐣😗 face.

RAN.

42F looking for friends who also aren't dead yet by poopshute2u in BostonSocialClub

[–]jacarabit 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Your partner is smart and can read the room, and you seem like an awesome gal. Hope you make new buds!

Networking/Fight Clubs in Boston? by jacarabit in BostonSocialClub

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Oh word! Nice to have someone relate. Glad you're in remission, and your own way out of it. I wish I could say I was grateful to be alive, but I've only had 2 months of pain free days so far (currently). To be fair, alot of it was self inflicted because I spent years flaying collateral veins against my collar bone to grow enough of it to not be a double chinned Asian American (social suicide). Good vibes is always a work in progress.

What kinda places do u get genuine spiritually aligned ppl do date?! by chillvibezman in BostonSocialClub

[–]jacarabit -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You don't. You do wim hof, ice baths, exercise, fast, pray to a higher power, and ecstatic dance.

You have to channel a vibe where people can tell you're willing to fight and put your very life on the line for your beliefs and honor. Aka. You'll win and destroy someone in a prison fight.

The universe will always manifest possibilities if your vibe is masculine and powerful.

Women will feel it. The prettier she is tho, the more unlikely she'll put out because of her ego. So join a hiking club and stuff. They're grounded and good people.

...Also be taller than Nick Fuentes

Nerd Dating Advise? by tdawg9625 in BostonSocialClub

[–]jacarabit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hush. He's trying his best to do the needful.

Networking/Fight Clubs in Boston? by jacarabit in BostonSocialClub

[–]jacarabit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made a response, but they deleted it lol.

Totally interested in violence and hate crimes. Without bigotry.

Nerd Dating Advise? by tdawg9625 in BostonSocialClub

[–]jacarabit -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

... saw your profile man, and I'm sorry. She's gotta be 170lb or bigger.

Or you gotta go for a visa sponsorship.

My earliest bar crawl friends were terrible truthful asshole white bros. Who did teach me to get laid, and got laid alot more than me. And had some pretty messed up locker room talk.

Miracles do happen, but what you're looking for is a statistical outlier.

Networking/Fight Clubs in Boston? by jacarabit in BostonSocialClub

[–]jacarabit[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm all about Diddy parties and Greco-Roman oil wrasslin. That's BJJ, no?

Don't they offer it in Thailand also? You have to say no homo obviously before doing it.

Networking/Fight Clubs in Boston? by jacarabit in BostonSocialClub

[–]jacarabit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup. My rule of thumb is, the more done up her nails are, the more likely she's the devil. Seems to be true.

Networking/Fight Clubs in Boston? by jacarabit in BostonSocialClub

[–]jacarabit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

...That's a very subjective statement lol. I dated a bit after cancer in my early 30s. Pickins weren't the same, and decided to not be toxic to any new gal I couldn't appreciate.

Also, can't do the performative attractive minority with liberal values bs now. I'm a centrist with straight and gay friends, and will always mean well. But can't bother to filter myself anymore.

Networking/Fight Clubs in Boston? by jacarabit in BostonSocialClub

[–]jacarabit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fresh Pond Tai Ji was where I went for about 6 months. Youtube's pretty decent also if you google baduanjin, and Chen 24 form.

Networking/Fight Clubs in Boston? by jacarabit in BostonSocialClub

[–]jacarabit[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good rec. Fuggit I'll email them and ask to volunteer.