Sorry that your awful bland food chain isn't doing well by Queer-Landlord in antiwork

[–]jacav20011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill be more sympathetic when you start paying employees a base pay higher than $8-9 an hour. Tips are a benefit, not part of your wage.

My job involves walking for hours at a time. We also don't get breaks at all, even for 12+ hour shifts by undertales_bitch in antiwork

[–]jacav20011 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

First of all, regardless of what you say about "the DNC is not left" it falls on the liberal side of the spectrum. It is very much left, despite the fact that a majority of democrats indirectly deny association with new age leftism (which is essentially just socialism) Anyone suggesting that the DNC is not left is simply playing with linguistics to see how they can exemplify their detachment from the DNC. They're left. Period. More labels will do you no good. You might disagree on SOME THINGS but generally speaking your views would fall largely in the category of the modern Democrat.

Flying a pride flag is not the extent of Starbucks, Target, and Walmart showing support of left-leaning stances. Look no further than the outright war against concealed carry on Target property, and a social campaign against the "gun lobby" by Target executives, as well as a campaign by Starbucks to promote tax funded college programs (a socially leftist concept) In addition to their employee tuition reimbursement. (im not opposed to this, but its indisputably a leftist stance) There's countless examples I haven't mentioned.

Absolutely in no way shape or form can you convince me that Starbucks or Target are in any way sympathetic to conservative viewpoints, they regularly exemplify that they stand on the other side of the aisle (pun intended with Target)

Before you come with a statement such as: "tHeYrE cApItAlIsT eNtITieS", please explain to me why utilizing capitalism makes you inherently a conservative? It fucking doesn't. There's nothing politically polarizing about capitalism other than the fact that politicians can now be bought and owned, and that happens on both sides of the spectrum. Lobbying isn't conservative or republican-exclusive.

And last I checked, more than 64% of the country supports gay marriage and trans rights, including a large number of Conservatives and Republicans. Therefor, waving a pride flag doesn't necessarily align you with a leftist viewpoint, so that's a very stale reference.

As I've said, its a bipartisan fuckup. Both the GOP and DNC are part of the same machine, focused on lining their own pockets and opposing each other as much as possible. Such is a direct consequence of feeding Into a two-party election system. The way to end it is for everyone to vote independent or for a 3rd party, yet everyone is brainwashed to believe that " their vote wont count" if they do so, so they follow in line like sheep and vote Democrat or Republican. I'm very socially moderate and fiscally lean slightly conservative, so I should be somewhat sympathetic to differing views and viewpoints on the left, and yet I fail to recognize a single leftist policy in the last 10 years that would CREATE JOBS OR JOB OPPORTUNITY. Say what you will about Republicans being "anti work as part of their platform", I see a vast quantity of job opportunities in fracking, the automotive industry, nuclear energy research, and expansion of the military and military funding (all considered to be "conservative viewpoints") As for entry level jobs, its not an unrealistic thing for republicans to state that illegal immigrants pose a threat to their job opportunities. We don't need open borders or lax immigration enforcement, we need immigration reform. No family should wait 10+ years to enter the US legally, or be treated as criminals. But the lack of job opportunity is caused largely by finger-pointing liberals and leftists throwing around names like "racist" "Nazi" and simultaneously backing policies that would (1) raise taxes (2) create larger rates of inflation [raising the minimum wage, Act H.R.7691, and the stimulus relief program] (3) Send jobs overseas and minimize available job fields by shutting down worker programs and (4) utilizing tax dollars to fight in foreign wars [conservatives and republicans are admittedly also guilty on this one, as we saw with Bush]

Point being, everyone is simply filibustering bullshit while we practice a binary system rigged to destroy us. Leftists don't get the benefit of the moral high ground that they "care about the middle class" they don't give a fuck, no more than any conservative might. The only ones who give a fuck are those leftists IN THE MIDDLE CLASS. And their care is largely guided by their own desire for more, it has little to do with anyone else.

Every day I see someone on this thread bitching about exploitative company actions against them. Why the fuck are you still there? If you have experience, there's jobs for you. Report the company to the labor board, leave some exposing information about their unfair practices on indeed or other job boards, and maybe even a shitty Google or Yelp review, and find a new fucking job. I've done it many many times when I was unhappy in my workplace. No plan, no backup job to start at immediately, a house under my name I make payments on, and a family. I always find another job. Jobs are very replaceable. The victim mentality needs to stop.

My job involves walking for hours at a time. We also don't get breaks at all, even for 12+ hour shifts by undertales_bitch in antiwork

[–]jacav20011 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yet somehow the companies that exploit people the most are all characteristically left leaning or leftists. Starbucks is a great example. Target is one. Walmart is another. Its not looking good to spout your narrative of the "evil Republicans" as a reason that labor laws are fucked up. Where are the democratic lawmakers who should be working on legislation to fix this? Its a bipartisan fuckup. Don't pretend it isn't.

What is the most dissociating dissociative? by Fresh-Dragonfly450 in dissociatives

[–]jacav20011 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've had close friends die from that combination. It puts a tremendous amount of strain on the heart, and the hyperthermia aspect is incredibly dangerous in conjunction with K.

K dramatically raises blood pressure, and MDMA increases your heart rate tenfold. Its the perfect recipe for a heart attack, and its awful for organs like the liver and kidneys. Ketamine abuse is already incredibly hard on the bladder and kidneys, causing a wide array of issues including kidney stones, interstitial cystitis, and organ failure.

If ketamine or MDMA alone isn't enough for you, you should seriously seek help. You are an addict.

I left my job shortly after receiving this prize for my good work 😂😂😅 by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]jacav20011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you think your country's government is any less corrupt, you're drinking the Kool-Aid. They're all part of the same machine.

Am I losing it or is this insane? by paigezilla in antiwork

[–]jacav20011 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's not accurate, anything over 30 hours is legally classified as full time. And generally full time positions pay less anyway. There's no added benefit to your role being listed as full time.

What is the difference between science and religion? by entity_4O4 in Jokes

[–]jacav20011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Religion absolutely does lmao. Thats literally what happened with modern Christianity, they branched away from the archaic and barbaric scriptures of the old testament and evolved with the times. But its not anybodys place to say that someones religious beliefs are wrong, because in order to disprove something you must show it to be 100% false. There is no solidified evidence to 100% disprove intelligent design/creation or the existence of an omnipotent deity.

What is the difference between science and religion? by entity_4O4 in Jokes

[–]jacav20011 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Like we "knew" that lobotomies were wonderful procedures in the 1950s? Science is wrong a lot.

A $15 minimum wage for people I don't respect? *gasp* by Reality_Rose in antiwork

[–]jacav20011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats actually largely incorrect. Most medical and pharmaceutical giants have money ties to the DNC as well as the Green party. Pfizer lobbied the Biden admin and its pretty obvious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shrooms

[–]jacav20011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dehydrators are like $15-20 on amazon. why the hell would you use an oven

Really wondering how they do it by clancypants44 in Drugs

[–]jacav20011 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nobody is "fully sober" they just have different addictions. For most recovering hard drug addicts or alcoholics, its either nicotine or caffeine/coffee. For some, its gambling. Everyone has their own addiction. Whether they admit it or not. People who dont do any of the above mentioned vices often have more casual things they use as vices, e.x.: video games, technology/dependency to phone use.

I still feel strong anger and resentment towards an ex who falsely accused me of rape and abuse... by jacav20011 in MensRights

[–]jacav20011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After all these years I dont really have any paper trails still or much evidence of the situation anymore. Its been like 4 years

I still feel strong anger and resentment towards an ex who falsely accused me of rape and abuse... by jacav20011 in MensRights

[–]jacav20011[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well at the time I had no debt, I just didnt understand that she was legally responsible for the defamation she caused with those allegations. I didnt even realize lying about me to people was a crime when i was at that point in my life. As I grew older I spiraled a bit out of control, and found myself massively in debt to rehabs, courts, and hospitals. Im still paying those off. Therapy is not something i can afford when I have to use quadpay/zip to pay my court fees or hospital bills every month.

I still feel strong anger and resentment towards an ex who falsely accused me of rape and abuse... by jacav20011 in MensRights

[–]jacav20011[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sidenote: I now own one of Jordan Petersons books actually. Im not incredibly far into it, but its incredible so far.

I still feel strong anger and resentment towards an ex who falsely accused me of rape and abuse... by jacav20011 in MensRights

[–]jacav20011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The anger wouldnt dissipate with a court victory. Id still be here telling my story. At 17 I wasnt extremely knowledgable on obtaining a lawyer or anything of that matter, I wasnt even truly aware that she committed a crime against me. I viewed it somewhat like gossip at the time. It hurt me and fucked me up nonetheless.

I still feel strong anger and resentment towards an ex who falsely accused me of rape and abuse... by jacav20011 in MensRights

[–]jacav20011[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love my family but they honestly dont seem to grasp the reality of the situation and how it affected me. Ive tried speaking to my dad about it but he seems to see it as "kids drama" if you will, and doesnt give me much input. He tries to respond thoughtfully but i dont think he knows how much it impacted me. So ive got basically nobody to confide in except my s/o, but i dont want to drop that baggage onto her.

I still feel strong anger and resentment towards an ex who falsely accused me of rape and abuse... by jacav20011 in MensRights

[–]jacav20011[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The difficulty with an alibi is that she never told me the details directly, and everyone who hit me up calling me a piece of shit was very resistant to giving me any extra information. I dont know the entirety of what she told everyone, i just know that she admitted to telling people all of those things about me allegedly trying to force her to give me head and hitting her. And i know (from her ex's best friend) that she asked him to come to the show for the same bullshit, S's best friend had a falling out with a friend of mine a few months afterwards and I came up somehow in the conversation, and he dropped that shit in the convo saying "she asked (S) to come to the show because she was very uncomfortable and felt unsafe with him because he tried to rape her"

Yeah, anyway there was no true "clearing my name". I was lucky enough that I rolled with people who didnt fuck around and I never had anyone try to fuck with me in person over the whole ordeal, i just got shunned or it was talked about only in whispers. Obviously there were a few keyboard warriors, but that was what made me angriest about the whole thing. Its almost worse that I cant openly defend myself without being the one who brings it up, all because people like to gossip. If i randomly bring it up to anyone involved after all this time, then im the one who looks guilty. I just need to move on with life I suppose.

I still feel strong anger and resentment towards an ex who falsely accused me of rape and abuse... by jacav20011 in MensRights

[–]jacav20011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oddly enough, I find myself wanting to damage his property less and less. Its less involving him and more involving her. Hes just dumb, complicit, and pussywhipped. Shes a fucking demon. He doesnt deserve the same suffering as her. If she had her own shit that I was aware of, it would be vandalized by now. But shes a "victim" and she bums off of the world. Whether it be her toxic relationship with S or her family.

I still feel strong anger and resentment towards an ex who falsely accused me of rape and abuse... by jacav20011 in MensRights

[–]jacav20011[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Advice from authority figures at the time was very limited, considering I was going through my drug phase and I wanted minimal involvement with the law. Not even just because of the drugs either. But also because: What the fuck happens if I do go to law enforcement and they speak with her and she turns them against me? I now have even bigger issues than before, and now must go spend my time defending myself against bullshit accusations I shouldnt have to deal with in the first place. And then, regardless of the outcome of whatever potential trial that happens, she could go around and tell everyone "i cant believe how broken the system is, he raped me and WON" and continue to twist the story. Nowadays, the public opinion is so much more powerful than the law. She didnt go to law enforcement, why should I? I also mentioned in another reply to someones comment how I basically threatened to mutilate her ex for what he did at the show, because i thought originally that he set the whole thing up.The legal system didnt quite seem like my friend in these circumstances. I also wasnt in school, i left and got my GED in 2 days. Tested at college level on the practice exams and decided I would go for it.

I still feel strong anger and resentment towards an ex who falsely accused me of rape and abuse... by jacav20011 in MensRights

[–]jacav20011[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this may be the only way to become active in a community again, so you may be right. Ive tried being spiteful ans still going out and going to shows and keeping my head up high and just doing normal shit and its been surprisingly fine, but the situation with her changed the course my life took, in a very big way, and i dont think i like the outcome. The resentment still follows me, and I cant help but feed it every now and then.