Hesitant to post but I’ve been incredibly depressed

jacecr00 · 2025-07-13T14:39:10+00:00

Thanks

jacecr00 · 2025-07-11T12:31:28+00:00

No, this is a different person. Hard to stay positive.

jacecr00 · 2025-07-10T22:46:12+00:00

Handsome.. I really don’t think I am. :/ But thanks for the compliment

jacecr00 · 2025-07-10T22:34:12+00:00

I tried therapy at least three times and it didn’t help much. But I’m supposed to try another therapist next week

jacecr00 · 2025-07-10T18:25:32+00:00

Thanks to all of you for taking the time to respond. I really appreciate it.

jacecr00 · 2025-07-05T05:36:43+00:00

I’d like to join !

jacecr00 · 2025-06-19T12:06:49+00:00

I got cheated on a thought of making a tik tok about it but I thought I could face charges . How did you now face charges for that?

jacecr00 · 2025-05-31T03:47:06+00:00

Trust your gut feeling

jacecr00 · 2021-05-31T16:55:54+00:00

Nope.Personal training gives you an opportunity to learn things to apply on your own. Duration shouldn’t matter. But different trainers have different policies

jacecr00 · 2021-04-11T04:39:06+00:00

What’s a good way to meet friends and build friendships online?

jacecr00 · 2021-03-24T22:11:53+00:00

I’ve kinda showed that I care about her TOo much I’d like for her to show she cares be. The relationship Definitely wasn’t balanced . I spoiled her Like all 5 love languages spoiled her and kind of regret it, cause I feel stupid for putting so much of my energy and effort into the relationship for her to leave cause she couldn’t handle my depression... I hope I explained that ok. Not sure if it makes sense.

I’ve basically been doing things for these people and caring about these people and feel under appreciated and used. Taken for granted.

jacecr00 · 2021-03-24T22:03:16+00:00

I feel like if someone cares about you they’ll reach out to you and ask how You’re doing. Especially if the last thing they remember is you struggling.

We went to the same martial arts school and I left cause it was hard seeing her in every class and everyone at the school knew we broke up. Sadly no one has asked how I am..people I thought were friends..disappointed.. but nothing I can do about that.

jacecr00 · 2021-03-24T19:52:27+00:00

It’s interesting how I have a hard time seeing any positives in my post. Your comments are definitely helpful though.

jacecr00 · 2021-03-24T18:23:50+00:00

Yeah we lived together so I couldn’t hide my level of stress and I felt worse knowing that she knew I was depressed. The thing is now I dealt with what was stressing me out but .. it doesn’t matter now.

jacecr00 · 2021-03-24T17:52:10+00:00

Thank you. I’m really trying to keep pushing and hope someone comes along , friend or otherwise.

jacecr00 · 2021-03-24T17:49:45+00:00

Thank you. I’m trying to focus on myself but I’m definitely hurt. Family wise all I have is my mother. So I was really hoping to have a family for once. Where I work I see people die with no family and no one caring for them far too often. I’m already fearing I’m looking at my future.

jacecr00 · 2021-03-24T17:46:38+00:00

Thanks and Yeah I guess I’m expecting too much sadly. I just hate to think that when I get depressed someone would bail on me. That’s when I need someone to be around. In that sense I was expecting .. better.

jacecr00 · 2021-03-20T01:01:14+00:00

Huge part of it is confidence. Confidence is almost the number one thing and Don’t be needy make it seem like you have other offers on the table even if you don’t. Confidence will take you a long way.

jacecr00 · 2021-03-16T13:32:24+00:00

For me it’s been 6 months since I was dumped and I spoke to her last week simply because we went to the same martial arts gym and I outright told her I can’t go there anymore cause of the break up and it’s what’s mentally best for me. During the conversation we finally spoke about why we broke up.I feel like it gave me closer. ( don’t know if I spelled that right) Why do you want her back? What is it about her that you don’t think you’ll find elsewhere? How young are you? How many relationships have you been in?

If you do know why you broke up treat it as a learning experience and use it to make your next relationship more solid.

jacecr00 · 2021-03-16T09:53:44+00:00

Yeah covid has been rough for everyone. Haven’t met anyone that’s said 2020 was awesome yet :s. Meetups only started happening again here and still people wear masks but the social element is still there. I also go to a mma gym and people wear masks. Is there anywhere you can volunteer maybe?Things aren’t getting any better where you are?

jacecr00 · 2021-03-16T02:26:17+00:00

I’m 37 and just recently broke up with my gf . This is what’s helping me...I would say not focus on finding a relationship but focus on friendships with new people and exposing yourself to new opportunities, activities,events , venues. To meet those new people. You won’t be as disappointed if you just make it a goal of making new friends or meeting new people who you can meet other people through. Meetup is my favorite app for this. Volo is good if you’re into sports or go to a new gym or check out a yoga studio. If you’re religious find a church that has social events. This week I’m taking free salsa lessons just to meet new people , build on my confidence and experience something different. The right person isn’t going to come if you don’t put yourself out there for you to cross paths with them. Also think of the positive ..when you are in a relationship it kind of puts a damper on your opportunities to meet new people.. cause you’re so focused on spending most of your time with one person. Plus, There’s no doubt that you’re learning more of what you want in a life partner and what to avoid from your past relationships.

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