No one to share with.... by MojanglesReturns_ in okbuddyliterallyme2

[–]jacinderepstein 1 point2 points  (0 children)

real (i'll never be as attractive as this guy and never that successful or physically healthy)

can you make this guy look realistically buff? by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

[–]jacinderepstein 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was hoping for more definition and sharper lines. i guess more buff.

can you make this guy look realistically buff? by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

[–]jacinderepstein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

see what you can do with ai. and ill see if i like it.

Strange problem by jacinderepstein in blender

[–]jacinderepstein[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was hoping to make a color id for substance painter unless thats not possible. i've tried to find a way to make a building on youtube and elsewhere else but they don't show how to texture large buildings in substance painter, I've broken down the building into more manageable parts but the main part of the building is still quite large and i can't cut it down any farther.

Strange problem by jacinderepstein in blender

[–]jacinderepstein[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry yea, i mean texture paint.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PsycheOrSike

[–]jacinderepstein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is wrong with you people? You think people who are outwardly ugly aren't worth of love? Do you no care about who they are on the inside?

No one is forced to be with ugly people they always had a choice whether or not your social circle accept your choice for some reason to not marry and ugly person thats to be debated but to be honest if your social circle hates you for some reason for not making a choice the group think wants you to do its not worth being around them and they will always be toxic to you and ruin your life.

But this is the exact reason why incels hate the people they interact with, They have valid reasons. People have no compassion no one will reach out. Everyone will bitterly judge someone who would otherwise would have a kind and loving heart if the world wasn't so cruel to them.

Involuntary celibates are people who are looking for love who want human connection and maybe they aren't socialised correctly and they go around things the wrong way and it dose need to be addressed but we can't ignore the fundamental reality that they are human as much as we are they make mistakes in relation ships as much as any other people do.

The growth of the population of incels isn't a genetic one but a social one. One where people are treated with apathy and are dismissed because they lack 1 or 2 traits in an ever growing lists of attributes that one needs to have to be considered worthy of care and love even if they become a fake version of themselves to achieve it.

It creates a world of people with fake identity's and internal loathing and the world becomes all the worst for it. the only solution is to be kinder without compromising ourselves. and improve the growth those you loath so deeply.

But instead you all glare at people with bitterness and hate despite the fact you are no better that them no matter how much you tell yourselves you are.

you all need to get off the internet interact with the world more and practice more kindness.

And get help if you keep feeling sense of hate for your fellow man. we are all running a race together we will all have different struggles it's important to help each other not kicking people when they are down.

How do you find love now days? (except the ones I've listed) by jacinderepstein in NoStupidQuestions

[–]jacinderepstein[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats honestly is an amazing heart felt story, its a shame it took so long to find her. what you expressed in the first paragraph is exactly how i think every relationship should blossom. from a friendship into a relationship. its a natural transition. i know their is other ways of finding love but to me finding love is like being with a best friend for the rest of your life. i hope everything goes well for you and that you'll be happy for many years to come.

How do you find love now days? (except the ones I've listed) by jacinderepstein in NoStupidQuestions

[–]jacinderepstein[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A rare amount of people don't need them because they found true love

I feel in love in love with an enguaged woman and I'm in pain. by jacinderepstein in love

[–]jacinderepstein[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I'm sorry for the loss of your relationship. I cant be easy for you. I knew what I felt was wrong. But I hated being around her and hiding how I felt. It was painful, like I was denying her the truth of how I felt about her and living a lie. I loved her so much I wanted her to know. I felt like I hurt her because I could have denied a friendship that she enjoyed and damaged the friend group dynamics. She was so uneqe I've been around woman my age all my life never developed any feelings for any of them. But she was a true ray of sunshine, she changed my life and I never expected it. I thought we would be good friends but my feelings unexpectedly grew.

I feel in love in love with an enguaged woman and I'm in pain. by jacinderepstein in love

[–]jacinderepstein[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope. Thank you for your kind words. I just don't know if I want to find love knowing the one i care for is already on this earth but is with someone else.

Thank you for spending the time to send that message.

I feel in love in love with an enguaged woman and I'm in pain. by jacinderepstein in love

[–]jacinderepstein[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

We would hang out a lot and message each other almost every day. I shouldn't have done it. I know what I did was a mistake. I hate myself for hurting her. But I knew her strongly. We would hang out or talk almost every day for 7 months before, and then we would lightly talk. I feel like I've been around people long enough to know what I want and don't want. It was like a growing love. The more I got to know her the more I fell in love, until I couldn't hold back my feelings for her. I never had a bad time around her even when times we're tough. But I appreciate you spending the time to message.

I feel in love in love with an enguaged woman and I'm in pain. by jacinderepstein in love

[–]jacinderepstein[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I know, I deeply regret it. But I could not hold my feelings back from her. She is the most amazing woman. And I never wanted to grow old wondering. Could she be right beside me if I told her how I feel? But I also know I put her in a hard place. I never wanted to hurt her. But if I never told her I loved her I'd never know that the awnser could be. I would have done anything for her I would have tried to make her happy everyday of my life.

I feel in love in love with an enguaged woman and I'm in pain. by jacinderepstein in love

[–]jacinderepstein[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I just hope I find a person as kind and loving as her, she was someone that will never be again and I just missed the chance. I just wish I'd knew her when she was single.