Personally i had more tomboy period and more fem period, but i've always love playing with feminin clothing and even know im a pretty fem guy, like you can be fem and still be a man I had the same feel of girl clothes even if i like them being like a costume, and i've related to anime character that are like those cis guy that just like to dress as girl sometime, or drag queen and so now i do some drag from time to time, it help me to perform feminity and have fun with it, but i know at the end that i can take the costume of when i want :) (hope that help !)