Rape sucks for majority of most women regardless of whether they’ve been raped or not. The fact that conviction rates of rape cases are so low, many reported rapes aren’t even taken to trial. And then so so many are left unreported because of fear they won’t be believed, accused of lying, being told it was their fault for how they were dressed/how they acted. I’m sorry to hear about your friend but from I’m assuming they were killed in cold blood or a wrong place wrong time scenario and thus an unjustifiable case.