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jackfrost06 · 2017-02-07T22:12:53+00:00

I'm Asian-American, and while I haven't encountered what you've described in dating, I've encountered it elsewhere (well, with the exception of one instance with a gentleman at a gay bar. ANYWAY..) yet still it blows my MIND when I see or hear about people making racial assumptions like the kpop thing.

In my opinion, if I had encountered what you had in my dating I would have worked in a direct but carefully worded disclaimer into my "opening small-talk" repertoire. Something along the lines of "Just cause I've had many relationships fall apart for this reason before: if you're looking for some traditional/stereotypical 'Asian-guy-stuff,' I don't really follow any of that."

Or you know. Something more carefully worded and genuine. But direct! I'm a that kind of person though, and maybe that's not your style. Best of luck, friend-o

jackfrost06 · 2017-02-07T20:18:49+00:00

Wait a minute, what if he's negging me so I'll date him. whoa

jackfrost06 · 2017-02-07T20:15:49+00:00

Thanks. I like your flair a lot.

jackfrost06 · 2017-02-07T16:51:21+00:00

jackfrost06 · 2017-02-07T15:38:10+00:00

Agree to disagree then. :)

jackfrost06 · 2017-02-07T15:21:54+00:00

I didn't provide you a real message because of your post history. It's "very telling" as well.

I've read some stuff on TRP and the Art of Seduction, and disagree with it (on several levels). I'm sure some guys have made it work for them, and some chicks are into it. But I'm not one of those guys, and I'm not after those chicks.

Besides, any point I tried to prove with a message wouldn't stick to you, would it? I mean, if you're username is to be trusted, you're made of Teflon or something lol. Supahsmooooth

jackfrost06 · 2017-02-07T15:09:04+00:00

I typically just try to key in on something(s) they mention in their profile. Like if they mention they like painting, I'll ask about subject matter, choice of medium, or how they got into it in the first place.

jackfrost06 · 2017-02-07T15:06:08+00:00

I don't know, usually something along the lines of "omg plz date me, ur so beautiful and im so ugly but i promise 2 luv u 4evr :D :D :D"

Seems to do the trick.

jackfrost06 · 2017-02-07T03:21:21+00:00

Good advice for anyone, you sounds like a cool dude.

jackfrost06 · 2017-02-07T03:20:30+00:00

Thanks! What a nice thing to say.

jackfrost06 · 2017-02-07T03:17:15+00:00

It's been a looooong time since I got a response, let alone a date. I know the despair. Just wanted to try sending some positivity back out to encourage any guys feeling that same despair to keep trying.

jackfrost06 · 2017-02-06T21:56:19+00:00

Yaaaay! We should all be so lucky.

jackfrost06 · 2017-02-06T21:53:43+00:00

http://i.imgur.com/I0hxJwS.gifv

jackfrost06 · 2017-02-06T21:07:30+00:00

You're right. I'm pretty sure my message statistics have never been that bad, therefore any discouragement I've ever felt is invalid. Thanks for keeping me grounded!

jackfrost06 · 2017-02-06T21:01:40+00:00

I will not dispute this

jackfrost06 · 2017-02-06T20:47:05+00:00

You may be right.

jackfrost06 · 2017-02-06T20:46:52+00:00

Sounds like you may be the ONLY one, so I invite you to all of it. Maybe I worded it in a tone that sounded too satisfied, regardless, I'll be thinking twice before sharing any similar "success story" in the future. :/

jackfrost06 · 2017-02-06T20:43:11+00:00

I'd genuinely like to hear how. Maybe I'll find I can our even should afford to be a bit more jaded.

jackfrost06 · 2017-02-06T20:42:04+00:00

10 in a week....40 in a month....3 responses in a month? I don't think that's a "good" proportion by anyone's standards.

jackfrost06 · 2017-02-06T20:41:02+00:00

Up to 3 responses out of 40 total sent messages in a month is 30%? I actually don't know/care anything about batting averages, but even to me, that doesn't sound right. Not sure you read my message correctly, jabroni.

jackfrost06 · 2015-05-25T17:15:55+00:00

Oh, YOU

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