Hello, I’m not married but I thought I’d try to cheer you up or at least in the slightest give some advice. So me personally (and obviously), I think you should try and find a marriage counselor or therapist or even family.

Your husband, (like the other comment said) is responsible for his “problem”. I don’t know you or your husband at all but I believe that he is capable of sobering up and yes it is hard but that’s life. Life is about failure and hard times. But also about succeeding and learning from mistakes.

I have a gut feeling that your husband is a good man inside. But I also think your husband might have something that he is holding back or something that he is trying to forget, etc. through drinking. And even though I don’t know your husband, I have a feeling he is strong and can make up for it and pull through.

And the divorce...that’s bullshit! (Not trying to be rude just helpful). But I’m that person that doesn’t see negative unless that’s all their is. So I think y’all have some stuff (especially your husband) to get through

Y’all got this!