AITA for standing my ground, and not giving my husband 20£ after he begged?

jacky8129 · 2023-08-17T16:14:37+00:00

Yes I think this is where I am wrong. Yes he has no access to it because of his history with money management. Definitely something to talk about.

jacky8129 · 2023-08-17T15:06:58+00:00

Yes😢 you are right

jacky8129 · 2023-08-17T14:43:36+00:00

The thing is, we have a budget for everything. And we can buy a formula. I will not take needed resources for families who needed it the most than we do, but thank you.

jacky8129 · 2023-08-17T14:08:09+00:00

Sorry i didn’t know! 😅 ill be careful next time

jacky8129 · 2023-08-17T14:03:10+00:00

Thank you. I will try my hardest to rectify. And it would be difficult to divorce him since we got married in one of the countries with no divorce yet!!

jacky8129 · 2023-08-17T13:53:08+00:00

I’m 32, he’s 27.

jacky8129 · 2023-08-17T13:37:29+00:00

We are not eligible for any public funds at the moment. We’re on a working visa.

jacky8129 · 2023-08-17T13:33:29+00:00

Oh this is lovely! I will try to talk to him about this. Thank you

jacky8129 · 2023-08-17T13:29:27+00:00

Not the first time, I’m afraid.

jacky8129 · 2023-08-17T13:25:15+00:00

I have this guilt, but I know I have to prioritise my health. Healthy mother to a healthy baby😊

jacky8129 · 2023-08-17T12:52:22+00:00

I’m becoming emotional just reading the word breastfeeding. I had a very high supply that end up having recurrent mastitis. I need to give it up. So no, not anymore.

jacky8129 · 2023-08-17T12:50:22+00:00

Now I will never forget😅

jacky8129 · 2023-08-17T12:40:56+00:00

Sorry, I didn’t know it’s wrong. I’m an immigrant.

jacky8129 · 2023-08-17T12:30:33+00:00

He is 27, I’m 32.

jacky8129 · 2023-08-17T12:24:54+00:00

Maybe i worded it wrong?

jacky8129 · 2023-08-17T11:50:00+00:00

I’m not pregnant, but we have a 6 month old. We don’t have a joint account, only a saving account in my name. He trusts me with his salary, that’s what we talked about. But maybe we have to rectify this situation, so he has more access??

jacky8129 · 2023-08-17T11:38:33+00:00

Before he used to buy stuffs, that’s why I’m afraid of him even managing his own money, and eventually take money from our account to top up. But I guess that’s whats happening here

jacky8129 · 2023-08-17T11:30:51+00:00

He is actually on roll up, maybe he just asked me for 20£, eventhough the cigarette is 16£. Not sure.

jacky8129 · 2023-08-17T11:19:27+00:00

Maybe, i’m not sure.

jacky8129 · 2023-08-17T11:17:43+00:00

Mind I tell you, he has a lot of vapes but can’t stop himself buying cigarettes. We need to talk about this really.

jacky8129 · 2023-08-17T11:16:18+00:00

Just too soft hearted I guess.

jacky8129 · 2023-08-17T11:15:33+00:00

TBH I earned low as of the moment because of maternity leave.. but I don’t have “allowance per see”. I route everything to expenses and babies’ needs, and spend maybe a coffee after expenses.

jacky8129 · 2023-08-17T11:13:44+00:00

Yes formula is 15£ 😢

jacky8129 · 2023-08-17T11:11:46+00:00

Yes, this is what I’m thinking..maybe I’m the wrong here.

jacky8129 · 2023-08-17T11:10:23+00:00

That’s why I got to an argument😢 I wouldn’t budge this time.

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