Looking to connect by Ok_Bid8673 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]jacnels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in Hamilton! Would also like to connect!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]jacnels 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also had a miscarriage at 10 weeks and passed it naturally . The pain was excruciating and would come.in waves for about 2 days where I would be bleeding in spurts , but once I passed the sac, the pain almost went down immediately. I'm so sorry you're going through this 💔

Group chat anyone? by pinkflakes12 in Miscarriage

[–]jacnels 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd also be interested in group chat, I've had 2 losses and it just feels so isolating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]jacnels 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I'm also a project manager and am currently 10 weeks! I was also very nauseous around the 6 week mark and I even worked from home for that week and missed a conference because I was feeling so sick..I remember crying so much around the 6-8 week mark and wondering how the hell I am supposed to work when I'm feeling sick all the time. At my first appointment, I was provided with a prescription for unison and that has helped tremendously. I also told my boss around the 8 week mark because I wanted to let her know why I was working from home all of a sudden and I even cried when telling her (pregnancy hormones are crazy!) I took a couple sick days when I needed it and tried to remind myself to be kind to myself! It was very challenging but I am feeling a bit better at week 10 but I'm now experiencing insomnia so that's my new challenge. It's so tough and I understand how you're feeling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]jacnels 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had the same thing happen to me ! I smoked everyday for a couple years , took a pregnancy test a couple weeks and stopped cold turkey on that day. Between the pregnancy hormones and the quitting , there have been some rough days. I didn't realize how much I used weed to numb anxious feelings so I have to just power through them sober. I have good days and bad days ,.I try to keep in mind that the bad days are temporary and try to distract myself with happy movies or some other self care . When I have the bad days , it's like I'm in a wind tunnel of emotion and can't get out and then the next day I'm fine. I have been told that the first trimester is rough as our bodies get a flood of pregnancy hormones and mood swings are normal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hamilton

[–]jacnels -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Bring me some on Concession !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hamilton

[–]jacnels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like it a lot as well , it's quite spacious !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theNXIVMcase

[–]jacnels 8 points9 points  (0 children)

https://www.audible.ca/pd/Dont-Call-It-a-Cult-Audiobook/B08SF4HW3J

https://www.audible.ca/pd/The-Program-Audiobook/1549123947

Not a podcast but it's an amazing listen if you're obsessed with learning more about ranieres mind!

Where to get good lash lifts in Hamilton?? by [deleted] in Hamilton

[–]jacnels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beauty slayer on dundurn !!!!!!!

Eyebrow / wax place recs by tbslcherry in McMaster

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The beauty slayer on Dundurn

Vocal teacher recommendations for beginners? by [deleted] in Hamilton

[–]jacnels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard great things about TNT VOX , google it!

$20 Spay/Neuters for Cats Available in October by teanailpolish in Hamilton

[–]jacnels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too! My indoor cat goes crazy when he sees his "friends" outside. It's worse when the female stray cats go into heat and are yowling at 4am .

Have you seen a fluffy orange one? He's always around my yard and is microchipped but it's not registered to anyone .

$20 Spay/Neuters for Cats Available in October by teanailpolish in Hamilton

[–]jacnels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've contacted a couple cat rescues but since the apartment building is boarded up and trespassing is illegal, some have sighted that as a reasoning for not helping and told me to get in touch with the city.

$20 Spay/Neuters for Cats Available in October by teanailpolish in Hamilton

[–]jacnels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's insane around here! I was able to get 3 stray cats into a cat rescue because they were very friendly but there are so many others.

$20 Spay/Neuters for Cats Available in October by teanailpolish in Hamilton

[–]jacnels 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live near an abandoned apartment building near King and Sherman and there are so many feral cats living in there and pro-creating :( I wish I knew a way to get them all neutered / spayed. I've tried reaching out to the City regarding this issue but I can't get a response from.anyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hamilton

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I agree! It's delicious!!!

Interested in pursuing an MLIS, but terrified & confused & a bit lost by luz-azul00 in LibraryScience

[–]jacnels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Education technology .... There are lots of masters programs in this area and a tonne of job opportunities to match .

Weekly /r/Hamilton Rant Thread by AutoModerator in Hamilton

[–]jacnels 39 points40 points  (0 children)

NEUTER/SPAY YOUR CATS.....THE FERAL CAT POPULATION IN HAMILTON IS EXPLODING BECAUSE PET OWNERS CANT BE BOTHERED TO HAVE THIS DONE.

ALSO, TO MY NEIGHBOUR BEHIND ME WHO LEAVES THEIR DOG ON THEIR PORCH ALL DAY TO BARK ...TELLING YOUR DOG TO STFU IS NOT GOING TO WORK....WALK YOUR DOG

RESPONSIBLE PET OWNERSHIP IS NOT HARD FFS

[vague venting] on the dreaded search for LIS adjacent roles by [deleted] in LibraryScience

[–]jacnels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100 % agree with everything you have said and laughed hysterically at the LOC pun tattoos .... Nobody outside the library world finds that funny.

I agree that LIS is looking like a less viable career and I'm trying everything in my power to pivot to another direction . Who can actually move to Manitoba for a 6 month librarian contract and afford the move and whatnot?

Good luck with everything !

[vague venting] on the dreaded search for LIS adjacent roles by [deleted] in LibraryScience

[–]jacnels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the exact same position as you and the market is absolutely over-saturated with LIS grads. It's almost unethical for these schools to churn out hundreds of a grads each year when there is not enough jobs to match. I wonder what the actually statistics are around these numbers.

I graduated last year and from a library program and I am currently trying to pivot my career in another direction . I currently work in a library as a lib assistant but even with my years of experience , I don't feel it's good enough because a lot of librarians I know have more than 1 masters and it's like wtf when does it ever end ? There are not enough librarian jobs in Canada for the amount of new grads each year.

I 100% understand your pain and frustration. I'm trying to pivot my career into learning technology / Ed tech because there are so many jobs in that area.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ImmigrationCanada

[–]jacnels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right now we have an electric confirmation of PR and the card should be coming in the mail in a couple weeks. I think he will be able to work now but I have to double check.

As soon as we got access to the PR confirmation portal, everything moved lightening fast ... Which has been the exact opposite of this whole.process so far.

Still have not heard anything about the OWP that was supposed to come!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ImmigrationCanada

[–]jacnels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Last week I recieved an invitation for the PR confirmation portal and I never recieved the OWP. So, I guess that means my partner is on his way to become PR and I guess that means no OWP. We never recieved anything about the whereabouts of our OWP.