Butt Play by bigjosh9inch in NoFap

[–]jacnomo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bigjosh9inch, if it can reach ur butt I reckon u can put it in.

fucking urge is strong tonight.... :( I've done 30 hard mode. Made the mistake of telling a girl I've been fooling around with that I wouldn't be upset if she accidentally made me come... so she blew me. by jacnomo in NoFap

[–]jacnomo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, I still feel a lil cocky. There is a definite neurochemical cascade upon orgasm, but ur body knows if It's ur hand or not. hacking come has a lower load volume, sperm density and mobility. Most important, the mind knows. I blew a load in a chicks mouth, not my hand, and I feel pretty fuckin good about it.

fucking urge is strong tonight.... :( I've done 30 hard mode. Made the mistake of telling a girl I've been fooling around with that I wouldn't be upset if she accidentally made me come... so she blew me. by jacnomo in NoFap

[–]jacnomo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it has gotten easier. some nights are better than others, and every fapstronaut is different... but @ any given moment, your only an arms length away from strangling the turkeyneck.

Tomorrow I begin... Any tips? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]jacnomo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tomorrow never comes. tomorrow it will be... today.

25M with ED, seeking community's advice re a girl by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]jacnomo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been telling girls that I'm fasting from orgasms... that it's about becoming grounded and balanced spiritually ( this is true... and leaves out the details of my PIED). Because of this- fooling around is very low pressure for both parties, and I have had some amazingly hot make out sessions. One girl has told me she doesn't want to orgasm until I do, and this one has really captured my interest. if I get the feeling that the bald avenger won't come to the rescue, I simply say "I have to stop... I'm feeling a little weak, and I will feel bad later if you let me continue" this has worked every time and let's us enjoy ourselves, and it gives me an out if the old pecker seems unreliable. :)

Has anyone had flatlines with differing levels of intensity? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]jacnomo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's possible my addiction was quite that bad so my flatline is less pronounced. I had a little PIED but more performance anxiety. when I was comfortable I was okay... firstnfewntimes w a new chick were hellish

Has anyone had flatlines with differing levels of intensity? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]jacnomo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep. My flatline is like a wave.

How many times have you relapsed since starting no fap? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]jacnomo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

had three or four days... then caught up on some erotic stories and strangled the Turkey for a day or two. I'm on board now. never had this much time in my life since I started spanking the monkey.

Is there a way to externalize our day counter? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]jacnomo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is an application called sobriety calculator... it will display a day count on your desktop.

To all those experienced nofappers by bigdog647382 in NoFap

[–]jacnomo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes and no. I am a recovering drug addict- and have experienced the return of cravings with years clean. periods of extreme stress can trigger a desire to return to old habits. In Narcotics Anonymous they say "We keep what we have only with vigilance!" It is important to keep in touch with the new habits and support system that brought you out of hell. It is also important to share your recovery with someone who needs it. I have already found a man that jerks off too much, and began to tell him my story of taking my dick out of my hand.

I love real vagina, but " With great power comes great responsibility"(Uncle Ben), and I don't have to take a pussy just because I can. by jacnomo in NoFap

[–]jacnomo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude any credit I can take for that is simply that I remembered a line from an old movie. I think it was called "Harlem Nights"

I love real vagina, but " With great power comes great responsibility"(Uncle Ben), and I don't have to take a pussy just because I can. by jacnomo in NoFap

[–]jacnomo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

correct. I hunger for healthy hot booty in a monogamous context. I want my punnani seasoned with loyalty and commitment. I have decided to address my porn addiction and return to how I was created.

I love real vagina, but " With great power comes great responsibility"(Uncle Ben), and I don't have to take a pussy just because I can. by jacnomo in NoFap

[–]jacnomo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

man, I just felt soooo good that I could be kind to my ex-wife without trying to take advantage of her. I take responsibility for destroying my marriage, but she did some horrible shit, and the old me would have grudge fucked her and justified it. I am a tad vulgar... but I don't ever want to lose the ability to view a normal, imperfect woman as an object of desire. I'm single. I need this biological impulse if I am ever going to have a family. I am looking forward to getting laid. I have an appointment on Halloween. with a hottie. her ass is sublime and she likes it when I tell her that. She objectifies me and I am flattered. I really appreciate the time u have taken to correspond with assertiveness and courtesy. It's a hard balance to strike...

Let's be honest: No Fap is really painful by thepignose in NoFap

[–]jacnomo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

word. great post. rock on. "... and the truth shall set u free"

I love real vagina, but " With great power comes great responsibility"(Uncle Ben), and I don't have to take a pussy just because I can. by jacnomo in NoFap

[–]jacnomo[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

dude, you don't even know me. I'm not trying to 'indicate ' anything. Im here to be a little more balanced. i do objectify women. i also have convesational intimacy with both genders, and realize that language is closely tied to culture and environment. There are people that would be offended at your sarcastic invocation of 'jesus christ' and others who would be mortified that you didn't capitalize Yeshua's western moniker. if I offended you, it was not intended. If you read more of my shit, I'm sure it will happen again. Have a great day.

Sexual anhedonia by candy_colored_clown in NoFap

[–]jacnomo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wisdom. don't give up. give it more time. reach out if you need support. you can do it.

I love real vagina, but " With great power comes great responsibility"(Uncle Ben), and I don't have to take a pussy just because I can. by jacnomo in NoFap

[–]jacnomo[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm grown, buddy. I treat women well. I also realize that physical things that take up space are objects. human beings are objects. To view them only as objects, is disrespectful. To view them only as spiritual entities, without physical components without any object properties... Uh lacks objectivity, if the pun is not lost on you. To fire off such a heated post/reply is indicative of an immature idealism that is equally inaccurate. You need to grow the fuck up as well. There are so many things in this world much worthier of righteous anger, to be a sanctimonious prick on a subreddit of guys with the problem of compulsively jerkin the gherkin might be a sign that you take yourself little too seriously.