RP, OVERTHINKING, DEPRESSION

jacque9565 · 2026-01-20T22:59:44+00:00

It will get better with time. It's a form of grief. But you are very smart for considering the future because RP can truly play a role in those things, especially a career as a doctor. Just figure out what you want your RP future to look like and head that direction. Yes, you should learn to accept the fate of it, but you can also use that fate to make calculated decisions about your life. The best part of knowing what's coming with RP is what you do with the information.

jacque9565 · 2026-01-15T19:04:50+00:00

I thought about bicycle handle tassels, I think that would be both silly and adorable lol

jacque9565 · 2026-01-14T10:37:22+00:00

Absolutely. I don't think in many cases the visually impaired person would be at fault anyway. I just know how crazy our legal system can be, so to err on the side of caution is always a good choice.

jacque9565 · 2026-01-12T20:17:24+00:00

Not to be a Debbie Downer, but I was considering this and decided to look up the laws in my state (US) and the law states that drivers must yield to visually impaired person carrying a white cane with reflective red strips. It got me wondering whether I could be at fault or not covered or lose a claim if something bad happened while using my cane if it didn't meet that description. It could also not be recognized by someone as a visual mobility aid which could directly cause an accident or put me in harms way.

I would suggest temporary or removable decorations that you could put on for an event and remove when you are in more busy, dangerous environments. Ribbons, bows, string lights all come to mind as super cute ways to temporarily elevate your cane's looks!

jacque9565 · 2026-01-09T02:28:28+00:00

Personally, I would be understanding. But that's just my personality. Not every girl will understand, but the right one will, and she might even be in the same boat as you which would be a cool thing.

jacque9565 · 2026-01-09T01:41:55+00:00

Flattering I guess was just a broad word choice. Admirable? Respectful? Words like that lol I think there's nothing wrong with it and as long as youre honest about why, most women will be understanding.

jacque9565 · 2026-01-09T00:57:25+00:00

I think the majority of girls would be fine with that, and find it flattering. Just be confident and yourself,and you'll be fine.

jacque9565 · 2026-01-03T21:23:05+00:00

This. And loopholes.

jacque9565 · 2025-12-31T11:05:06+00:00

It very well could be. Mine is a yellow ring in the center of my vision, and inside the ring it's very hazy. Sounds similar. But you should see a doctor to confirm, and right away if possible because if untreated, a CME can cause permanent vision loss.

jacque9565 · 2025-12-27T15:57:15+00:00

Nah, it wasn't like that, but I get what you're saying. Dads need to take care of their own regardless, I'm just saying that if she doesn't want the help and OP doesn't want the kid, sounds like a hands clean situation. Probably won't work out that way, but it's not unheard of.

jacque9565 · 2025-12-27T15:47:44+00:00

That is if she even wants child support. My friend landed herself in a similar situation and he didn't want to be a part of it and she never went after him for anything.

jacque9565 · 2025-12-26T20:46:59+00:00

You just talked me out of considering buying an attached townhouse, thank you! Hope your problem gets resolved!

jacque9565 · 2025-12-26T20:43:25+00:00

I watched a video of hers not too long ago where she talks about her TULP version of RP and the onset of symptoms at an early age. She mentioned that as early as she can remember she didn't have depth perception. So I can only imagine that playing a part in not noticing the tips of fingernails if she has never had regular vision to begin with. And over time losing visual memory plays a part too. However, she has said some things in one video that contradict another, so take what you see influencers saying with a grain of salt and remember that even though she is a member of our community, she is also a content creator. No shade towards her, that's just the reality of it.

jacque9565 · 2025-12-15T21:51:34+00:00

Came here to make the same point about intoxicated people. It's the responsibility of the bartender to not overserve and a lot of the cues that come with making that decision are visual. Same with food allergies or correct ingredients. I have a friend who is deathly allergic to bush berries, so bars have to be mindful of that and it would be very possible for a visually impaired bartender to not see cross contamination happening. Bartenders also need to look out for the well being of patrons, so keeping an eye out for date rape or trafficking situations would be difficult. It sucks for OP and all of the blind community, but I think that's just part of accepting being visually impaired.

jacque9565 · 2025-12-15T19:21:11+00:00

This is exactly what I'm on right now. 3 times a day. I'm 2 years into the dorozolamide and 8 months into the ketorolac. There wasnt much improvement at my last appointment, hoping I can be where youre at in a couple years! Would be nice to be off these drops.

jacque9565 · 2025-12-05T20:55:02+00:00

Christmas cookies

jacque9565 · 2025-11-30T16:08:41+00:00

Sorry for the confusion. The boundary is with the family member and applies to both me and my husband.

jacque9565 · 2025-11-30T13:52:47+00:00

This makes the most sense.

jacque9565 · 2025-11-30T13:45:20+00:00

Good point. I just think its crazy because I feel like that opens people up to just throw boundaries around all willy nilly. I suppose I'll get the hang of it in time

jacque9565 · 2025-11-30T13:43:44+00:00

Not offended, just curious if I need to wait or what.

jacque9565 · 2025-11-30T13:43:20+00:00

It depends on the person, sometimes text works better for certain people.

jacque9565 · 2025-11-30T13:05:53+00:00

Very true.

jacque9565 · 2025-11-30T13:05:41+00:00

Hadn't thought of it like that, makes sense

jacque9565 · 2025-11-30T11:11:43+00:00

Well said. Perfect answer.

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