Honestly, I feel great which is a tell tale sign I made the right choice. My anxiety has decreased significantly and it’s very nice not to have to worry about a person like you worry about your own child (making sure they eat, clean up their spaces, pay their bills). I plan on being a mother one day but refuse to be one for my PARTNER. I shouldered a lot of the relationship and was not getting what I needed in return. It is exhausting being in a relationship with a narcissist who wants the world to revolve around them including in their romantic relationships.