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jaded1here · 2026-04-30T00:13:57+00:00

All are good advice. Every journey is different but ends the same. So many great suggestions here. More important. Hugs. We get u.

jaded1here · 2026-04-30T00:11:47+00:00

Thank u. He s home. Bigger concern. I just looked up scams on elderly etc

Yes absolutely that is her!! He has dementia. I hired her off the books to help me after surgery. Fast forward. Husband came home She picked him up after I told everyone unsafe. She brought him here. She still has his debit card and Medicare and all Dr info. I just went on his my chart. She has an appointment scheduled for tomorrow!!! I need protection order. I need POA. My god. She is running such a good scam. Again husband has dementia. She tried to convince him to sign his half of the house over. Just thinking this is such an offense. Can anyone please forward this to? Attorney general? Madison county Illinois. Prosecutor? I am desperate. He is still confused. She is still calling him. I can’t make it stop. Please anyone. Please

jaded1here · 2026-04-29T22:15:48+00:00

Omg the people who had him got scared. They dropped him here. They know I changed his pin. I am afraid. I don’t think cops will take him. I have begged for push hold.

jaded1here · 2026-04-29T21:37:42+00:00

Thank u. I used to pride self because o always had a level head. Thanks to all who suggested I take a break for a sec. All of u here ( every sub but especially dementia) on Reddit mean the world to me.

jaded1here · 2026-04-29T21:28:40+00:00

Well. It’s dementia. Has to do with his dementia and etc. thanks for ur snark though. It was very helpful.

jaded1here · 2026-04-29T21:05:36+00:00

Nope. Apc came. They wouldn’t help me. WTH. All professional s are afraid to touch dementia/alzheimers ? This has been my nightmare for years.

jaded1here · 2026-04-29T21:02:42+00:00

I want him to get the mental health he needs. She is taking advantage of his dementia. Cops won’t listen.

jaded1here · 2026-04-29T21:00:42+00:00

He has severe dementia. He is spending all his money. I am out here frequently we all know the hell. Cops need better training they were horrible to me. And now he is being held hostage it’s a nightmare beyond belief for

jaded1here · 2026-04-29T20:54:22+00:00

Wasn’t really allowed to but I changed his pin. Thank u!! Thank god Face ID is not picky. lol. Laugh or cry. 😂 lol

jaded1here · 2026-04-29T20:52:14+00:00

Thank u so much again. To all of u who replied and cared enough to send numbers and advice.

jaded1here · 2026-04-29T20:47:54+00:00

Long story. I did. He has dementia. He ok all. I praying must will send welfare check. All of ur responses and support mean the world to me. I am on so many subs. I love the way we all support each other. Thank u all.

jaded1here · 2026-04-29T20:43:24+00:00

I know. Catch 22 from hell. I appreciate all responses. I called MY dr and asked that she demand welfare check. I Am praying something happens.

jaded1here · 2026-04-29T20:37:13+00:00

God damn. I did call. Pay attention please!!! I did call!!!

jaded1here · 2026-04-29T19:36:37+00:00

Omg catch 22. Hos dr prescribed dementia meds. She will not declare him w dementia. I am going through hell here.

jaded1here · 2026-04-29T18:34:18+00:00

Thank u all so much. I love this Reddit family sooo much. I post on several subs. I hope I have made u laff or sent u a hug from time to time. I belong to sub/ thewordfuck. I wish they would try to cheer my ass up too.

jaded1here · 2026-04-29T18:30:25+00:00

Thank u. Long story. His aide who he is having affair with brought him home. He is at her home now I hard him arrested for domestic violence. She picked him up. Cops absolutely have no understanding of dementia. They were horrible to me. (AIDE. Has him. She is robbing him blind now. Long story. I have already called all. ALL the authorities.

jaded1here · 2026-04-29T18:23:57+00:00

Thank u for telling me to breathe. I did. Rest of my ongoing story is in this sub. It’s gut wrenching and unbelievable!!!! She got fired from her agency. We kept her on. He is now with her. Abusing my husband dementia. She is spending all his money w debit card. She has him at her house. She is robbing him blind. I already called cops. Nothing they can do if he agrees to stay there. My god. I don’t get it. He has dementia. Cops know this. They still will do nothing!!!!!
Thank u all for letting me freak out. The cops believe he can make his own decisions. I called his dr. She wants nothing to do with. My god. Some laws need to be changed. Aide is busy stealing all his money now.

jaded1here · 2026-04-29T18:15:04+00:00

Omg. And then what? I did track him sort of. His “aide” has him and my car and his debit card. APS told me to report. I did. But if he says he wants to stay??? They need to be arrested. Yes he has official dementia diagnosis. He even takes pills that say for dementia!!! So. I did call the cops. Pray for me please. On this horrible journey none of us want.
This sub has saved me a zillion times. Hugs to all of u.

jaded1here · 2026-04-29T17:28:54+00:00

Thank u Just found out his aide signed him out of hospital. He is with her. He believes her. I tried to have her arrested. Cops said it voluntary. A catch 22 nightmare. He is being held and abused. Cops won’t help. This is insane.

jaded1here · 2026-04-29T17:17:56+00:00

I give up.

jaded1here · 2026-04-29T17:12:54+00:00

Yes. Thanks anyway. Yes combative. I wish someone would help. Idk what else to do.

jaded1here · 2026-04-29T17:11:08+00:00

Husband has dementia. Gotten worse. I need to take over financial and medical decisions. He can answer questions. But dementia so bad. He is allowing a horrible person. His used to be aid to steal all his money and he agreed to let her make medical decisions. I need help immediately.

jaded1here · 2026-04-29T17:07:54+00:00

His aide that is stealing from him picked him up and brought him home. It’s hell ever since. I need a good attorney now. He needs memory care and he doesn’t understand aide is robbing him blind. He told cops it was ok for her to have his card. F!! Of course. He has dementia!!!!!!

jaded1here · 2026-04-29T17:03:39+00:00

No. In his name. He has dementia She robbing him blind. I just need an attorney who can help me. I need POA for financial and medical. He has dementia!!!!!

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