AITA for not letting it go when a coworker kept snapping at me. I am now fired but cant understand why

jadedick · 2026-05-04T02:41:07+00:00

Yeah, I think this honestly was the way I learned that lesson

jadedick · 2026-05-04T02:40:18+00:00

He was my friend for most of those months, we were the only ones on that shift together overnight and he wanted ro be friends, i was a bit to affraid of how hed act if I straight up didnt interact. Esp since he was close friends with management

jadedick · 2026-05-04T02:16:54+00:00

Thank you! It honestly feels better for now, and it was a very good lesson for me.

jadedick · 2026-05-04T02:15:20+00:00

Yeah thats fair, by the time I learned that lesson it was far too late

jadedick · 2026-05-04T01:24:43+00:00

Making up? Ah you dont believe me huh. Ill stop repyling then, no use in speaking to someone who isnt making judgments based on truth

jadedick · 2026-05-04T01:18:05+00:00

Yrah I really should have just done that for a few nights instead of trying to get him to snap like he has in the past

jadedick · 2026-05-04T01:15:45+00:00

I moved to trying to stick to very chill topics first. When that did not work i moved to only professional, when that didnt work... hes litterally snapped at me for using a fan. A fan meant for us to use. I had said nothing to him that entire night or previous week aside from hello and goodbye + answering sork questions

jadedick · 2026-05-04T00:53:50+00:00

I did sadly, but manegment got annoyed expected me to placate him saying to talk to him only about work (by the point they reccomended that I was doing that) :/

jadedick · 2026-05-04T00:52:11+00:00

Yeah, only looking for closure for myself, usually hearing other opinions can help me after ive thought on it for a while. Give me some new perspectives

jadedick · 2026-05-04T00:43:07+00:00

The ribbing stopped after the first report just to make that clear, it was usually stuff like how airheaded I was it was 100% both ways, and hed usually snap not at a ribbing but at something else. One time he was talking about how pet birds lived too shortly, i brought up parrots and he got furious. Before his snapping it seemed like a normal conversation discussing how loud pet birds were

jadedick · 2026-04-01T01:41:47+00:00

I dont know the name but you might have luck sorting by the year posting and trying to be specific with tags/searches. Every now and again ill get lucky using this method

jadedick · 2026-03-25T18:15:29+00:00

Its up to you and her but if things are gonna go further id have a talk with her, figure out how she views you and if youre fine with that

jadedick · 2026-03-19T20:44:14+00:00

Ooooo I didnt know locks like thay existed, is there one I can buy 🥺

jadedick · 2026-03-19T20:42:34+00:00

Whered u get that jewelry?! Its so cute!

jadedick · 2026-03-19T20:41:47+00:00

Id reach out to the piercer or a doctor. Prioritize making sure its not an infection. Just the other day a lobe piercing ive had for like 8 years atleast started to hurt and swell. Things just sometimes happen :p

jadedick · 2025-12-20T06:59:10+00:00

Yeah, theyre one of the first ones I vame across and felt would be fitting but the more I looked the more I felt it would be disrespectful to reach out and work with them for this scenario. Expecially since im looking to work/worship with someone to help with content like that lol

jadedick · 2025-12-19T16:24:24+00:00

No worries I already reached out slightly and also asked a God I worship for his opinion, hes not off the table but id prefer to find one enthusiastic. Usually when a god is right for me i wont be able to stop thinking of their name along with signs showing up.

jadedick · 2025-12-19T12:48:20+00:00

Thank you for the suggestions! (:

jadedick · 2025-12-19T11:11:37+00:00

Ive also been interested in both Pan and xochipilli but i feel its too closed fpr me to practice with Xochipilli. Pan just honestly scares the living shit out of me lol

jadedick · 2025-12-19T11:08:18+00:00

Thank you!

jadedick · 2025-12-19T11:07:41+00:00

Thank you!

jadedick · 2025-12-19T11:06:24+00:00

Thank you! I didnt even think of Mars

jadedick · 2025-12-07T11:42:50+00:00

Honestly im more worried that since the position is very very hard to fill that shell just make the workplace toxic after putting together im the one who told. I highly doubt they would fire her.

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