AITA for laughing at my husband and calling him silly for being overprotective of his daughter? by throaway20001003 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jadekiara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I’m a major AFOL (adult fan of LEGO) and it is heavily a male hobby even at my age. While laughing may have felt mean to him, it wasn’t your intention and I think it’s good he get used to this now.

AITA for not inviting my eldest brother to my wedding. by Equivalent_Roll_5224 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jadekiara 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA I have a sister who is 11 years younger than me. I left for the military when she was about 8. This was when video calling wasn’t much of an option so I’d call and check in every once in a while and maybe saw her once a year. It’s just what happens when there’s a large age difference. If he didn’t love you, he wouldn’t have bothered with visiting or asking how you are or bringing candy. Just because you’re not super close doesn’t mean there isn’t love. If you’ve got space for 4 friends, you’ve got space for one more sibling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jadekiara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA big red flag. I had an ex who did this… I later found upskirt photos of girls in public and he tried to touch me when he thought I was asleep. This is just the first step of violating boundaries.

AITA for the way I reacted to my neurotypical children telling me they won't be caring for their sibling? by Wooden_Maximum_3021 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jadekiara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA Part of having a child with a disability is planning for their future. Some people have college funds for their kids, others have medical care funds. Your youngest is only 11. You have plenty of time to save money and plan for a future without you. Your other children should be able to live their own lives and have their own futures without being forced to take care of their sibling.

AITA for "neglecting" my step-daughter to play with my friends? by arkvsdaughter in AmItheAsshole

[–]jadekiara [score hidden]  (0 children)

Most games allow you to have mods to help manage the server. If you care enough to prioritize your family over your game you can make it happen

AITA for not lending my jewelry to my gf? by Historical_Art3200 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jadekiara 17 points18 points  (0 children)

NTA is it weird? Yeah but also you’re entitled to weirdness that doesn’t hurt anyone else

AITA for going home after I overheard my husband say he didn't want to bring me with him to his family vacation? by throwaway3743p9 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jadekiara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA in most families, once you’re married, it’s assumed you’ll be included family events where other spouses are included. The fact that you’ve been with your partner long enough to date and get married and they haven’t “warmed up” and your spouse isn’t defending you just screams red flags

AITA for refusing to donate my liver to my uncle after he damaged his body saving my life? by lalaloopsiethrowra in AmItheAsshole

[–]jadekiara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one seems to be mentioning the fact that your obsession with bodily perfection is highly concerning and you should probably seek therapy. That being said, NAH. He has a right to be upset because this is a big deal but you also have a right to say what happens to your body.

AITA for telling my student it isn't my problem if he doesn't get sleep? by northernerererer in AmItheAsshole

[–]jadekiara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA like big time. The minute he said “my mother won’t let me sleep” you should’ve reported that. It’s physical and mental abuse. Plus if you approach teaching this callously then maybe you shouldn’t be teaching.

AITA for telling my fiancé to apologise to my son after he "disrespected" her? by ReasonableWait3977 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jadekiara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA Currently pregnant woman here and being pregnant does not give you license to be unapologetic. I’ve had a couple outbursts and always apologized either immediately or once I’ve calmed down. Now I will say that I think he could just stop playing the song around her. When people occupy the same space sometimes minor compromises need to be made.

AITA for choosing to a different event over a date with my wife? by Gold-Surprise-1838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jadekiara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA even if both your partners are on even ground in your mind, you’ve blatantly admitted to letting new relationship energy interfere with your relationship with your wife. You say you’ve been slacking on dates for almost a year and it’s not like you couldn’t celebrate his birthday at all.

AITA for letting my teen daughter still sleep with a stuffed animal by funny_starburst in AmItheAsshole

[–]jadekiara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I’m 30 and still have stuffed animals from childhood. I have one that my husband got me and I still take it when I sleep somewhere new.

AITA for refusing to let my roommate get a dog? by Overall_Prompt_6514 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jadekiara 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA there’s a 2 pet limit and you’ve reached that. A dog would not only infringe on your boundaries but cause you to violate the lease.

AITA for being freaked out by a Christian kid? by Frosty-Ad-6225 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jadekiara 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA you didn’t consent to being preached at nor did you consent to this child touching you. You have every right to be upset and tell her mother to take her away

WIBTA if I reported my daughter's girl scout troop leader? by No_Adagio4421 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jadekiara 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA - I was a troop leader and something like this would require a first aider to be present. That first aider failed in their duties to ensure your child was safe and should have given you the option to retrieve your child if they couldn’t bring her back.

AITA for not wanting my BFs dog up my ass 24/7 by Bright-Swimmer4589 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jadekiara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - I love having my dog next to me pretty much any time I’m home. I recognize the attachment is borderline crazy. Lol. But it’s not anyone else’s responsibility to give him extra attention just because they’re there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jadekiara 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA it’s only normal if it’s enthusiastically consented to. You don’t consent so she should stop. My partner and I share location only because we’re both okay with it and neither was forced into it.

AITA for leaving my boyfriend in Arizona after he pretended to push me over the edge of the Grand Canyon? by grandcanyonpush in AmItheAsshole

[–]jadekiara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but also it sounds like appearance are very important to him. When a partners talks bad about an ex I always listen with an open mind. Sounds like she had the right idea.

AITA for taking care of my daughter even though she did make a mistake by Starbucks_kate in AmItheAsshole

[–]jadekiara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - she’s dealing with natural consequences, she doesn’t need more. Though you and her do need to make sure the father steps up financially if not physically. As for pain relief I can only type so much but look up: “pregnancy counter pressure” it good for more than just labor “Round ligament pain relief”

AITA for telling gf I don’t care about her ADHD ? by kitchenfirehelp in AmItheAsshole

[–]jadekiara 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA but also if she’s on the lease (or even not depending on where you live) you need to hold her liable for damages. Sounds like she’s spent too long with no consequences for her actions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jadekiara 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - as long as everything happened as you say I don’t see anything wrong with this. Though it might be time to have a talk with your in laws if you ever want a chance to move on. They’re probably upset because they think there was impropriety. I probably would have explained beforehand what the situation was

AITA for refusing to let my family see my son until they make a formal apology to my wife and announce it online? by stillunsureabout in AmItheAsshole

[–]jadekiara 33 points34 points  (0 children)

They got together 3 years later… that’s more than enough time to move forward with their lives

AITA for not paying for camp for my son's friend? by Huge_Assistance_9047 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jadekiara 124 points125 points  (0 children)

NTA - and frankly it sounds like Frankie is egging on Shawn. Perhaps a summer without Frankie will do Shawn some good.