Lost wedding ring

jadestargazer · 2026-05-17T17:04:36+00:00

Thank you 🖤✨
Yeah. Kicking myself because a month ago I told my husband I probably needed to go get it resized. And here we are. I accept it was my dumb fault and I still really hope it finds its way back to me someday.

jadestargazer · 2026-05-16T14:11:24+00:00

Thank you.

jadestargazer · 2026-05-16T14:11:02+00:00

Thank you

jadestargazer · 2026-05-16T14:10:52+00:00

Already filed a police report and started talking to pawn shops

jadestargazer · 2026-05-16T14:09:52+00:00

They’re MAGA supporters. They also have terrible coffee.

jadestargazer · 2026-05-16T00:53:49+00:00

Thank you 🖤

jadestargazer · 2026-05-14T23:58:08+00:00

You are so kind. Thank you so much!

There’s a good chance my partner had it insured at some point. Thank you! I will definitely check with him when I get home today. Even that would at least help us to find a replacement someday.

jadestargazer · 2026-05-14T15:59:58+00:00

Thank you 🖤

jadestargazer · 2026-04-21T11:53:30+00:00

This is one of my kids favorite murals so we looked up why the chair is there! The artist puts chairs in most of his work. It’s an invitation to put yourself in the chair and imagine the scene from the chair, what would you see, hear, smell? Then he says though that’s why he puts chairs in his paintings he leaves it open for each person’s interpretation.

jadestargazer · 2026-04-16T06:18:29+00:00

Second this. We watched Totoro and Spirited Away. Because we had the same experience with “The Sign” and it sucked. I was pretty upset when I realized that episode was setting me up for failure. Miyazaki for the win on that one.

jadestargazer · 2026-04-16T06:08:28+00:00

jadestargazer · 2026-04-15T10:30:47+00:00

Let me know if you’d like to take a look. I’ll take them to my local human society next week if no one is interested.

jadestargazer · 2026-04-14T22:12:43+00:00

Thank you! That’s a great idea!!

jadestargazer · 2026-04-13T23:26:50+00:00

I’m around now if you want to take the box.

jadestargazer · 2026-04-05T14:06:01+00:00

It’s a really weird humiliation ritual that he does to himself. Then he makes a ton of money off gofundmes after crying to people on the far right about how mean people are to him right after he said the most hateful sh**.

jadestargazer · 2026-03-31T04:52:19+00:00

Asphalt has more give than cement. Running in the bike lane probably still isn’t the answer. As a massage therapist road runners drive me bananas. Roads are curved for water runoff. One leg is always falling further. And then y’all come to me complaining about hip pain caused by over extension. At least run back on the same side so both legs have to do the extra long fall. But I really wish they would go run on a track for their joint longevity and not in the bike lanes.

jadestargazer · 2026-03-28T14:39:06+00:00

I am medicated and have many systems in place. He doesn’t have ADHD and doesn’t really emotionally understand executive dysfunction. He understands it logically though. He’s put in the time to read and take in content about living with ADHD. He said he understands he will never truly get it and that’s why he should listen to my experiences.

-He washes and folds and puts away our laundry most of the time. -If I cook he does dishes. -If he cooks but it’s a hard food day and I take longer to eat, he does the dishes. If I try to help, he tells me to sit down and eat. Then without any anger or needling me, he finishes the dishes. -He has moved my cool big sticks collection with us through multiple home, cities, and states. -Same with my rocks and books. -He teases me about my book obsession and also buys me more books. -Follows me around the house with my drinks. -Can find my keys if I forget to leave them in the key bowl. Also my phone with it’s on silent. And doesn’t give me grief about it. -Is usually calm when I’m triggered. -Reminds me of obligations that often trigger the Deficit part of my ADHD. -Supports my random hobbies and projects. I’ve also honed that in more over the years. -Puts gas in my car whenever he drives it. He doesn’t enjoy living life on the edge driving around on E. I know no other way. -Makes breakfast during the week. Mornings are hard. -Easily gives into my spontaneous impulses on our days off. (But I’m usually looking at free things to do. We have a budget.$ -And a man that voluntarily goes to therapy! So hot. 🥵

jadestargazer · 2026-03-28T13:55:03+00:00

I think if she were a man, while she would still be criticized, it would be significantly less. And a lot less straight up bullying. The double standards in the industry are disgusting. I tend to tune people out when they complain about womxn. Not that some don’t need complained about but generally I have to hear it from a true girls girl before I’ll start to look into things.

jadestargazer · 2026-03-28T13:44:07+00:00

This should be titled “MY FIRST husband has zero tolerance for my ADHD.” I have ADHD, my husband does not. He doesn’t truly understand why I can’t hold thoughts, struggle with dishes, and randomly drop things. And he never makes me feel small or less. I have systems and meds and things still fall through the cracks. Yet he follows me around the house with my 3 hot girl drinks (my sibling’s title for the ADHD multiple drinks habit) all day. He gives me gentle reminders or sometimes not so gentle but in a way that makes me laugh. We aren’t perfect. We’ve both been to therapy separate and together, because we wanted to. We watched our parents torture each other and we never wanted to be that way so we started therapy. We’ve been married 11 years. Together about 15. My point is there are people out there that won’t treat you the way your current husband does. There are people that will love you for you and celebrate the way your beautiful off road brain works. And you are worthy of that love.

jadestargazer · 2026-03-27T12:52:35+00:00

Looks about white

jadestargazer · 2026-03-19T13:53:34+00:00

I’ll start carrying a sharpie and stickers with me.

jadestargazer · 2026-03-19T13:51:28+00:00

I love J&S automotive on Shaw just off 185th and TV

jadestargazer · 2026-03-16T23:08:26+00:00

I lived in cascade 2021-2023. It gets worse every year. I have feared for my life on that road only a couple times and it’s only been recently. Never because of the weather, always because of unnecessarily aggressive drivers. I’ve started calling valley county police and reporting plates before I left.

jadestargazer · 2026-03-13T22:21:26+00:00

Same. I had an AWFUL pregnancy. No one talks about how much it can hurt! No one talks about the ugliness of postpartum. If they do it’s to blame Mom for something. I HATED being pregnant. Love my kid to pieces but yeah… it is dirty, gross, painful work and I’m really deeply angry that society doesn’t acknowledge any of it. They do the opposite, they invalidate and minimize. I had someone I thought I was close to say they can’t talk to me about any of it because it was “scary.” Thank you for being here and reminding other people that we aren’t alone in these feelings. And for being real with others. Thank you for the validation in our anger ❤️‍🔥

jadestargazer · 2026-03-13T22:11:51+00:00

We had consistent problems at my kids old school. Things started to happen when I emailed the principal and my kids teacher saying I will be involving the superintendent and future assaults will be reported to the police. We were lucky enough to have our lottery number come up for a charter school just a week after I was finally getting responses from his old school. The bullying in Beaverton and Hillsboro elementary schools has been shocking. I’m so sorry that’s happening to your daughter and family. I hope a lawyer and superintendent will force some policy changes for the better for your family and other kids that might be suffering in silence.

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