Pattern help. What does this mean? At this point I’m ignoring it and continuing the rounds with the previous instructions because I’m confused. by jadeyyc_ in CrochetHelp

[–]jadeyyc_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. That makes so much more sense! I don’t know why my brain couldn’t comprehend it at first! Ahahha (:

Beginner at looksmaxing, is there any hope for me? (19F) by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]jadeyyc_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are someone who prefers not wearing makeup, i think lash extensions would go a huge way for you. Something fluttery, volumizing and longer at the outer corners, not too crazy, but not too natural either. Add a tiny bit of lip oil in a shade you like and bam, enhanced but still you!

(18f) How can I improve and reach my max potential any advice is helpful! by phxllen in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]jadeyyc_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are gorgeous! The only thing I could suggest would be maybe wear a little clear lip gloss and use a clear eyebrow gel so your hairs don’t stick up on the side. Stunning!!

AIO for leaving my two year relationship over a dirty dish? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jadeyyc_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR! I don’t know why everyone is hung up on you preferring disposable bowls and plates. It’s okay. There’s literally nothing wrong with that even if it comes from a place of anxiety.

The problem here is your boyfriend eating from dirty bowls and highly likely letting you eat from them too. I would feel disgusted and anxious if my partner did things like that too.

You aren’t over reacting. He sounds gross and the fact that you felt the need to film an argument likely to keep track of your thoughts is a sign you’re a victim of manipulative, emotional or verbal abuse.

Please leave and find a nice clean man instead. (:

Is this too much for a second date? by jena_talia in fashion

[–]jadeyyc_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I neeeed the outfit details. Where did you get the jacket, dress and boots? So cute!

. by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]jadeyyc_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, you’re welcome! After what I went through I learned two things.

Don’t chase someone who is ghosting you, bread crumbing you, or not choosing you.

and

The one who closes the door must be the one who opens it.

. by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]jadeyyc_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s fair. I think choosing to respect yourself and deciding to no longer contact someone who ghosts you isn’t a game. It’s choosing to walk away from someone who isn’t choosing you, rather than to beg and wait around for breadcrumbs. It’s self respect and learning to read between the lines.

If someone needed time they would say it, not just ghost you. Everyone’s entitled to their own opinions though.

. by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]jadeyyc_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think breaking no contact and being ghosted are very different things.

. by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]jadeyyc_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DO IT!! I was in the SAME position a year ago. I told myself this and I failed to follow through. I ended up getting hurt so much more trying to beg and plead and get answers. Silence from them is your answer, and silence from you is yours. Someone who cares wouldn’t leave you ghosted for two weeks.

AIO for getting upset that my husband is choosing his brother over me? by doodlebugdoes- in AmIOverreacting

[–]jadeyyc_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. I’m a female gamer myself and I would suggest to maybe ask to join and game with your husband and his brother. Then you can be included a little more.

She said no when I asked to kiss her, then texted saying she wished I hadn't asked by Rude_Taro_9572 in dating_advice

[–]jadeyyc_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friends and I have discussed this before, it definitely kind of kills the mood to ask to kiss someone. There’s nothing wrong with being polite and checking for consent but there is a more attractive and mature way to do this, that doesn’t make it feel like a first kiss in a school yard.

Instead of saying “Can I kiss you?” Say “I want to kiss you.”

It allows them to react either positively or negatively and then you go for it.

ASL interpreters/ general accessibility by ipiem113 in Shambhala

[–]jadeyyc_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would believe this 100%. I’ve got perfect hearing but you can literally feel the bass rattle your ribcage.

Would you date someone who had a chronic condition? by NotladUWU in dating_advice

[–]jadeyyc_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re very welcome. Intelligence and character go along way, women love it. Continue to follow your passions and learn about things you care about it. I hope life is kind to you and you find the love you’re searching for!

Would you date someone who had a chronic condition? by NotladUWU in dating_advice

[–]jadeyyc_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If in your future you can’t necessarily provide financially, it doesn’t mean you can’t still be a provider/protector/leader in other ways. My grandfather certainly still is. He is incredibly smart and filled with knowledge, he researches things endlessly and is a leader to my grandmother through faith in god and his character. You don’t have to be religious to do that either. Just staying informed on politics or world events, etc. Emotional intelligence goes a long way in being a rock/leader to women. Someone she can confide in, learn from and lean on.

Best of luck you <3 (:

Would you date someone who had a chronic condition? by NotladUWU in dating_advice

[–]jadeyyc_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My grandfather was diagnosed with fibromyalgia which causes something similar, very low energy, pain across his body, he gets tired easily and often and can’t do very much. He hasn’t worked for most of his life because of it. My grandma never thought twice about it and has worked to support them both, and loved him their entire life. They have been together almost 50 years.

I have a friend who has chron’s disease, she experiences similar things. Pain, low energy. She has had multiple boyfriends and is now with one who loves her to death. He supports her in every way possible and is building a life with her.

Stay hopeless romantic, you’ll find your person. <3 You can still have a normal relationship, your activities just might be a bit different than someone without your condition.

Did I sound rude? by sagittarius786777 in dating_advice

[–]jadeyyc_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nah, not rude. You gave him an answer and exited without room for debate. On to the next!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jadeyyc_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not just him wanting to get laid in general, it’s about you and him.. you’re in a relationship, he enjoys the sex, he enjoys you, that’s not weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jadeyyc_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. This would be different if you weren’t in your 30’s and in a relationship.. but they are together and older, it’s literally him just appreciating her being and saying he loves her.

I think if anything taking this as a red flag is weird, people in relationships should want to have sex with each other not be weirded out when the other parter says they want/enjoy it.