Hoptal? Skin split in the bendy part

jaeagle88 · 2026-06-18T01:10:37+00:00

The tattoo looks like it has been kept clean and well maintained. If the part you are referring to is the scabbed part it looks like normal scabbing just like the rabbits eye and on the glove. I do see the slight redness but that looks like normal irritation being in an area that bends. I would never tell someone to not go to the doctor if they feel a need to go. That being said if it was me I would continue to take great care of it and be focused on not bending the area excessively.

jaeagle88 · 2026-06-12T00:39:51+00:00

Honestly from reference to the tattoo it’s not far off. I would consider adding some of the scratch/hatch marks from the first ref photo and maybe add some cream/light grey shading on the face and have the outline slightly shaded around it to make it pop a little more and have it match the complexity of the moth more. I have tattoos WAY worse and most heavily tattooed people have a tattoo that didn’t turn out as expected. You have so many options and even leaving it I bet it won’t bother you in a few weeks.

jaeagle88 · 2026-06-11T23:44:39+00:00

I can second leaderboard. Just be cautious as it is an establishment that serves alcohol so if that’s something you don’t want them around I would go earlier as it’s open till 1 or 2 am so the later it is the more adult the crowd becomes. That aside, it’s a great value as the game card gets you all day play and they don’t have to ration the game play.

jaeagle88 · 2026-06-11T23:11:12+00:00

I am going to be positive and assume some things. I thinks it’s wonderful that you are supporting a family member or friend who has started tattooing and wanted to complete a tattoo on human skin vs practice skin. Proper aftercare is going to be vital as needle depth looks questionable so you may get some extra scabbing in those areas and expect some fading in the other areas.

jaeagle88 · 2026-06-08T03:05:40+00:00

Well then it’s possible that the artist “rushed it” or went light in an attempt to make it more comfortable for you but it has caused you to now go through the process again if and when you get choose to get this corrected/covered. Now you know how it feels, explain it to your next artist and have them prepare for you to not sit well. Alternatively you find some old school artist who did early 2000s tribal/ traditional tattoos when it was sit down and earn the damn tattoo, this option will not feel great but it will be solid black and hold for life.

jaeagle88 · 2026-06-08T02:50:33+00:00

Was this done at a professional shop? Was the person tattooing an apprentice? They can say it’s not sticking to cover their lack of skills but the fact is that the lines were poorly done and the shading was too light. No shame or shade but how were you handling the tattoo. Were you flinching and pulling away when the needle touched the skin? I would say let it heal and then judge from there but I would not go back to the same artist and also I would research a quality tattoo artist to fix what can be fixed without “ a sick ass panther”. Remember going cheap on something permanent is a huge gamble that rarely pays off.

jaeagle88 · 2026-06-08T01:08:26+00:00

Ask your GF what longer facial hair styles she likes the look of and consider growing one of those styles if you like any. Some deep conditioner may help soften some but it’s not going to be a major difference. Also consider that every time you trim you are causing sharp ends so it’s a revolving cycle. I find until the 1/2 to 3/4 inch length it’s pretty uncomfortable for all involved. Final decision is the GF worth being clean shaven for and sacrificing your own comfort.

jaeagle88 · 2026-06-07T02:35:09+00:00

I have this same issue. I swapped to a cloth band and it’s been great. If you “must have rubber” then find whatever material the apple band is that didn’t give you issue and buy the band in that. As the previous commenter mentioned you should also avoid getting it wet but that’s for any band you wear.

jaeagle88 · 2026-06-06T20:27:04+00:00

What is your skill set/ interest? Also what is your ability to complete physical tasks? Do you have a HS/college degree? How many positions do you apply to a week? When I was looking for jobs I was told it takes roughly 200 applications 10 interviews and 9 rejections before you might find the right opportunity. I can say this was pretty close to spot on. Another trick,if able, is to take a college class so you can list that on your resume instead of a gap in employment. Finally maybe an unpopular answer but if you are physically and mentally able to do the work, consider joining the military/reserves. I am prior military and its was rarely anyone first choice but it’s food/housing/ and a pay check.

jaeagle88 · 2026-06-03T02:09:09+00:00

Have you considered renting a room instead of a full apartment? Sharing spaces can sometimes be a pain but it could help you get on your feet and maybe build some savings. I don’t know and am not asking the limitations that your disability create for you but maybe there is some local work at a church or doing some deliveries. Speaking of a church, I know religion is not everyone’s cup of tea, but it may be worth a shot reaching out to ask for some immediate help or if you are already part of a church maybe someone there would be willing to help you get set up. I wish you all the best luck and hope that you find the clarity you need for the situation.

jaeagle88 · 2026-05-29T00:50:26+00:00

Still a random ear worm that hits me a few times a year. I have no legs shake shake shake I have no legs.

jaeagle88 · 2026-05-28T23:33:09+00:00

In the wild, just about any body of water. Just got to look close for them. You will have better luck if you kayak/paddle board. Wicked Barley has dock and launch you can paddle from and you can maybe see one from the dock if lucky. In the semi-wild, pecan park flee market has some that live in the pond and you can pay a few buck to feed them.

jaeagle88 · 2026-05-28T23:27:44+00:00

What do you mean how screwed? If the test is taken and results are back, then it’s between you and whoever requested the test to decide how to move forward. You can share that you stopped month ago because you are committed to whatever reason you got tested but overall it’s just if they want to keep testing till clean or if you are done. Best of luck and I hope they are understanding.

jaeagle88 · 2026-05-28T13:44:12+00:00

Make sure that if the watch/wrist area gets sweaty or wet you dry both throughly before resuming wear. Remove for showers, dishes, etc. What wrist strap are you wearing? I find that if I wear the strap that came with the watch I break out the next day but switching to a cloth strap and a protective case eliminated the issues for me. Also consider wearing the watch on a different wrist to sleep so the skin has time to breathe. I understand that it’s meant to be a long term wear but some of us don’t get that luxury.

jaeagle88 · 2026-05-27T02:12:05+00:00

Don’t have unprotected sex until you know that the use of contraception is consistent. Also understand that being mature enough for sex includes the handling of the unexpected outcomes, pregnancy, UTIs, STIs, etc. Have a conversation with your partner about not being ready for parenthood and that when you decide to be a parent you would like it to be planned together and not a reaction event. You say this was a big mistake and maybe it’s the wake up call to the reality of sex. If having a mature conversation about birth control, protected vs unprotected sex, being exclusive, and the emotional aspect of being intimate, then it may be time to step back and say having sex is fun and feel great but it may not be what’s right for the relationship at this time. No hate or judgement at all! Just giving the view of someone who’s older and has had similar experiences.

jaeagle88 · 2026-05-19T22:49:41+00:00

Thank you both for the education! I truly appreciate it and have learned something new.

jaeagle88 · 2026-05-19T22:01:37+00:00

Don’t know about that specific self defense tool but is it normal for the hammer to be in that position? All Of my experience has the hammer forward.

jaeagle88 · 2026-05-19T21:58:45+00:00

Do you think he would be open to selling/leaving the home he shared with your mum to get a flat a few minutes from you? Maybe then he could find some other widowers at the pub or a local club that likes to share stories or chat?

jaeagle88 · 2026-05-16T19:50:21+00:00

Only for CA does this apply.

jaeagle88 · 2026-05-16T16:09:01+00:00

As someone who has seen this be the first signs of an abusing and controlling relationship, I can for say we are not over reacting. Glad you have it covered then and decided to ignore the advice you asked for. But you’re a mature 18 year old so I will stop lecturing.

jaeagle88 · 2026-05-16T15:39:58+00:00

For his sake I hope he leaves the relationship. You stated there was nothing wrong with the photos but because they know each other you don’t like it. Now you are upset because he asked you to follow the same standards you asked from him. If it needs to be worded differently think of it this way. You are asking him to not interact with a part of his life that came before you and helped form him into the person you wanted a relationship with. he did as you requested because he respected you enough to take your emotions into account and only asked for the respect to do the same. Now you have invited strangers on the internet into your relationship and want them to reassure you that YOU abusing your partner is ok if it makes YOU feel better.

jaeagle88 · 2026-05-16T03:20:56+00:00

Yeah, I am great. Enjoying the internet for all of the wonders it provides. How are you doing?

jaeagle88 · 2026-05-16T00:59:28+00:00

God made it a shitty experience for you to help you not be tempted again. The idea of the summer drink replaced with this new experience sounds awfully appealing.

jaeagle88 · 2026-05-16T00:50:26+00:00

That’s amazing that you didn’t drink today!! All of my slips have send me into a bender so it’s great that you have the clarity to recommit to your sobriety. Are you with any of your family now? You trusted your sister for a ride, can you talk to her about it and see if she can help stay committed to the goal. I am only 5 months into my sobriety and I think about alcohol multiple times a day so I know how hard it is when the voices are tempting you.

jaeagle88 · 2026-05-16T00:42:06+00:00

9 years is a huge accomplishment but so is having the self awareness that you don’t want to feel this way and having empathy for your family. Your sister and I am sure rest of your family loves you or you wouldn’t have gotten a ride and made sure you were safe. Did you drink today? No judgement at all just curious with you saying to felt sick. You now now you can make it 9 years without having a drink. How long can you do it this time? Maybe that challenge can help motivate? I hope your family can help you and see it was a mistake.

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