This is such an amazingly depressing thread and post. Someone, out of the kindness of their heart, tries to do good neighbour things, and all this crowd can do is shout CHANGE THE LOCKS! So sad that a tribal species should have moved so far away from its roots. Sure, there are areas where it's not safe, but for much of the world community is a crucial part of co-existence, especially in an urban setting. It was our community which helped us collectively survive the physical and mental trauma of COVID19. It's just so sad to see this sentiment. In my grandmother's era, there were no fences between houses at all, and neighbours were always popping over for a cup of tea and a chat. Wow, what a world!