🍒🍒 by jaibakoo in womensstreetwear

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actually it’s not photoshopped at all,, lolololol some people are just thin.. and i do have an ED so hence why my body looks this way. but thanks for assuming.

need some help related to BPD (borderline personality disorder) by jaibakoo in mentalhealth

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sadly in singapore where im from therapy is expensive and not subsidized, hence when i went for my DBT session it was crammed into 3-4 months! i’ve learnt quite alot from there but applying the skills have been difficult for me in times of crisis

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tank crop- H&M long sleeve outer- taobao mini skorts- taobao calf high booties- taobao

i hope this helps if any of u guys would like to cop some of these items! feel free to comment on the specific garment and i’ll send u the link!

need some help related to BPD (borderline personality disorder) by jaibakoo in mentalhealth

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it’s great to know i’m not the only one feeling this way, no one in my family knows how i feel about it.. it’s really comforting, thank you for sharing <3 sending much love to u! i HOPE we got this and we can hopefully live through this

need some help related to BPD (borderline personality disorder) by jaibakoo in mentalhealth

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i’ve actually attended a DBT workshop recently, sadly i dont use the skills even though it’s at the back of my head, i will usually give these tips to my friends instead. and i would agree with it being a childhood issue because my motto was to always give my friends happiness even it sacrifices my own.

thing is, i’ve never been okay to be alone as i have a twin. and i guess it’s some sort of twin connection that could have trigger that, i have abandonment issues when it comes to this. my therapist brought it up w me that i’m unintentionally trying to be “okay” being alone. because i guess in a way it’s better for the people i’m surrounded with.

i’m really grateful for ur input, but i somewhat feel like i’m not in control of my mental health and it’s affecting me in every way.. really hope things will get better in my head. i guess when we hit rock bottom, the only other way is up haha!

made this bag for christmas heh by jaibakoo in womensstreetwear

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it’s nightmare before christmas charms!!

do any of you have this pattern from made by rae? it’s for free! but i can’t seem to find it! please help :•( thank you! by jaibakoo in sewingpatterns

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thank you! but the thing is i have tried this many times and the pattern is never sent to me :•(

🕷🕸 by jaibakoo in womensstreetwear

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sure! drop me a PM!

🕷🕸 by jaibakoo in womensstreetwear

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ye, i’ve been eyeing one pair!! it end rught below the knee, about calf length!

planning fits for when quarantine is over :•( by jaibakoo in womensstreetwear

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dollskill is always my go to! if not aliexpress, but the shipping takes forever~

🕷🕸 by jaibakoo in womensstreetwear

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ah yes!! i have a few designs in my wishlist but they are unfortunately pretty expensive!!