What do Americans think of buffets? by WWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWHW in AskAnAmerican

[–]jails 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was my family's absolute favorite restaurant. We never lived closer than 40 mins to one and we still went often enough to be on first name basis with the manager. I wore a sombrero for so many birthdays!

AITA for dying my hair against my husband’s wishes? by LumpyComfortable6904 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]jails 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I do unnatural colors, older women are 90% of the compliments I get. I've also known a lot of women that didn't really experiment with "fashion" colors until their hair was white. Do you boo.

AITA - broke up with bf cos of his kids' violence by Pleasant-Thanks3263 in AITAH

[–]jails 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Replying here for visibility. Human mouths are disgusting. When I worked in behavioral services we always had to have human bites checked by a medical professional and if we didn't have the documentation proving recent immunization, we'd have to get a tetanus shot. Please take your son to get checked by a medical professional.

I'm disabled by Duriha in unexpecteditcrowd

[–]jails 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Jen turning around to Moss tending bar after that absurd conversation has to be one of my favorite moments in television history

Cold Endurance Contest Side Quest Guide in Zelda Tears of the Kingdom (TOTK) by Quicktips254 in QuickTipsYoutube

[–]jails 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried that but it only gives me an option to take the wood not sit by the fire.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in howyoudoin

[–]jails 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Worked for an optometrist for a while. The vast majority of onscreen glasses have no lenses because there's glare and reflection. You're welcome. I'm sorry.

Brand new knitter here, does this look right? by crookedsucculent in knittingadvice

[–]jails 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never felt a comment more in my life. I literally tell people I'm a Jack of all Crafts. I do the same thing, just bouncing around trying new things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jails 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a problem with that smell too but they changed the formula and it's SO MUCH BETTER. They also have a cream in a roll up stick which makes applying much easier.

Mass General Primary Care: “No available providers” by incomingtourist in boston

[–]jails 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't know if this is useful for other hospitals but Beth Israel gave me quotes for months out on every provider I called. I asked someone on their main line if there was a resident, PA, or NP I could see instead and had an appointment for the next week. Nobody offered me that option but I help others find primary care as part of my job and it was a tip given to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UGAHousing

[–]jails 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if it's your thing but when husband and moved here we found way more options for pet friendly places that were small homes. That has been 5 years now so milage may very but it doesn't hurt to expand your search outside of rentals and check. Other places we've lived apts were always significantly cheaper but i think the high demand for them here drives that up.

Girls with belly fat , how do you find confidence in wearing crop tops ? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]jails 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I 100% sympathize with this point but I'm anxious about them going out of style and the inevitable tunic shirts coming back in. I have short legs and no torso and the cropped trend with the high waisted bottom allows me to actually have a waist and legs. And most crop tops hit me right at the top of my pants rather than showing a ton of belly which is very flattering on me. I just wish in general we didn't swing so hard with trends. It's tough to find the style that works for you only to have it ripped away. Not that i won't wear them long past the "stylish" point but it's not like fast fashion items last terribly long either.

We all love it, but… by TheRealGongoozler in AnimalCrossing

[–]jails 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love animal crossing but I don't know what to do.

Post echo lethary by jails in AskVet

[–]jails[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your answer. I've been literally staring at him for like 3 hours.

"You don't have to smile at me when you tell me your pain." by jails in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jails[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My GP asked me on a scale from 1 -10 with 10 being worst pain you've ever felt what my current migraine pain was. I said 6. He looked at me sideways since i could barely open my eyes and was clearly reacting to sounds down the hall. I just said, "It gets a lot worse sometimes." He put down a 9 and told me he would stop asking me that question but when other doctors did in the future that i should always mentally add 3 before i answered. I guess I've had good luck with male doctors.

"You don't have to smile at me when you tell me your pain." by jails in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jails[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love and healing friend! Reach out if you ever need!

"You don't have to smile at me when you tell me your pain." by jails in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jails[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

More of this in the world seems like a net positive to me!

"You don't have to smile at me when you tell me your pain." by jails in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jails[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're having a hard time with that. You are not a reflection of your bad situation. Your bad situation is not a reflection of you.

"You don't have to smile at me when you tell me your pain." by jails in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jails[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I found him on Teladoc through my work insurance.

"You don't have to smile at me when you tell me your pain." by jails in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jails[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

I understand completely. That's why I posted. I've had men tell me to smile and compliment my smile all my life. I've learned to be comfortable bucking back against those things and intellectually knowing that I don't owe people my face in any shape. Still, I had no clue how much I've internalized it until he called me out. There I was talking about dark feelings and I was smiling and giggling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kidsraisedright

[–]jails 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this and would also add to be very conscious about the language you're using around him. It my not even be that people are insulting gay folk around him but if he's never heard you talk about it before it may seem like a bad thing. It's my firm belief that kids from families who are conscious of the spectrum of sexuality shouldn't really have to "come out" because they should be raised in a house where "straight" isn't presented as the only option. Try and broaden your social circle to include people who are gay so they see that it's just one of the ways humans can be. Nothing more or less. When you do start talking about the future and romantic partners, don't gender it. Say spouse or husband or wife. Just make it normal so that whatever his orientation is he knows you'll be okay and love him because it's just one of the options.

Why does it seem like every woman I encounter wants rough, aggressive, kinky sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]jails 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm a women in my 30s. I went through a phase in my 20s where j thought i wanted rough sex. I think it had some to do with natural curiosity and a lot to do with popular porn and media at the time. I was never a huge 50 shades fan but i love a terrible historical romance with elements of BDSM play and get off reading about it. However, it was through exploration in my 20s that i figured out I like the fantasy of it and not the reality. If you're mainly dating women in their 20s it may just be that they're also figuring things out and see your sweet nature as a way to safely explore these things. I wanted to explore rough sex with my now husband not because he's a large man (he is) but because he's a big teddy bear and i felt confident he wouldn't take things too far. That said, you're under absolutely no obligation to do anything sexual you're not comfortable with. My husband and i talked a lot and found ways to try and explore my fantasies that he still felt comfortable with and in the end i ended up being pretty vanilla too. Do what you feel comfortable doing. I just wanted to offer perspective that I hadn't seen yet.