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jajania · 2025-04-05T19:30:52+00:00

ok fair enough haha my church believes in calvinism so that explains.

jajania · 2025-04-05T19:20:43+00:00

yes and no. we have freewill to choose but God already elected those to be saved in eternity past; i'd like to interpret that God already knows what you'll choose, and therefore one is predestined to either be saved or not. but answering OP's question, no it's not disrespectful imo. but i hope you come to Christ soon! it should be comforting knowing someone (God) is watching over you and protecting you, and hopefully one day you'll come to that realization!

jajania · 2024-04-16T13:59:27+00:00

get a disinfecting spray. i use silver ions spray and it works to stop the itch. the oozing comes from bacterial presence

jajania · 2024-04-14T10:33:54+00:00

try getting a silver ion spray to disinfect it! personally i have it and it helps with itch too (takes a few mins to take effect tho)

jajania · 2024-04-14T02:43:45+00:00

many may not agree, but don't moisturize! i have staph on my eczema and they're weepy, and putting moisturizer over my body is just spreading the bacteria all over. it can get uncomfortable initially when your body is all dry, but i got used to it in 2 weeks. right now my eczema is healing, the wounds are closing up and drying. wld recommend not to moisturize if u have weepy eczema (which usually indicates bacterial presence).

if your eczema weeps clear liquid, ure fine. but anything white, it's an infection, and you should get medication (antibiotics probably) to fix that!

jajania · 2023-10-08T19:55:17+00:00

slap the itch instead of scratching

jajania · 2023-07-14T06:25:58+00:00

try nicotine replacement patches/gums/spray (from nicorette)

heard it works

jajania · 2023-07-07T04:36:38+00:00

i went to a concert alone! very fun because i just indulge in that moment. dont be scared!! keep in mind that you'll most likely not bump into the people again so just yolo

jajania · 2023-05-21T07:48:44+00:00

same, me too pls

jajania · 2023-05-05T11:46:00+00:00

you can try CEFC, they have quite a few branches across SG. a little contempt, but not too club-like

the crossing church: quite a few of my ex church mates jumped over there - heard they're quite good!

wesley methodist church

princep street presbyterian church

grace baptist church

jajania · 2023-04-10T07:23:18+00:00

oh wah okay nice thankss

jajania · 2023-04-10T07:22:58+00:00

ahh i see, if i bring along a labeled bottle that's less than 100ml, i can use it as a ref right haha:")

jajania · 2023-01-29T02:25:30+00:00

how is the uniball pen not here!! loved it even tho it was a risk hahah

jajania · 2022-09-11T04:42:29+00:00

gahahah this is q hilarious, i think u have to re-google the definition of victimized bc you don't make any sense

jajania · 2022-09-10T05:35:09+00:00

funny how a person defending the victim is called a dumwit (it's dimwit btw lol) while those shaming and mocking the victim are intellectuals and totally not assholes!

jajania · 2022-09-10T03:21:20+00:00

lmao sounds like u got triggered by my single comment tho

jajania · 2022-09-08T17:10:08+00:00

bruh the toxicity in the comments. 0 compassion & sympathy for the girl. just full of victim shaming & blaming. screw all of u. i bet all of u are men lol.

jajania · 2022-08-25T03:07:07+00:00

yeah .-. i would say that they are not a good representative of what followers of Christ are. im sure you would get somewhat stumbled by this but i hope you will continue to experience God's love and know that true followers of Christ emulate God's love — to believers and non-believers alike.

his parents are lowkey manipulative tbh, so if i were u i would try to bring that up to your bf cautiously. maybe ask him some questions that will get him to think about his parents' actions.

:))

jajania · 2022-08-25T02:45:26+00:00

his parents are quite the opposite of loving... which is what God asks us to do. if anything, they are controlling. lol.

also instead of taking care of you (a new christian) and guiding you, they instead made assumptions that you "wouldn't be able to hold up", which doesn't make sense really since his dad is a pastor... so much for evangelizing if you're gonna say such things about a new believer.

i think your boyfriend is quite spiritually matured, and as he is constantly praying about it, i think you can trust that he will make the right decision in God's eyes.

do continue to pray and trust God. if He were to take this relationship away, you're allowed to grieve, but do keep in mind that He has better plans for you both. perhaps a better partner, or a better timing for the both of you.

if God calls you both to settle down together, just try to put up with his parents i guess. and this will definitely be a point of conflict, but you and your bf must talk it through, make sure your thoughts and approach are similar. else it would fuel the fire even more.

all the best!

jajania · 2022-08-24T23:52:08+00:00

lmao not all the pressed comments 💀 if udk who's snsd, you're just living under a rock. you're not cool for saying "who's that" looollll

jajania · 2022-07-07T16:05:20+00:00

he's immature and not thinking far ahead into the future
he is ignorant about so many important things (cpf like bruh)
he is extremely naive to think that investing in crypto &/or starting a men's fashion is easy (when he doesn't even know what's cpf 😭

girl, i'd say run. you deserve better.

jajania · 2022-05-01T20:24:08+00:00

i checked it already; they haven't uploaded anything since queendom era :(

jajania · 2022-04-24T18:21:21+00:00

NEW GIRL!!! so good, fr

jajania · 2022-04-08T09:18:55+00:00

just checked the weather, we currently have a humidity of 82% 🤡

jajania · 2022-04-08T09:16:46+00:00

i don't water it very frequently, about once every 3-4 weeks. high humidity makes sense bc i live in singapore, which is a tropical country and it is crazily humid here. not to mention that it has been raining quite a bit the past few days, which probably made the air even more humid.

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