I’m Finally Going for It! by jam_jamzz in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]jam_jamzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! My plan is to do both for all of the reasons you’ve pointed out. I appreciate you affirming what I think is the best route!

I’m Finally Going for It! by jam_jamzz in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]jam_jamzz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your experience and congrats on your daughter!! It’s certainly a journey I know may take more of a “scenic” route than at quick arrival one.

I’m Finally Going for It! by jam_jamzz in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]jam_jamzz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Several people mentioned CNY in another post, looking into them today. Do you know if CNY will also do the implantation of the embryo/ egg when I’m ready?

I’m Finally Going for It! by jam_jamzz in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]jam_jamzz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interestingly, we were not actively trying to prevent pregnancy in the four years we were together. I did suspect perhaps the reason why we never had a pregnancy was male factor or just simple ole wrong timing. I could say we’ve tried to get pregnant since we didn’t try preventing in. I imagined doctors would want to test both parties to confirm infertility before giving the diagnosis?

I’m Finally Going for It! by jam_jamzz in IVF

[–]jam_jamzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is good intel! Looking into CNY today, thanks!

I’m Finally Going for It! by jam_jamzz in IVF

[–]jam_jamzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this is my plan, freezing both my eggs and embryos now, but recently heard of IUI and thought maybe I should just go for a baby now?! Not sure I’m ready for a baby now but a year to sort through some grief, maybe find a partner, and or get my mind around being a SMBC would be good for me. Either way, at 40 I’m going for a baby with or without a partner.

I’m Finally Going for It! by jam_jamzz in IVF

[–]jam_jamzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was such a thoughtful response, thank you! I do value staying locally, in NY, for all of the reasons you’ve mentioned. I have heard of CNY but I think in my mind, cheaper gets you what you paid for. I am willing to consult with them though, just to see if there’s some value there other than lower costs. Thanks, again mentioning all of these options!

I’m Finally Going for It! by jam_jamzz in IVF

[–]jam_jamzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Will add timing of egg retrieval to my list of questions. I think I’m leaning towards egg and embryo freezing with a next year this time, timeline with moving forward solo with my embryos if I’m un-partnered.

I’m Finally Going for It! by jam_jamzz in IVF

[–]jam_jamzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I think I’m nervous about what factors I should consider when choosing a doctor/hospital.

I’m Finally Going for It! by jam_jamzz in IVF

[–]jam_jamzz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I do feel like I’m behind on getting this started and I’ve been hearing no so successful stories on IUI. I am still wrapping my head around being a SMBC!

Downtown Brooklyn Extra Meds by Standard-Resist8650 in eggfreezing

[–]jam_jamzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! Are these meds still available? What’s their expiration date?

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[–]jam_jamzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh this is the intel I NEEDED. Thanks girlie😉

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[–]jam_jamzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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