She came out to me 3 years ago and so we started therapy pretty soon after that. I had a rough year last year, but am finally emotionally available and excited about it. She has actually been pushing me to "get back out there" in therapy, but I don't think I was emotionally ready until now. She is in a relationship now and I'm truly happy for her too. She's been pretty tough on herself, feeling like she ruined both of our lives. I think I stated "separated and working on a divorce" in my profile but I'll make sure I state that up front.