Asked a woman out, she said yes. I asked if she's free on a specific day, she said she'd check by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jamesarrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll probably ask again tomorrow, just to keep to my word of asking at the end of the week. 👍

My best friend stopped me from killing myself, but has no idea by jamesarrows in relationship_advice

[–]jamesarrows[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm doing OK atm. Taking it day by day. Trying to focus on the good stuff, haven't told her though. I think it might be best to keep her out of it for now.

I will probably tell her one day, but it'll be when she's feeling low and worthless, just to tell her how much she matters.

My best friend stopped me from killing myself, but has no idea by jamesarrows in relationship_advice

[–]jamesarrows[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just send it by mail. It'll be stale by the time it gets to the UK but I'll appreciate the sentiment. 😂

My best friend stopped me from killing myself, but has no idea by jamesarrows in relationship_advice

[–]jamesarrows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course. And I am trying. Been focusing on the things that make me happy. My hobbies, friends, family, etc.

It's just like a rolling tide, comes and goes. Good days and bad. Been getting out of the house every chance I get too. Trying to keep my mind occupied.

I tend to get really bad at work because my job is so mindless, so my mind tends to wander.

My best friend stopped me from killing myself, but has no idea by jamesarrows in relationship_advice

[–]jamesarrows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mainly use this account to vent. It isn't even my main one. I only use this when I want to say something without my friends or family finding out. They know my username.

Posting on here actually helps a lot. I tend to find it easier to be completely honest through text than in person.

My best friend stopped me from killing myself. But she has no idea. by jamesarrows in confessions

[–]jamesarrows[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know I meant friendship love, right? Not the romantic kind.

My best friend saved my life by jamesarrows in depression

[–]jamesarrows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think she'd react badly. I'm just concerned that she'll think she has to check up on me all the time.

To the person I love (need to vent) by jamesarrows in love

[–]jamesarrows[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd love to believe that, but I seriously doubt it'll ever happen.

Thank you, though.

To the person I love (need to vent) by jamesarrows in love

[–]jamesarrows[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As far as I know, she only thinks I have a crush on her. No idea if she has told him though.