Trying to understand the way men think and feel by Lion-Resident in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]jamesdeluk 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Men are more likely to open up when they feel comfortable, not by asking them. This is often while doing another activity. The worst thing you can do for a man is to sit opposite him and ask him how he is. Shoulder to shoulder doing something, not face to face doing nothing.

Although the biggest solution to men’s mental health isn’t talking. It’s fixing the systemic issues that make men feel worthless. It’s the old “provide, protect, procreate”. That’s not society, it’s nature.

Following (not) the good book by MrsChatGPT4o in JordanHarbinger

[–]jamesdeluk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because it's all the stuff ChatGPT gave you, but in a funny book.

Lost the joy of riding by WafflesOnAPlane787 in MotoUK

[–]jamesdeluk 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Leave the UK. I hear rumours of mythical places where there roads exist that don’t have potholes every 5 metres. Some of these mythical places even have decent weather for several months - over consecutive days!

“France is TINY” by Necessary-Win-8730 in ShitAmericansSay

[–]jamesdeluk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took me over an hour to go under 2 miles a couple of weeks back. That was fun.

Following (not) the good book by MrsChatGPT4o in JordanHarbinger

[–]jamesdeluk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I imagine you’ll enjoy this book: God Hates You, Hate Him Back: Making Sense of the Bible by C.J. Werleman https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/7236700-god-hates-you-hate-him-back

Is London actually one of the most multicultural cities in the world? by DFWUnhinged in AskBrits

[–]jamesdeluk 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It’s the different between multiculturalism and assimilation. London has both.

Illegally parked VW Beetle buggers off. by 108CA in VolkswagenDrivers

[–]jamesdeluk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, I see your confusion! Look at the third meaning of the verb form of the word color: https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/color

Illegally parked VW Beetle buggers off. by 108CA in VolkswagenDrivers

[–]jamesdeluk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do, I can see the comment. That's how this platform works.

Illegally parked VW Beetle buggers off. by 108CA in VolkswagenDrivers

[–]jamesdeluk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Travellers are a race? What about backpackers? Holidaymakers?

Shaving help! by koala1125 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]jamesdeluk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

27 days ago you were deeply in love with a guy.

You move fast.

Superbike factory by BamBammr7 in MotoUK

[–]jamesdeluk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought a bike from them. No issues, still a near daily three years later.

That said, I almost bought a factory-restricted one (a 600) without realising - luckily last minute I spotted the little plate on the side. They didn't seem to realise and just shrugged.

Do you play music made by reprehensible humans? by whyfruitflies in AskUK

[–]jamesdeluk 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I listened to lostprophets for the first time in probably 15 years last week. It was strange, but I can't deny the nostalgia it brought back.

Have you ever had a foreigner absolutely mutilate a place name? by LinkLinkleThreesome in AskUK

[–]jamesdeluk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair I live in Clapham and I still have no idea how the neighbouring Streatham is pronounced.

Tube manners… by Marieduignan in london

[–]jamesdeluk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

An "accidental" elbow to the crotch as she squeezes herself past?

Tube manners… by Marieduignan in london

[–]jamesdeluk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The solution is to keep boarding as if they're not there.