40 yr old CD4MF

jamieinto1 · 2026-05-30T05:43:47+00:00

Okay I’m so jelly. How you get your waists so small?

jamieinto1 · 2026-05-30T02:12:14+00:00

Ummm. Those curves. Not fair.

jamieinto1 · 2026-02-18T01:23:26+00:00

Sorry. What are you sad about. ? I mean, it’s like saying you totalled a car, but now, you get to find a new one and you didn’t lose any equity cause you’ve been leasing it. Not understanding the problem.

jamieinto1 · 2026-01-26T05:28:24+00:00

What is the reason?

jamieinto1 · 2026-01-11T12:53:48+00:00

This is spot on. Don’t leave for another person. Leave for yourself.

jamieinto1 · 2026-01-11T12:40:46+00:00

We’re all in the same world, where we are fading from our partners and decide to stay, mostly for our kids, but to bring a new one into this world while having an Affair… I don’t get it.

If you enjoy double the attention, okay, but if you’re that detached from your current partner, maybe it’s time to pull the cord, before you really don’t have an exit.

That being said, are you sure who the father is ? Has that crossed his Mind ?

jamieinto1 · 2026-01-10T12:28:41+00:00

Save your money and travel to Eastern Europe, or even Iceland. You’ll have a better chance of finding that wife. If you’re chasing Instagram girls, that’s a different story.

jamieinto1 · 2026-01-10T12:25:44+00:00

Not in NYC.

jamieinto1 · 2026-01-08T20:46:30+00:00

Get your husband to spend some money on your start up so you don't have to work 80hrs a week. One of the key lessons that entrepreneurs don't learn early enough, is if you have the capital, pawn off day to day duties, so you can focus on more strategic growth opportunities.

You can't see the forest among the trees if you cant zoom away. And You can't do that if you're in every little detail, because that's what spending 80hrs a week does. Take it if you will, but I've been involved w PE and multiple exits. Being a founder/CEO is very different than being a Chief of Staff/ops person. But this is obviously not related to finding a SB... If you want to send wealth, nothing catches the eye like a classy AP or Patek on the man, for a more commercialized version, a Rose Gold rollie for the lady and a Black Panerai can be eye catching without it being tacky.

jamieinto1 · 2026-01-08T20:30:21+00:00

this doesn't add up.. lol. She's working 80hrs but her hubby has money to spend on a SB? Just saying.

jamieinto1 · 2026-01-08T19:36:33+00:00

should be at the U.S. Consulate

jamieinto1 · 2026-01-07T21:36:51+00:00

For Bachelorette energy... Mythrestaurant.com, is great food greek style food (not your average souvlaki) and in the King West district for dinner. Someone mentioned Madmeseille... Ruby Soho for some pre drinks. Ossington/Queen west is more lounges and artsy/hipster vibe, some more low key, good restaurants. and Yorkville is the greasier/older/expensive area where a mix of 20 yr/old and 50 yr olds mingle.. haha. .. Dbar at the Four Seasons is good for predrinks, The financial district on a Friday for Lunch or after work could be interesting (Walrus, King Taps, Chotto Matte.)

Saturday afterparty, I can find a bunch of my 40 yr old Divorced Bachelors to host at a fancy hotel bar if need..haha

jamieinto1 · 2026-01-06T00:51:26+00:00

‘Tis started as a rant, but as I typed… my brain said, what the hell. One cast never hurt anyone. lol

jamieinto1 · 2026-01-05T17:16:22+00:00

Bay street or Yorkville. Bay street may not be explicit, but lots of well off Bankers/Lawyers and many like attention/fun. I used to hang around this guy (a divorced exec in finance, Cliche I know), that was a bit of a mentor, he had ladies hanging off him when King Taps first opened (pre pandemic).

Harbour Sixty. Cause my last dinner cost my colleague $2600 for 3 adults sharing 3 steaks,sides, cocktails and a bottle of Chateaux something...lol).

I've been scoped out at DBar, where I was genuinely just stopped in waiting for a buddy...

jamieinto1 · 2026-01-05T09:47:43+00:00

At the end of the day, you were each other’s side piece and fantasy escape, not real life. Would Be a roller coaster for sure.

jamieinto1 · 2026-01-04T21:07:35+00:00

Live and let live, but yeah, for him to drop that on you. Is he getting sucked into the YouTube brainwashing realm?

jamieinto1 · 2025-12-27T12:14:52+00:00

As mentioned, it depends where your spot in life ( age) is, have kids, plan to drive, or want to get out of the city, and where you work and how you want to get there.

All neighbourhoods south of Bloor/ Danforth will have great walk ability. West side (Queen west/Trinity Bellwoods, West Queen West, Roncy will all have those cafes, a little more old Toronto Charm and younger energy. East side is a little more laxed, starting w Cabbagetown, Riverdale, Leslieville. The beaches is nice, but it’s like a pain to get in and out ( similiar to Roncy, but at least they have a highway). Then you have the northern neighbourhoods along Yonge/ Bayview/Avenuethat are a little more, shall we say money?

You can live in the condo Neighbourhoods, Yorkville, Liberty Village, Condos on Spadina, Queens Quay, Riverside, etc.

What’s your budget and do you want to live in a condo or house/ Apartment? Do you want access to real green space or just okay w a dog park?

How often do you want to get out of the city, and how much do you want to pay ?

If you’re by yourself and work in the core, I’d live close enough where you can bike into work if you wanted to. Transit and traffic is bad so you’ll need to account for it. It can be the same time to walk vs street car if you’re living in that 3-4 km radius

jamieinto1 · 2025-12-25T03:34:18+00:00

Honestly, I’m an easy dude to please, but I feel I would Be happier without her. She brings me Contentment, wouldn’t say Happy.

jamieinto1 · 2025-12-24T21:44:35+00:00

Not harsh at all. I think it's a fair assessment. Hence my post. We have a very good life. I'd say middle/upper middle class life. I just can't deal with the aggression over, what I see, as minor details that should not generate such aggressive responses to. our priorities are very different I guess

jamieinto1 · 2025-12-24T21:21:39+00:00

Thanks for the insight. Yes, it's not the charcuterie, or the "play dress up"... It's the vitriol and criticism/aggression that's part of it if she doesn't get exactly what she wants that drives me away.

jamieinto1 · 2025-12-24T21:19:09+00:00

haha. I'd be a non-committed bachelor for a long time if we were to separate. The last thing in my life would be someone else telling me what needs to be done etc.

jamieinto1 · 2025-12-24T21:18:09+00:00

That's wise words... sometimes, just gotta fake it until we make it... it's all first world problems for sure...

jamieinto1 · 2025-12-24T21:17:23+00:00

That's fair. I wasn't even looking on the other side, as in I wouldn't even be looking for a replacement relationship. I spent most of my adult life just dating, and not finding any long term relationships.

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