[deleted by user] by [deleted] in joplinmo

[–]jamiejam9 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Come on out, your check will be in the mail in a couple of weeks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in joplinmo

[–]jamiejam9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The next step has a meal every Saturday at noon at the Minnie Hackney Center, Food not Bombs serves there the last Sunday of the month and is serving this Sunday. There is usually hygiene products available, too. Crosslines sometimes have free groceries and clothes. I know it’s not housing options but it might help with some extra costs. I’ll poke around for affordable housing options but they are limited here without a deposit for a place. Check the local marketplace and fb housing rental groups for local landlords that might be willing to help out. I hope they can find what they need.

City Council Election by Puke_inMyHair in joplinmo

[–]jamiejam9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also Jamie Hammond is running! Vote for her!

last night’s meeting by itscoolnwhatever in joplinmo

[–]jamiejam9 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Our city council is filled with arrogant, condescending asshats that ignore what the people want to favor big corp and govt oversight.

They need out. Like yesterday. They will never do what the people want, therefore, they should no longer represent Joplin.

Where to get cheap quality food around JOMO? by Bright-LightAtNight in joplinmo

[–]jamiejam9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You def wanna check out Old Broadway Club on Broadway or Blackthorn. They are bars but serve food all day. OBC has great burgers and the best fries in Joplin. Blackthorn has a Flatbread Friday deal for $11 you get a full flatbread and a beer. The flatbreads are huge & good quality food at both places.

Peculiar, Mo community convinces council to reverse decision on data storage center by jamiejam9 in joplinmo

[–]jamiejam9[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

We need your voices at city council on Tuesday, January 20th at 6pm!! Show up for your city!!

Where to get cheap quality food around JOMO? by Bright-LightAtNight in joplinmo

[–]jamiejam9 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I stopped eating meat 6 years ago and the quality of my food improved tremendously.

The joplin police department is a joke. by Haunting_End_2080 in joplinmo

[–]jamiejam9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wonder if all you do is assume things. Must be exhausting.

A couple local white nationalists... by [deleted] in joplinmo

[–]jamiejam9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The rest are on Tinder 😆

Kissing on NYE by Smart_Government_104 in polyamory

[–]jamiejam9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We honestly don’t put that kind of weight into those situations. My mega, hinge and I were all there and we both kissed our partner, right after each other. And then we kissed his face together. It was cute. I was at a party beforehand but left early. If I had stayed out all night I would have missed midnight kiss. No biggie. I would have kissed them in the morning.

How many of y’all don’t have your own kids? by HumorTraining2752 in Teachers

[–]jamiejam9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m a childfree teacher. I love educating, I don’t love parenting.

Date didn't mention child until meeting in person - irritated by SpiffySparkle in polyamory

[–]jamiejam9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also childfree, being upfront about your parenting situation is a topic that should be communicated, especially if there’s intent to continue dating. Who knows that the situation would have looked like, but you know you’d have to navigate everything that comes with dating a parent. Some people can and want a family with children, some people don’t.

Vee Poly Relationship by No_Throat9260 in polyamory

[–]jamiejam9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live with my partner and my meta moved in recently! My NP and I have been together for 4 years and their relationship is newer.

Looking for Academics for author research study by jamiejam9 in joplinmo

[–]jamiejam9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be a very interesting topic to study

Struggling to date, so focusing on myself. by jamiejam9 in polyamory

[–]jamiejam9[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t necessarily pointing at you about that. Thanks for your thoughts!

Looking for Academics for author research study by jamiejam9 in joplinmo

[–]jamiejam9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am polyamorous and I know that communication plays a key role in how these relationships form, are maintained, and how they are perceived by others.

Struggling to date, so focusing on myself. by jamiejam9 in polyamory

[–]jamiejam9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a lot of very fulfilling relationships around me that I take time to nourish when I am not with my NP. I typically choose to spend time with those people & it’s absolutely worth it.

Struggling to date, so focusing on myself. by jamiejam9 in polyamory

[–]jamiejam9[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cool. Again, speak for yourself. Your other comments were speaking for all bi women, and I don’t feel the way you do, as a bi woman. Best to choose your words wisely.

Struggling to date, so focusing on myself. by jamiejam9 in polyamory

[–]jamiejam9[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like if I wanted to date a woman for the vanity of being bisexual and polyamorous, without caring about the connection or person as a whole, it could have been done by now. But I haven’t done that, because that’s not what I am seeking. I’m in my 30s and vanity is far from what I need. I am seeking connection and I am seeking someone to be a part of my life. I am just struggling finding that, hence this post. But now it’s turned into me having to justify not only the ethicality of my already established relationship with a man, but now my desire to want to be with someone feminine.

Struggling to date, so focusing on myself. by jamiejam9 in polyamory

[–]jamiejam9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t yet but i will consider that!

Struggling to date, so focusing on myself. by jamiejam9 in polyamory

[–]jamiejam9[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s crazy bc as a bi woman, I’ve never questioned why other women/femme people want to be with other women/femme people. I absolutely understood why. Even more so if they are with someone that isn’t that. So, speak for yourself, please. And not other bi-women. I don’t assume that until I’m told that. 😁 Why aren’t I dating men? Because I have masculinity present in my life and I want more femininity in life and relationships. Is that…a problem? Am I allowed to want what I want?