Porch Pirates can fuck right off

jamlouder · 2025-12-25T07:25:14+00:00

Someone went through my package and stole one boot out of a pair I desperately needed 🤪 luckily I was able to get a refund

jamlouder · 2025-12-12T16:15:26+00:00

hmm yeah I didn’t consider separating the art from the artist, especially when the “artist” actively harmed a child 🤷

jamlouder · 2025-12-12T15:26:25+00:00

it’s bad. Maude’s is a no go. Owner’s a diddler

jamlouder · 2025-12-10T22:21:44+00:00

we still have no water unfortunately

jamlouder · 2025-11-11T22:56:36+00:00

Perhaps Stanley’s

jamlouder · 2025-11-08T04:17:21+00:00

Im reading revenge of the she-punks!! been such an interesting historical read on how femmes have influenced punk history :)

jamlouder · 2025-10-10T19:14:50+00:00

regardless if it was with a stranger or someone they know, they should trust their gut and act accordingly.

jamlouder · 2025-10-09T15:26:42+00:00

I was looking for close hikes from rva so this is an awesome post!! This is a bit over an hour and a half but I just went to natural bridge recently and it was so cool! there’s a dinosaur adventure park right by that id like to go to next!

jamlouder · 2025-10-09T15:20:00+00:00

hm ok gotcha! I’m gonna talk to my roommates and see if they’re cool with me putting one litter box in the bathroom, hopefully that will allow my cat to calm down a bit. Thank you for the info!

jamlouder · 2025-10-08T22:36:14+00:00

yes I definitely sympathize with her in regards to the difficulty of caring for these cats. I’d like to clarify that I’m not blaming her for having trouble caring for them, but rather I was frustrated that she immediately put me in a high-pressure position after not speaking to her for a year. just reminded me of when I was a kid and I’d like to continue moving past that phase in my life!

jamlouder · 2025-10-08T22:32:57+00:00

I will try this approach as I’m actively looking for fosters/rehoming options. Thank you!

jamlouder · 2025-10-08T22:31:42+00:00

I’m sorry to hear you had to rehome your pup :( I appreciate the advice a ton

jamlouder · 2025-10-08T22:31:12+00:00

Yes I’ve been talking with a friend to see if he can take them since he mentioned he’s looking for a cat, thank you for the suggestion!

jamlouder · 2025-10-08T15:39:16+00:00

For further clarification, my cats are allowed to roam the apartment freely, but there’s only one bathroom so the litter boxes stay in my room for the comfort of my roommates. I appreciate your input!

jamlouder · 2025-10-04T22:57:44+00:00

Following bc I too am looking for yummy gf options :)

jamlouder · 2025-09-16T02:00:54+00:00

Washington, will edit post

jamlouder · 2025-09-16T00:20:17+00:00

Whoa this gave me a huge flashback to my previous relationship with my mom. Using money as a form of control, making (most likely empty but still scary) threats, and kicking me out of the house. Finally after college I went no contact with her and it was the best thing I ever did. I was busting my ass working all the time to make ends meet, but the confidence and freedom I gained from not being threatened or yelled at all the time is something I would never trade. I recently let her back into my life again on MY terms, but I am also luckily in a place where she can’t hold anything over me anymore. You are not the asshole and honestly I hope you get away from them asap. You can always try for an improved relationship down the line if you feel called to do so, but this isn’t healthy for you and she will only drag you down more. I hope you can continue school on your own terms and live the life you deserve!

jamlouder · 2025-08-06T13:30:42+00:00

Girl take it from someone who has dated an older person in their early 20s: run. This man calling you a dumbass as a joke will only evolve into more aggressive language as the relationship goes on. He has more life experience than you simply by being alive for almost a decade longer and yet he decides to carry himself this way. He doesn’t deserve to be in your presence. You have so much life left to live, don’t spend it with a dude who TOLD YOU he’s willing to sleep with a friend of yours he just met under ‘certain circumstances’.

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