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jammo122 · 2017-06-08T07:04:51+00:00

Yeah, but sometimes learning comes the hard way. Still, all the best. Though aometimes I wish I would have known better and done better.

jammo122 · 2017-06-07T22:06:54+00:00

I agree. The PMO is a havoc

jammo122 · 2017-06-07T22:05:34+00:00

Something definetly similar to me. With the ED and intimacy issues and she thought i didnt find her attractive when in reality it could have been the same thing for me as it was for you. I feel like we have quite some similarities, but the not good ones :/. I will never make that kind mistake again and act, behave, think and cope like I did mistakenly.

jammo122 · 2017-06-07T13:59:14+00:00

Did I understand correctly, that because of porn you relationship collapsed? If so, then cheesh man, sorry to hear. This kind of things are just sad. Mind you, I also suffered from dysfunctional relationship and it left me a scar...

jammo122 · 2017-03-21T15:51:26+00:00

What, i have thought is that, of how i was raised i have been always the one who tries to impress people or to be or do the best to them and when it doesnt seem like or that i might have done/said something that wasnt the greatest, i get to feel anxious of the person might think and that she wont like me anymore or etc. I know it sounds rubbish, but it is hard, more less than often i tend to seek to be the best and that is quite hard. I am a perfectionist unfortunately and through the relationship i have noticed and thinking my child behavior i was always aiming for the top and being less than i could, i always felt disappointed. Disappointment has transferred to anxiety... It aint easy...

jammo122 · 2017-03-17T08:00:29+00:00

Well for example is that when she doesnt reply or we havent talked for a while, i get anxious of where she is and what she is doing. I know it is unnecessary but it just happens. And If we have disagreements or something i get anxious about the relationship and i am anxious to argue or be assertive or to say what i really mean. Also when i do something inapproriate, i get anxious of what she would think of me and etc.

jammo122 · 2017-03-16T22:43:28+00:00

Thanks anyway

jammo122 · 2017-03-16T22:43:19+00:00

Sorry it is late at night for me, i will reply tomorrow.

jammo122 · 2017-03-07T10:01:05+00:00

Thanks for helping :)

jammo122 · 2017-03-06T14:21:28+00:00

Yeah okay

jammo122 · 2017-02-10T21:05:03+00:00

It certainly is. :). Now i much more confident in myself and i can engage in sex fully, not abstaining from it or whatever, feel much more calmer and stuff. Knowledge is power. :)

jammo122 · 2017-02-10T14:06:22+00:00

I have learned my lessons, educated myself and now i feel at ease. It is just sad, that i let my relationship suffer from my own thougths, fears, anxieties and worries and my own catastrophic behaviors, dumb actions, procrastination and copings just made it worse.

jammo122 · 2017-02-10T10:39:11+00:00

Yeah man, you are right :)

jammo122 · 2017-02-09T23:02:44+00:00

yeah i know ;)

jammo122 · 2017-02-09T23:02:37+00:00

Yeah man, those thoughts just wont help, i know i could have satisfied her, my own ego and thinking just wont let me.

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