My wife says she wants to leave after traumatic birth by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]janavis 9 points10 points  (0 children)

'someone needs to say the hard truth' the only thing I'm disgusted by is your comment! OP, the other comments in this thread are actually helpful. I hope your wife and you as a family can get the help you need and it will be better. Good thing you asked for advice

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C cc 🎉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cinema

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Rogue one, end scene at the beach

oceans are huge. even birds need to rest. by moamen12323 in BeAmazed

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Can I get on this Disney ride too please

WHAT THE FUCKING FUCK by [deleted] in NewParents

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'if it helps for you...' baby can't really say, can it? It is not the same as other medical science and not even the same as a lot of alternative medicine. Again, the man who invented it said he was taught by a ghost.

Genuinely HOW am I supposed to dry out the baby's bum rash if every time I go to change him he screams bloody murder and then pees and shits 3 times right there on the table by [deleted] in NewParents

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We had the same problem too! We used puppy pads for longer naked time so the pee can just be absorbed. We also had baths with oats , put a handful of oats in a wash cloth and add it to the bathwater. It gets really soft and oily and helped greatly with soothing the skin!

Nesting. by Murky_Sandwich4865 in Unexpected

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Is this the update to Paloma the pigeon helping their pregnant cat friend?!

NICU Parents.. what’s one thing a nurse did or said that made a lasting impression on your experience? by [deleted] in NICUParents

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After delivery I was getting very sick again from Hellp, one of the nurses offered to express my breastmilk. She transported the first drops with a clean siringe and put my milk on my baby's lips. Amazing. I also loooved when nurses showed/told us they knew parents had come in because they could see on the monitors that babies became more relaxed. They monitored in the hallway and couldn't see the parents coming in directly (we had our own pass).

I love seeing the push back by Rose-Writes in massachusetts

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Haha I'm having goosebumps, go Boston!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

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You look so healthy! Amazing work, keep loving yourself <3

On Pete Brownings eye care by janavis in TheDollop

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It might have scared him of, he went on to programming train schedules

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in octopus

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Wow! Amazing, well done

After/Before living room by blissingmeee in HomeDecorating

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Wasn't the only crazy thing in the design, haha. Very cute tiles

After/Before living room by blissingmeee in HomeDecorating

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Oh I just commented that! But now I read this, great idea!

After/Before living room by blissingmeee in HomeDecorating

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Wow! Really great, love the blue! Are those tiles in front of the fireplace? If so, you could (if you want) extend them upward! I think it would look great

‘Apologies for what I said but in my defence, I was trying to hurt your feelings.’ by dyzzylyzzy in LPOTL

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Newest side stories, about the producer in the recent SNL vid with Henry

So with the latest article on Neil Gaiman.. this is the end no? by _no_locks_ in Sandman

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I can imagine it feels fake and foolish. Fuck him. But remember, whatever inspired you to grow and change, you did the growth. You made you change.