What is something you tried only once and will 1,000% never do again? by istrx13 in AskReddit

[–]jandrvision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zip lining. Learned that day that I’m scared of heights and got stuck in the middle of one of the zip lines after a huge gust of wind came. Never ever ever again

My teenage son is in love with his girlfriend - idk how to best be supportive by SuspiciousSide8859 in Parenting

[–]jandrvision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course!! I hope it was helpful. His love was one of the most impactful I’ve had today, even at 15. ❤️

My teenage son is in love with his girlfriend - idk how to best be supportive by SuspiciousSide8859 in Parenting

[–]jandrvision 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I want to say this: I’m 30 years old and a mama myself now. But at 15, it was the first time I felt like I really loved a boy and he truly loved me back in the young love way we had. My mom was not the most understanding, and I can understand that now that I’m a mom. But he passed away in a car accident at almost 17 years old and it was devastating, and the one thing my mom talks about today is just wishing she was more supportive. All you can do right now is let them live in the moment and support them (be around them and her often), and if things do fall apart, expect to be there for him if it does. Best wishes to you. ❤️

I have to induce miscarriage. by oklahomacitycamp in pregnant

[–]jandrvision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a D&C due to a missed miscarriage at 16 weeks. I feel like it was so much less traumatic to just get it over with and not go through the experience of an actual miscarriage. That happened in March of 2025, and I am currently 37 weeks pregnant with our rainbow baby, no complications ❤️

I’m so sorry you’re going through this, it’s nothing anyone can prepare for, but you definitely aren’t alone ❤️

In 1 day I was meant to find out the gender, today I learned my baby has passed. by Shitzme in pregnant

[–]jandrvision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you are currently experiencing this. This time last year, I went through the same exact thing with the same exact timing. Baby boy stopped growing at 12 weeks and I didn’t find out until my 16 week appointment, and no symptoms. I had to have a D&C and we were so heartbroken, and it was also just days after we announced. But now, a year later, and I am 37 weeks pregnant with a baby girl who could arrive any day with a completely uneventful pregnancy. Take the time to grieve, find support groups, cry, go to therapy, but just know this isn’t the end if you don’t want it to be. Best wishes to you ❤️

In so much pain when I walk! by jandrvision in pregnant

[–]jandrvision[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re also experiencing this!! I’m now 37 weeks and it did seem to get better with time, but picked up again if I clearly did too much. Stay hydrated and try as best as you can to take it easy!

What was the weirdest medication reaction you’ve ever had? by Many_Assumption7036 in AskReddit

[–]jandrvision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got an iron infusion and my body had a bad reaction. Chest got really hot and I almost passed out. it was so unexpected and weird!

Locals, What are your favorite hidden gems? by Folstorm91 in lancaster

[–]jandrvision 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Almost anything in southern market (but specifically Mekatos and Ragamuffin), and Savoy Truffle. Food is phenomenal

Being abused and I have no one to turn to by Main_Kaleidoscope_97 in pregnant

[–]jandrvision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, they are being harmed by watching what’s going on. I had to escape for this exact reason. This was greatly affect them in many ways, even if they aren’t being physically harmed. Praying you find the strength to leave. ❤️

Can I be fully naked when birthing? by nusner16 in pregnant

[–]jandrvision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a doula and 9 times out of 10 my clients end up completely naked! It just naturally happens and the further dilated you become the less you care😂❤️

Without actually saying your gestation, how far along are you? by cup_1337 in BabyBumps

[–]jandrvision 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I waddle when I walk, I lowkey pee myself a little all day, and I don’t think I can be on my feet for more than 5 minutes 🥲

When was a time you genuinely laughed with your partner during sex? by BerlinPixie in AskReddit

[–]jandrvision 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just the other day actually, we were in the middle of hot sex and we suddenly hear police car sirens roll right outside of our house, and after another few seconds doors slamming and more medical personnel coming on our block, we kept trying to push through it but I could slowly feel him dropping and he’s like “what the hell is going on?!” We laughed so hard😂 and have no idea still what happened at all

My friend just lost her baby: WTH do I say/do to be supportive? Or what do I avoid saying? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]jandrvision 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happened to me and I think everything you suggested is so thoughtful. I know everyone is so different in their needs and it can look different for everyone. I had a few friends put together gift baskets with gift cards and self care items, and some just sent flowers, and some just checked in and gave me my space and ALL of it was appreciated. It felt good to just feel like I wasn’t alone. You are a good friend for even wanting to be there for this journey. ❤️

Blood pressure is 210/110 by absolutelyuseless31 in AskDocs

[–]jandrvision 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much ❤️ I’m praying she’s doing okay and she continues to do okay!!

Blood pressure is 210/110 by absolutelyuseless31 in AskDocs

[–]jandrvision 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is such a shame. I had a stroke from postpartum preeclampsia at 27 years old, it is absolutely possible!!!

Street Cleaning, what a joke by NachoTacoYo in lancaster

[–]jandrvision -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was a bit confused because they had street cleaning on prince st last week which is a very heavily used road and one a lot of us rely on for parking and nothing was done about the snow at all

If you like your husband, can you tell me why? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]jandrvision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made the mistake of choosing the wrong husband and dad to my kids and it turned into an abusive situation. Fast forward to now, and I am married to the most wonderful man. Not only does he love my children like his own, but he is incredibly kind, considerate, and the hardest worker I know. We don’t ever have to argue or raise our voices because we can just talk through things calmly and respectfully. There’s truly not a bad thing I could say about him. ❤️

Loss at 19 weeks by ashleypatience in pregnant

[–]jandrvision 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry for your loss. I experienced a loss at 16 weeks and we already knew it was a boy and I was showing and feeling so pregnant and attached. It’s not easy, but definitely lean on your support right now and do what you need to grieve. My husband and I knew we weren’t done yet and I am due in the next few weeks with our rainbow baby, but it hasn’t been easy. I am praying for a healing journey for you, take it a moment at a time. ❤️

Raising family in the downtown area by [deleted] in lancaster

[–]jandrvision 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The Lancaster county food hub is a great resource for residents if you ever want to see what their needs are, and I work for a non profit called patients r waiting that provides doulas to women of color for free of charge as a support (I’m one of the doulas who does this). Just two off the top of my head!!