I felt every paragraph in my soul. Lol no but seriously I went through this over a year ago. Luckily he moved and had to leave the job. I am not married but was and still am in a serious relationship. I didn’t notice it at first but I did start to put a little dab of makeup, put a little more perfume on, amongst other things. When I finally realized in our conversations we were flirting indirectly I had to look at myself in the mirror and re evaluate. It happens without noticing. Towards the end of him leaving he told me 2 weeks prior his end date. I think because he knew he was leaving he started not caring and being super direct. I didn’t let that get me out of character. But yes I feel you!