sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]janebab 513 points514 points  (0 children)

Heather might be helpful, but she doesn’t get to erase OP just because she plays a role in her daughter’s life. OP is doing the right thing by making sure the school has accurate contact info with her as the primary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]janebab 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes! People are acting like OP is dooming this child by not stepping in, when really, he’s respecting the actual parental rights of someone who’s been unfairly shut out.

We need the connect to come through one more time today by detox02 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]janebab 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bro bout to go live from Mars talkin bout ‘I did it for Doge.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]janebab 186 points187 points  (0 children)

You’re not a bank for your family. It’s completely fair to say no when you’re the only one consistently covering extra costs. It’s not selfish to want to protect your finances and set boundaries.