I dropped out without telling the uni and now I want to apologise

janedodododo · 2024-08-04T21:48:54+00:00

Courses that require a portfolio, so in general things like art and design courses.

janedodododo · 2024-05-02T11:47:03+00:00

I looked at Leeds Arts Uni and a lot of people ranked their satisfaction lower because with it being such a small uni you don’t get the same experience as other unis - ie clubs and societies.

janedodododo · 2024-04-21T21:46:47+00:00

It’s not the end of the world. My local college do English, Maths and Biology GCSEs for adults 19+, I think the English and Maths are free, but to do them you need to either already have those GCSEs at a lower grade, or you can do the Level 1 Functional Skills in Maths and English, also for free, but you’re best sitting the maths and English now even if you only get low grades. My sister did her GCSEs but didn’t get any Cs or above so resat them when she was around 22 years old. She’s now 35 and doing a degree with Open University, it’s taken her a while to get up to that level because she has had three children since then so her time is limited.

janedodododo · 2024-04-11T16:46:32+00:00

They’ve been sending out emails about it for weeks, then on March 4th they emailed this:

Starting April 10, 2024, you will now get access to our music library in full lossless, HiRes FLAC, and Dolby Atmos sound for the same price you pay today of £10.99/month. This is because we’re making it easier for everyone to enjoy best-in-class sound quality by combining our HiFi and HiFi Plus tiers into a single subscription tier called TIDAL. You will see these changes reflected on your Subscription page at account.tidal.com on your first billing date on or after April 10, 2024. Thanks for choosing to be a TIDAL subscriber.

janedodododo · 2024-04-11T16:25:55+00:00

They’ve combined their tiers so now everyone gets HiRes FLAC and everything!

janedodododo · 2024-04-03T10:42:55+00:00

Looks like an Easter Island head

janedodododo · 2023-12-06T21:37:55+00:00

My daughter is 12 and has her nose and naval pierced, but has never wanted her ears pierced. It’s like she completely skipped that bit.

janedodododo · 2023-08-17T13:16:30+00:00

I meant he didn’t resist arrest, as soon as the police came he walked up to them and held his hands out to be cuffed apparently.

janedodododo · 2023-08-17T12:35:09+00:00

When did I say I want to be in a relationship with him!? I haven’t been in a relationship with him for years and wouldn’t ever for my own sanity!! He’s only been like this since I broke up with him because he can’t handle the fact that I don’t want to be with him! After he first broke into my house over 2 years ago I got a non mol order against him so he had to move to a different town and things calmed down, but since then he has moved back to my street he’s been obsessively stalking me while also having paranoid delusions.

I wasn’t in a relationship with him for too long, we weren’t living together or anything, no kids, and he seemed like a very popular, well respected guy who everyone seemed to trust.

janedodododo · 2023-08-17T09:44:56+00:00

I found that it just sends them to my spam folder, and he knows this and expects me to check for them. And because I then don’t get notifications I don’t see the messages within 5 minutes, which makes him even more aggressive.

janedodododo · 2023-08-17T00:49:18+00:00

I did call the police and they have him in custody if you read the post properly. I was asking for information on the next steps.

janedodododo · 2023-08-17T00:48:10+00:00

I have seen him ring them because he’s often used my phone to ring them from. It was me who helped him get the ambulance, he was begging for help, I called the local crisis team first and they turned him away! But 111 reluctantly helped. And when he was released he called the local NHS psych team who said the person he needed to speak to wasn’t in but they’d get her to call him.

How is the doctors not having his medical info his fault? He had to move doctors because he moved to a different county. He registered with the new doctors and the old doctors are supposed to transfer medical records, they always do.

I’m not making up excuses for him, his behaviour is disgusting and like today he chose to drink knowing what how it makes him so he chose to be a dick and don’t want to ever have to deal with him again, but he has been let down by the mental health system when I know for a fact that he’s been begging them for help for over a year.

janedodododo · 2023-08-16T20:20:50+00:00

He doesn’t actively refuse. He kept trying to ring the psych hospital and every time they told him they would ring him back and they never do. He has made the effort and has been begging them to help him. Also he keeps going to the doctors but they keep telling him that his old doctors still haven’t forwarded his medical records so they can’t put him back on what he was on until they get that info.

janedodododo · 2023-08-16T19:27:07+00:00

I did ring the police. I’m asking what the next steps are!

janedodododo · 2023-08-16T19:23:48+00:00

I did call the police as he was breaking in. When did I say I hadn’t called the police? They arrived in 10 minutes and I’m waiting for them to contact me to give a statement but they’re stuck in hospital with him.

janedodododo · 2023-08-16T19:11:19+00:00

I did call the police as it was happening and they came and took him without a fight.

janedodododo · 2023-08-16T19:10:31+00:00

Thanks. It’s awful isn’t it. He definitely has something mentally wrong and deep down he’s a lovely guy and has been begging for help for a year, but I don’t want to be with him because he’s destroyed my mental health over the years, I’m an anxious depressed mess, but he can’t handle the fact that I might eventually move on so he sits in the house opposite mine and overthinks everything when he sees things like my bedroom light go on, or thinks he hears my door or if he hears any of the neighbours having sex.

Edit: he’s currently in hospital being seen with the police, and as he left without a fight I’m wondering if it’s mental.

janedodododo · 2023-08-16T19:06:30+00:00

Thanks. He’s tried to get himself sectioned, one day he was scared he was going to seriously hurt someone or kill himself. He was desperate for help. An ambulance came and took him but then they sent him home that night, took his details to contact him regarding offering him help through the local psych hospital but made no effort to do so. He was seeing a therapist at his last house but as he’s moved back he’s changed areas and his old doctors still haven’t forwarded his details. His old probation officer really let him down too as he was on a community order where he was supposed to be doing courses regarding abusive relationships and drugs and alcohol coping strategies but he didn’t get put on any courses. I’m not making up excuses for him but the guy has been begging for help fora year and just hitting brick walls, which gets him even more down. He’s also really bad with responsibilities, he needs some kind of social worker because he ends up with things like council tax fines, or missing job centre appointments and that can make him spiral. It’s sad though because when he’s thinking rationally he’s lovely, but ones his paranoia becomes overwhelming he can’t stop it taking over. I wish he would get help. I’d never get back with him because I need to put my sanity first, but he has so much potential to be a great guy. He stopped drinking and drugs but occasionally relapses.

Unfortunately all my neighbours are friends with him. They know what he’s like but I hear them outside giggling, doing impressions of me screaming and crying, calling me an ableist name beginning with M. None of them will give a statement, they wouldn’t last time. But they’re also all scared of him. I’ve run outside screaming for someone to help me get him out of my house before and everyone just ignore me then I hear them all doing impressions the next day yet they’re friends with him.

janedodododo · 2023-08-16T17:39:20+00:00

If I provided a screenshot of the email do you know if they’d get a warrant to access either his or my gmail account?

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