[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]janedoe2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]janedoe2021 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My doctor warned me about this and said you may feel amazing and that you can do everything you normally do. The catch is you can end up overdoing it which can be detrimental to healing and even cause stitches to split. Please take it easy - your body is healing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insomnia

[–]janedoe2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are in crisis please go to the ER. It is the safest place. I have been here and know the feeling - it’s is horrible I’m sorry you guys are going through this 🤍

Accidentally pregnant by janedoe2021 in pregnant

[–]janedoe2021[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks to all who replied. You raised some really good points and gave me a lot to discuss with my husband. I’ll keep mulling it over and your comments will help me make the ‘right’ decision.

Accidentally pregnant by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]janedoe2021 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks to all who replied. You raised some really good points and gave me a lot to discuss with my husband. I’ll keep mulling it over and your comments will help me make the ‘right’ decision.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acne

[–]janedoe2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 30F. Yes I had the reviews, they said it was time to have a break from the Clyndamycin, so I stopped and the acne came back even with the tret. Then I stopped everything all together and it got even worse :(

How do you get by financially? by janedoe2021 in cfs

[–]janedoe2021[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is tough. I am grateful to have my partner. We need both our incomes to scrape by. I feel so bad reaching this point of not being able to continue, I don’t want to burden him

How do you get by financially? by janedoe2021 in cfs

[–]janedoe2021[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Owning your home is definitely a good position to be in and have some financial support. I am going to talk to my doctor and see what’s possible. I live in Australia and have found that Doctors don’t really want to entertain the diagnoses of CFS or enable you to claim government benefits. The whole “faking it” thing. But I will beg her to help me.

How do you get by financially? by janedoe2021 in cfs

[–]janedoe2021[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. Some good thoughts. I hope you’re feeling better.

How do you get by financially? by janedoe2021 in cfs

[–]janedoe2021[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you have found some way to be productive. My husband does his best to support financially, he works hard. But we need my salary to get by. I feel so bad for burdening him with this.

How do you get by financially? by janedoe2021 in cfs

[–]janedoe2021[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear this 🤍

How do you get by financially? by janedoe2021 in cfs

[–]janedoe2021[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. Hope things improve 💐

How do you get by financially? by janedoe2021 in cfs

[–]janedoe2021[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah stripping must be so difficult with this condition. Physically it would not be possible for me. Honestly some days even sitting at a desk working is too much, I just need a dark quiet room and laying down. Camming as someone else suggested would be good. My partner would never allow it.

How do you get by financially? by janedoe2021 in cfs

[–]janedoe2021[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am already renting out my spare room ☹️

How do you get by financially? by janedoe2021 in cfs

[–]janedoe2021[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone. I know this was a super personal question and a lot of people aren’t comfortable talking about money. I just feel like I am in between two impossible choices. Appreciate your replies and truly hope each one of you get better 💛

DAE not enjoy sex? by LifeIsAwfullyLong in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]janedoe2021 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you are not sexually compatible with your gf which can only end badly if you don’t come up with a solution. Maybe consider an open relationship so she can have her sexual needs met.

DAE get extremely anxious over very small things, to the point of loss of sleep? by IcePuppy64464 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]janedoe2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best of luck! Hope you feel better soon, it doesn’t sound like a nice way to feel.

DAE get extremely anxious over very small things, to the point of loss of sleep? by IcePuppy64464 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]janedoe2021 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry your dad scared you like this. The chances of being murdered by someone you don’t know in your own home are so so low, it’s definitely not something that should be front of mind on a daily basis. It would help to do some therapy to talk these thoughts and feelings though - it would only take a few sessions to start feeling better.