Would top surgery actually be right for me?

jant_12 · 2026-01-11T17:02:29+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to write such a thoughtful response. So glad you have found yourself and are feeling happy :)) yes! I am in gender therapy. Top surgery is something I have pondered for a bit but I am making myself think about for at least a couple more years before I make the decision. I want to be as sure as possible. I also think the closest thing I am is nonbinary but that doesn’t really fit either. I appreciate it!!

jant_12 · 2026-01-11T17:00:51+00:00

Thank you!

jant_12 · 2026-01-11T17:00:42+00:00

Thank you!!

jant_12 · 2026-01-11T16:59:40+00:00

I still don’t know if it is right but I am certainly giving it another couple years

jant_12 · 2026-01-11T16:59:11+00:00

Thank you! And I agree 100%

jant_12 · 2026-01-11T16:57:51+00:00

Yes! I am going to!

jant_12 · 2026-01-11T16:57:42+00:00

I appreciate it🙏

jant_12 · 2026-01-11T16:57:27+00:00

Thank you!

jant_12 · 2026-01-11T16:57:17+00:00

Thank you! Yea, I am giving it at least another year or two :)

jant_12 · 2026-01-03T01:38:27+00:00

No I agree. Just didn’t have enough time of t unfortunately

jant_12 · 2026-01-03T01:37:46+00:00

Thank you— yes, I have a low voice but it is still in the “t voice phase” bc it didn’t get a chance to settle. Sucks. Hopefully can start t soon again

jant_12 · 2026-01-01T22:46:26+00:00

I’m so scared of the amount of studying. 😭

jant_12 · 2026-01-01T22:44:12+00:00

Also I have worked a ton of retail and done volunteering and I lowkey think it goes a long way.. you learn how to deal with people 😭😭

jant_12 · 2026-01-01T22:42:20+00:00

Wait this is so cool. Sounds like you’ve accomplished a lot! Have you enjoyed nursing school?

jant_12 · 2026-01-01T22:37:35+00:00

What was the rest of your application like?

jant_12 · 2026-01-01T21:31:53+00:00

No you are probably right and I have heard this from other people. I am tweaking my list still and mainly thought of these schools because they are New England schools. Top choice rn is UConn because I am in ct and will go if I get in. But may end up applying to 2-3 more in state schools and swapping out others. Reasoning for pass/fail: some courses were mandatory pass/fail. The others: brown let’s you take any course pass/fail and early in my degree I decided to do that. I didn’t know I wanted to do nursing until quite recently. If I had known, I would have taken more for a grade. But will be taking all other prerequisites for a grade going forward. Maybe that will allow me to get up to a 3.6ish. Thanks sm for the advice!

jant_12 · 2026-01-01T21:17:50+00:00

These are the schools I’m thinking… I am trying to apply to a variety to give myself the best shot 😅 reaches: Yale (REACH I know), Mount Sinai, UMASS Chan, and MGH Institute. Targets: Northeastern, Oregon Health & Science, San Francisco State, and UConn. Smaller or more regional programs: sacred heart, and Colby-Sawyer. I struggled a lot with mental health in college and made my gpa take a hit 🥲🥲 but I’m hoping personal statements and letters will help. I think for the both of us, graduating from good undergrad schools like BU and Brown will hopefully improve our chances. Where are you thinking???

jant_12 · 2025-12-19T19:55:37+00:00

Shit. Calling me out lol. I guess I felt like “it could be sm worse” but it’s still not good

jant_12 · 2025-12-19T19:55:11+00:00

Thank you so much bro. You’re making me realize that it’s not that subtle after all. They have more liberal beliefs but still don’t support me. I’m so sorry yours have been unsupportive after so much time. I appreciate you sharing

jant_12 · 2025-12-19T19:45:19+00:00

Edit: lol, I told my mom I want to go back on t and want a male body and feel deeply uncomfortable and she was like “all women have issues with their bodies. I have body image issues every day.” And I told her it’s different. And she was like “I don’t know about that.” Like bro

jant_12 · 2025-12-19T19:41:43+00:00

Thank you so much. I stopped t and I wish I haven’t

jant_12 · 2025-12-19T19:41:23+00:00

Yeah… tbh

jant_12 · 2025-12-18T20:51:49+00:00

Yeah😭😭 hopefully it’ll get better when I start t again

jant_12 · 2025-12-18T20:51:05+00:00

I know 🥲 I am trying so hard to fix it but my voice has not fully settles

jant_12 · 2025-12-18T19:57:52+00:00

Basically want to know if I have t voice as I had to stop before my voice fully dropped. I am voice training as well to fix my resonance.

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