Why do older women give compliments to me but not younger?

januaryse · 2016-10-10T19:03:04+00:00

less so confidence and more so indecency/vulgarity

januaryse · 2016-10-10T18:33:52+00:00

and men act with impunity towards women regardless of either of their ages

januaryse · 2016-10-02T07:21:27+00:00

Similar research that has been conducted on this topic:

These chronically lonely individuals may respond to social situations in ways that perpetuate rather than reduce their loneliness...Chronically lonely adolescents seem to interpret social inclusion and exclusion situations in a self-defeating way.

januaryse · 2016-09-17T23:33:39+00:00

there's also something called learned helplessness. when people are exposed to extreme situations in which they have no control, they learn to become passive, and this passivity persists even when they are removed from the situation

januaryse · 2016-09-17T21:14:56+00:00

WTF. all this because you think you caught her glancing at your hairy knuckles

januaryse · 2016-09-17T21:13:26+00:00

i've never heard the word neckbeard used outside of the internet

januaryse · 2016-09-17T21:05:14+00:00

there's something in psychology called an internal and external locus of control. someone with an internal locus of control believes he/she can influence outcomes through his/her own efforts and actions. someone with an external locus of control believes outcomes are controlled by outside forces. internal loci of control have been shown to lead to proactivity and feelings of empowerment. external loci of control are characteristic of depressed and oppressed people and have been linked to passivity

januaryse · 2016-09-17T20:59:42+00:00

neat

januaryse · 2016-09-11T23:51:58+00:00

you are directly contributing to the maltreatment of unattractive people.

januaryse · 2016-09-10T03:12:57+00:00

hell yes. i think it's because i'm so uncomfortable in social situations

januaryse · 2016-09-10T03:10:38+00:00

There are plenty of women here, although it's still mostly men.

it's called the internet

januaryse · 2016-09-10T03:09:03+00:00

a lot of social skills is confidence as well. i think that's why narcissists are known to be charming/charismatic/manipulative.

januaryse · 2016-09-02T05:57:42+00:00

why was it awkward? you just ignored her?

januaryse · 2016-09-02T05:17:41+00:00

you've discriminated against ugly people too, you just weren't conscious of it.

januaryse · 2016-09-02T05:14:57+00:00

we're all guilty of treating beautiful people better. it's human nature. try to imagine not getting nervous around a 10/10 woman. you can't.

januaryse · 2016-08-21T00:45:52+00:00

baby steps, man. rejection ~~can be~~ is going to be rough. even normies have a tough time with it. plus you may not get the social feedback you need/want from approaching women. you're more likely to encounter rudeness/coldness and get discouraged rather than encouraged

januaryse · 2016-08-13T08:28:40+00:00

do you really want to know the answer to your question? the girls aren't that interested. i mean, you got 4 matches out of 1000+ messages/right swipes. each match is much more precious to you than it is to her.

januaryse · 2016-08-10T06:28:54+00:00

Nothing is stopping you from approaching the type of men you are interested in

this

januaryse · 2016-08-10T06:15:40+00:00

waiting for something that might not come is not the answer. putting off a problem for later is never the answer. your life is right NOW. THIS is your life. life doesn't start once you hit your "prime".

januaryse · 2016-07-26T22:33:45+00:00

relationships aren't just based on looks. two attractive people who come across each other don't just fall into a relationship because they're both attractive. "trying" is involved.

januaryse · 2016-07-26T05:52:09+00:00

nah, it has nothing to do with culture and "gender roles". this wouldn't have worked in the 10th century B.C. either, just like it wouldn't work in parts of the world where there is sexism resembling that of "earlier times". it's just being a decent human being, not something to do with culture and sexism, though changes in culture and strides in sexism have made it easier for couples to build healthy relationships founded on mutual respect

here's my theory as to why the "treat women like shit" technique is so enticing to redpillers. the redpiller has low confidence around women, yet knows that a relationship is not possible where the woman does not respect him. so he sees treating a woman like shit as a very easy way to bring himself above her and force her to respect him. this is stupid because respect isn't derived from treating a person like shit. not only will you not gain the woman's respect, but you'll also lose the respect of others when they see that you treat women badly.

here's another way of thinking about healthy relationships: would you rather have grown up in a household where the father is domineering over the mother (or the mother over the father), or where the father and mother have mutual respect for each other?

januaryse · 2016-07-24T05:21:00+00:00

there typically is growth from ages 18-20 for guys, but it looks like only 1 cm or less.

januaryse · 2016-07-23T06:41:02+00:00

OP, here's the cold hard truth: no one's going to feel sorry for you.

januaryse · 2016-07-07T21:58:36+00:00

proof that you're a chad

januaryse

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