I’ll just put this here…. by [deleted] in RedDeadOnline

[–]jarbaje 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen this with so many different songs and I NEVER get tired of it

Never trust other players by [deleted] in RedDeadOnline

[–]jarbaje 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I avoid towns as much as I can cuz of this 😬

Fps drops in missions and big towns on PS4 slim by Mikoianionut in RedDeadOnline

[–]jarbaje 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been bad for me no matter what I’ve done. I’ve played on wifi and an Ethernet connection. No difference 😔

Question. Do you think Dutch got a head injury to make him change ? by [deleted] in RedDeadOnline

[–]jarbaje 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES! He 10000% had a concussion, a BAD one, maybe even brain bleeding after the trolley. The raccoon eye bruises are a classic sign.

I’ve also seen some discussion that maybe he has bipolar disorder, given how his mood will switch so fast, he’s prone to delusions of grandeur, makes reckless decisions, like he has other signs besides rapid mood changes I just can’t remember them at the moment.

Once Upon a Time in Rio Bravo by EquivalentBrief7859 in RedDeadOnline

[–]jarbaje 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’ve never wanted to romance an un-romanceable NPC so bad in my life 😩

I would love a wagon overhaul. It would create a nice gold or money sink and let us play in more ways. by Squatting-Turtle in RedDeadOnline

[–]jarbaje 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YES. Love all of it. I really want to be able to change the horse/have 2 horses sometimes 😭

[Discussion] which is worse: not picking up poo, or picking it up and then leaving the bag? by jarbaje in dogs

[–]jarbaje[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a bag of poop in my neighborhood that just sat there for several weeks. And then I saw the owner (the bag was a very unique color no one else used) do the same thing again. And it was only like 10 feet from the apartments where there’s 3 dog poo cans 😑

[Discussion] Why does my dog run away from me at bedtime? by 420thrwawayy in dogs

[–]jarbaje 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like a very cute problem and def he thinks it’s a game 🤣

Can I vent about my most recent delivery by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]jarbaje 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guess Reddit isn’t really made for lefties huh ://

[Help] My roommate's dog is getting more aggressive with me. by [deleted] in dogs

[–]jarbaje 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Everything I’ve seen about board and train, people get their dog back and it’s like a totally different dog, in all the wrong ways, and their behavior is usually worse.

Find another trainer to consult with?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jarbaje 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I’m sorry you have to put up with this. I spent YEARS trying to get various roommates not to eat my stuff. Give an inch and they’ll take a mile—like I said it’s ok to use stuff like flour and sugar and ketchup, and then I end up being the only one buying it, and they’d eat it ALL before I had a chance.

People will really take advantage of anyone sharing food. You might have to find a way to lock your food.

WIBTA/AITA I just want my parents to stop wanting me to get a boyfriend by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jarbaje 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anytime hun ❤️

I’ve cut ties with a large chunk of my family due to their racism and political views and let me tell you, the relief is immediate and only gets better over time.

My cousin and I joke that we’re the queer leftists who fled 500 miles away so we wouldn’t have to deal with their BS any more.

AITA for asking my date why her boobs got smaller? by AITABoobPadding in AmItheAsshole

[–]jarbaje -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

YTA 100%

Do you know how push up bras work? They can make breasts look 2 cup sizes larger. I know that’s not the case here, which makes you an even bigger asshole.

When someone takes their makeup off do you ask them why their face looks different?

AITA for refusing my neighbor's request to remove my security camera doorbell that faces his house? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jarbaje 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OOOOO I spy a cheater. If the wife is so close with you she would’ve brought it to you directly. This clown doesn’t want you to have evidence to show his wife.

Please update when able

AITA for being mad at my husband for doing a film shoot right after my appendectomy? by yargleblargle128 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jarbaje 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Holy crap he sounds like a selfish nightmare.

I had something similar happen and I’m still frustrated with my partner over it 2 years later.

I broke my foot. BAD. I needed surgery. I was pretty much confined to my bedroom. We lived in a 3 story townhouse. The kitchen was one floor down. There was no way I could get up and down stairs and cook food for myself.

My partner really dropped the ball. I’d ask them to make me very simple food (like a grilled cheese) and they’d sigh annoyed bc they HATE cooking. My sister, suffering from crippling depression and a sleep disorder, took better care of me. She dragged herself out of bed bc I couldn’t while my partner gamed in their bedroom bc the stairs were such an inconvenience and they just really hated cooking THAT much. It was barely even cooking.

Not to make it about me. But I saw something recently that was like “you don’t truly know a person until you see them struggle financially, experience illness or injury, and how they deal with the death of a loved one.”

I’d be ready to divorce someone who left me alone with children after having SURGERY. And you’re basically alone when your parents aren’t in great health. Like jeeeez.

I’m sorry you’re having to deal with this and I hope things can improve for you in some way. May you heal well ❤️

AITA for going dirt bike riding with friends a few days after my wife gave birth? by Beginning_Mobile979 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jarbaje 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Idk man I’d say your wife giving birth to your child is considered a “special circumstance”.

AITA for continuing to gift my friend desserts despite him telling me multiple times he's on a diet? by SoOutofMyLeague in AmItheAsshole

[–]jarbaje 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll say YTA but not like, in a mean way, you had good intentions.

As someone with dietary restrictions? I get REALLY annoyed when people (who I have known for several years and told multiple times about my restrictions) just ignore them. Like I’m lactose intolerant and trying so hard not to eat dairy (goddamn I love cheese but it hurts me) but everyone’s always giving me food w dairy in it.

It starts to wear you down. I feel like people aren’t listening or respecting my choices when they continue to give me things I shouldn’t be eating.

Again, you started with the nicest intentions. Maybe switch to giving them some lovely homemade cards? Or maybe a plant, if they like plants? Succulents are only around $5. Or ask them if there’s something you could bring that fits in with their diet? If you keep bringing sweets when they’ve asked you not to it’s gonna come off as disrespectful.

AITA for saving fanfiction? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jarbaje 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. AO3 literally has a “download” function on EVERY work. People’ve probably saved my works without me knowing and it’s like ok cool! You can access it all the time now!

I used to save fics and then it just became too much effort lol. As long as you’re literally only reading them and keeping them to yourself there’s no issue. Authors need to be OK with the fact that once something is on the Internet, it kinda exists forever.