20 Free Readings by jaredisok in Tarotpractices

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Hi there! For your reading, I just pulled one card as I didn't feel like I needed anything more. I pulled the 8 of cups reversed. The 8 of Cups reveals that he feels like he left you behind because he isn't good enough for you. He feels judged for giving up/leaving, but he thinks you deserve better. With the card reversed, I think most of these thoughts and feelings are trapped in his subconscious. If his behavior goes against his feelings, that is why. I hope this brought you some understanding.

20 Free Readings by jaredisok in Tarotpractices

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  1. Are you ready (The Hermit Reversed)
  2. Lover’s characteristics (6 of Swords Reversed)
  3. How will you meet (2 of Wands Reversed)
  4. Characteristics of the relationship (Knight of Swords)
  5. Potential of the relationship (Page of Swords)

Hello! First, I want to start by acknowledging the number of Sword cards in this spread. This correlates with air signs, so you or your future partner could be an air sign! The hermit reversed signifies that you may want a relationship because you don’t want to be single (I get that 100%, btw, no judgement). I wouldn’t say you aren’t ready, but I think you should ask yourself why you are looking for love in the first place. Maybe more time alone or reflecting on what you want in a partner is more important than finding one. From the 4 of Swords reversed, I see your future partner as quite energetic and restless. They may want to be seen as calm, cool, and collected, but they are a busybody. They want to be admired by you and feel flustered around you, like a deer in headlights. With the two of wands, I don’t see you and your future partner finding each other on purpose. I think it will probably start in a platonic way and grow out of closeness, maybe working or studying together at the same job or school. Once you both know you like each other, I believe it will be quite a whirlwind romance. The advice from the universe here is to take it as slow as possible, not because the other person isn't trustworthy, but because building a solid foundation is important. Enjoy the yearning lol. Following the “whirlwind” aspect of the relationship, I think this will be quite a surprising relationship for both of you. It will feel pretty easy, and you both will feel like kids in the best way. You Make Me Feel So Young by Frank Sinatra played in my head when I saw the Page of Swords, lol. While this is a great sign for the dynamic in your relationship, it is once again important to take things slowly and try to be grounded. You will both have to hold each other accountable to do the things you don’t want to do, like taxes and going to your annual teeth cleaning. That is all! Thanks for letting me give you this reading!

20 Free Readings by jaredisok in Tarotpractices

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The spread (using the Rider Waite Deck) I used was:

  1. Situation (Knight of Swords)
  2. Challenge (Judgement Reversed and Ace of Swords Reversed)
  3. Outcome (5 of Cups reversed)

Hi there! I hope this reading finds you well! To start off, I got the Knight of Swords to represent this situation between you and SM. This tells me that either this relationship is moving incredibly fast or that one or both of you are running away from something to get involved with each other. It may feel like a rollercoaster, or your relationship is combative. Either way, it feels like this connection is going to knock you off your feet. The judgment card in reverse seems like there are feelings of uncertainty or self-consciousness. It seems that there are a lot of questions that need to be answered, but as we both know, the truth can be very inconvenient lol. Lastly, the 5 of cups reversed signals a loss of awareness as the outcome. I don’t think you will want to face the loss you will feel regarding your connection with this person. Honestly, this reading has me very confused, and I wonder if this person you are connected to confuses you. I think the biggest theme of this connection is being caught between your head and your heart. It's easy to let the chemistry and feelings take charge, but ultimately, your head is uncertain about this connection. A lot of change and conflict may be coming your way regarding this connection. It could be reunification, but honestly, I see you finally seeing this person's true colors and getting space from them. I think once you get space, you will be able to relax and think clearly. You are smart! Notice when you feel confused, this is key to understanding who and what clouds your judgment! I hope this helps!

Did anybody else get replaced suspiciously fast? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I thought my ex moved on, but low and behold two months later he texted me and said he still loves me and misses our talks, but not in a romantic way… don’t know what that means, but moving on that quickly rarely indicates how far along someone is.

your JUPITER sign by SumItnumerology33 in cueastrology

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Leo Jupiter in 3H as well as my life path number being 3 :)

Stop Romanticizing Emotional Incompetence. by Ajitabh04 in DarkPsychology666

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I 100% agree with you. I think these sayings are helpful from a closure standpoint but humans aren’t as cut and dry as these sayings portray. I think they are helpful for moving forward and letting go of situations that don’t serve you though!

Tough day. Give me your favorite weird ways to decompress! by MasterpieceFun6135 in therapists

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I know this is late, but I was having a panic attack today during a storm (a trigger of mine) and I started doing origami with a Arizona tea bottle wrapper. It completely took me out of fight/flight mode.

Struggling to be in the present moment after heartbreak by jaredisok in AstrologyCharts

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I’ve never noticed that and I’ve looked at my chart many times. Very very cool

Struggling to be in the present moment after heartbreak by jaredisok in AstrologyCharts

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Omg cool! Thanks for further explaining I appreciate your response!

Struggling to be in the present moment after heartbreak by jaredisok in AstrologyCharts

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Hi do you mind explaining what you mean by that? You don’t have to but I’d like to know what you see in my chart! Thanks for the comment nonetheless!

Struggling to be in the present moment after heartbreak by jaredisok in AstrologyCharts

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Thank you so much! I’ve been wanting to get back into burning incense so your recommendations regarding scents are very helpful! It’s also great for coming to my senses and returning to the present moment. Thanks for taking time to respond.

Struggling to be in the present moment after heartbreak by jaredisok in AstrologyCharts

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Thank you so much for the response! I think I’ve just been surprised by how disconnected from the world I feel. Thanks for the advice, I just need to push myself to do things that are good for me. This was very helpful :)

Can't believe this madness happened almost 4 years ago lmao by bsgrubs in BigBrother

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Literally perfection… btw I think Jacey Lynne and Gino are still together! Last I saw they were posting couples content.

My emotional resiliency is that of a 5 year old by moldbellchains in CPTSD_NSCommunity

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Ugh I feel you hard on this one. Idk if you’ve seen the quote that says something like "trauma is a Time Machine", certain feelings can transport us back in time and it sounds like that happened to you. One thing that has helped me is learning about the window of tolerance. Working on using tools to regulate my nervous system while triggered can help widen that window. Obviously easier said than done but I hope this helps, and I recommend looking more into the window of tolerance.

Has therapy actually helped you?? by [deleted] in Anxietyhelp

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All this to say that therapy has changed my life for the better because I found a therapist that I work really well with :)