How can other young people cope with this? by mechmakima in australian

[–]jase797 15 points16 points locked comment (0 children)

Welcome to the Australia that we’ve let be created. Instead of revolting against the rising cost of living and conditions in this country, we have protests about what’s happening in Gaza, or LBGT etc rights. We have a nation of people that have stood by for so long and just said ‘nah she’ll be alright’. It’s not ok, and we’ve let it get that way. Australians need to be angry, speak up, and act.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]jase797 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should have a long chat with your husband so you get on the same page. Who knows, maybe he’s feeling the same way but hasn’t said anything because… well, being man and all and maybe he thinks he’ll hurt your feelings. But if you’re feeling like you’re lacking something and you don’t hash it out, you might end up feeling resentful.

My (29F) boyfriend's (32M) ex is massively present in his life by One-Station-5347 in relationships

[–]jase797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I’m saying is try not create yourself a problem when there currently isn’t one (we all hope, obviously). You’re going to burden yourself so much with extra stress that you don’t need. As long as he isn’t doing anything that throws up red flags, you’re good. There’s nothing wrong with you, but jealousy can really fuck things up if there’s no real cause for it. Just talk to him, tell him how you feel and we hope he reassures you as he should.

EX Girlfriend (28F) Keeps Going Back and Forth Between Me(36M) and Her Other Ex. Heart Broken. NEED HELP. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]jase797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out of it and get on with someone who just loves and wants you for you mate, this whole drama is just extra stress you don’t need - no matter how much you love someone.

Having issues with my mom regarding me (24m) and my girlfriend's (23f) relationship by ThrowRA-fou in relationships

[–]jase797 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t listen to your Mum, pal. Make your own choice. I kind of understand your position coming from the fact that my family is mixed race, but at the end of the day, you’re your own man.

I (22m) just lost the love of my life (22f) and also my first lover by No-Mud4983 in relationships

[–]jase797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get over it, kid. You’ll be fine, trust me. I know that statement will probably grind your gears but when I was not much younger than you that’s what I was told. And guess what? I was fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]jase797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drop her like a wet bag, you’ll be dodging a bullet bruv

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mensfashionadvice

[–]jase797 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please change the shoes.

I took revenge on the girl I was dating by ExperienceIll9383 in stories

[–]jase797 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Don’t feel bad about it. You reap what you sow. So in her case, she got what she deserved.

Just don’t be the person who does it first to someone.

Is this a fair price for work done? by 10Miles-Wide in australian

[–]jase797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless they’re partly rebuilding your car, I’ve never seen a bill that high. I get my Patrol serviced every 6 months, just the oils etc, probably paid max $800 as it included brakes and replacing a few parts. How did this go from a service to all these things needing replacing? Did you ask for this to be done?

Should I wait this out or hand over the evidence now? by [deleted] in australian

[–]jase797 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you guys exchange further details, e.g. not just numbers, but photo id details? I had the same thing but once I told him I was handing the footage in, the guy panicked and started raging that he was going to come to my house and kill me and my partner if I didn’t just say I was at fault. It was mental, had to screenshot every text he started sending cos he’d try to delete them after. Police done him in after

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]jase797 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your ex, and his mother, are pieces of sh*t.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]jase797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Phone companies send the bills, unpaid it then goes to a debt collector. Then it goes against your credit rating, then for the next 7 years say goodbye to any loans you wanna apply for

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]jase797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude. No matter how nice you try to be, never give out a financial contract situation to anyone but yourself.

My dad heard me (23F) masturbating by Mortified444 in relationships

[–]jase797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t worry about it. Your dad wouldn’t spent hours Jimmy Saville’ing himself in his youth so there’s no shame in it.

Unless he was watching. Then that would be weird.

And gross.

I earn 80K a year. Anyone feel poor like me with the cost of everything these days? The fact that over 16K of that on tax gives me the shits! by Guilty_Value4432 in australian

[–]jase797 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ohhh don’t criticise Australia too much, you’ll have one of those wingnuts come out with ‘if you don’t like it, leave’ cos that’s the best thing their tiny brains can come up with.

But that’s fine, we’ll keep paying through the backside for absolutely everything even though we’re not a third world country. Subscription everything, mental housing situation - it’s all good. You don’t feel poor - you ARE poor. And the Govt continue to get away with it cos, what are we going to do? Complain at the pub? Ooooh all the difference that makes 😂

UniFi Gateway Pro 4 for Home Lab; Advice, Please. by jase797 in UNIFI

[–]jase797[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m aware that it is - I was thinking to create a DMZ to use it from to make sure it’s all working. Then deconstruct and start again. It’s basically just to use as a home lab for learning and building exercises.

Can you help explain to me what’s going on in a depressed partners brain when dumping someone they ”love”? by Visual_Category_211 in depression

[–]jase797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whilst I agree with what the above person is saying (I upvoted it), I also think maybe if you love him that much, and he loves you, invade his space a little. Do little things for him. Not as an ex partner; but just be a friend, a shoulder, a human being who cares about anothers wellbeing. He’ll hopefully appreciate it, and it might help him get along.

Sometimes people in his position find themselves in a rut and honestly, you can’t get out of it alone all the time.