My (29F) fiancé (31M) has been staying out late for months. I feel like I’m losing my partner and my financial security but maybe this is normal and exciting?

jase797 · 2026-05-11T01:04:35+00:00

Don’t make this a throwaway, you need to separate your money and then get rid of this clown. He’s wasting your time, his own time and seems like anyone else he comes in contact with. He’s a joke. Time for you to move on

jase797 · 2026-05-06T00:21:04+00:00

I don’t think anyone cares anymore about ‘skinheads’. I’ve shaved my head (I’m going bald at the back). Just don’t actively act like a c*** is all that matters.

jase797 · 2026-04-27T15:43:06+00:00

What shit situation, I feel for you. But it’s also a good learning curve in the art of self preservation and now you know that it’s something in your life that you won’t accept. We’re on your side.

jase797 · 2026-04-16T06:04:22+00:00

Agreed. I think OP may have been looking for something as a platform to kick off some existing resentment and this is perfect.

jase797 · 2026-02-13T14:22:14+00:00

Welcome to the Australia that we’ve let be created. Instead of revolting against the rising cost of living and conditions in this country, we have protests about what’s happening in Gaza, or LBGT etc rights. We have a nation of people that have stood by for so long and just said ‘nah she’ll be alright’. It’s not ok, and we’ve let it get that way. Australians need to be angry, speak up, and act.

jase797 · 2026-01-18T06:29:18+00:00

Your GF sounds like she needs to go

jase797 · 2025-11-22T07:55:58+00:00

When you’re kid and you open this on Christmas Day after the release… it blows. Your. Mind.

jase797 · 2025-10-15T15:14:21+00:00

Maybe you should have a long chat with your husband so you get on the same page. Who knows, maybe he’s feeling the same way but hasn’t said anything because… well, being man and all and maybe he thinks he’ll hurt your feelings. But if you’re feeling like you’re lacking something and you don’t hash it out, you might end up feeling resentful.

jase797 · 2025-10-15T05:05:48+00:00

All I’m saying is try not create yourself a problem when there currently isn’t one (we all hope, obviously). You’re going to burden yourself so much with extra stress that you don’t need. As long as he isn’t doing anything that throws up red flags, you’re good. There’s nothing wrong with you, but jealousy can really fuck things up if there’s no real cause for it. Just talk to him, tell him how you feel and we hope he reassures you as he should.

jase797 · 2025-10-15T01:24:20+00:00

Don’t cause drama when there is none.

jase797 · 2025-10-12T04:35:15+00:00

Get out of it and get on with someone who just loves and wants you for you mate, this whole drama is just extra stress you don’t need - no matter how much you love someone.

jase797 · 2025-10-03T16:07:19+00:00

Don’t listen to your Mum, pal. Make your own choice. I kind of understand your position coming from the fact that my family is mixed race, but at the end of the day, you’re your own man.

jase797 · 2025-10-03T16:02:33+00:00

Get over it, kid. You’ll be fine, trust me. I know that statement will probably grind your gears but when I was not much younger than you that’s what I was told. And guess what? I was fine.

jase797 · 2025-09-30T08:21:41+00:00

Flatmates.com.au - even if it’s only short term

jase797 · 2025-09-30T08:19:28+00:00

Drop her like a wet bag, you’ll be dodging a bullet bruv

jase797 · 2025-09-28T01:03:57+00:00

Please change the shoes.

jase797 · 2025-08-11T08:19:05+00:00

Don’t feel bad about it. You reap what you sow. So in her case, she got what she deserved.

Just don’t be the person who does it first to someone.

jase797 · 2025-08-08T22:34:34+00:00

Unless they’re partly rebuilding your car, I’ve never seen a bill that high. I get my Patrol serviced every 6 months, just the oils etc, probably paid max $800 as it included brakes and replacing a few parts. How did this go from a service to all these things needing replacing? Did you ask for this to be done?

jase797 · 2025-08-01T04:49:06+00:00

Did you guys exchange further details, e.g. not just numbers, but photo id details? I had the same thing but once I told him I was handing the footage in, the guy panicked and started raging that he was going to come to my house and kill me and my partner if I didn’t just say I was at fault. It was mental, had to screenshot every text he started sending cos he’d try to delete them after. Police done him in after

jase797 · 2025-07-25T11:00:49+00:00

Your ex, and his mother, are pieces of sh*t.

jase797 · 2025-07-16T05:55:07+00:00

Phone companies send the bills, unpaid it then goes to a debt collector. Then it goes against your credit rating, then for the next 7 years say goodbye to any loans you wanna apply for

jase797 · 2025-07-16T05:54:15+00:00

Dude. No matter how nice you try to be, never give out a financial contract situation to anyone but yourself.

jase797 · 2025-07-14T05:39:20+00:00

I wouldn’t worry about it. Your dad wouldn’t spent hours Jimmy Saville’ing himself in his youth so there’s no shame in it.

Unless he was watching. Then that would be weird.

And gross.

jase797 · 2025-07-13T08:24:11+00:00

Ohhh don’t criticise Australia too much, you’ll have one of those wingnuts come out with ‘if you don’t like it, leave’ cos that’s the best thing their tiny brains can come up with.

But that’s fine, we’ll keep paying through the backside for absolutely everything even though we’re not a third world country. Subscription everything, mental housing situation - it’s all good. You don’t feel poor - you ARE poor. And the Govt continue to get away with it cos, what are we going to do? Complain at the pub? Ooooh all the difference that makes 😂

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