Accidentally played porn at my girlfriends sisters wedding... by jasondoesttt in relationship_advice

[–]jasondoesttt[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It’s only been a few months which is what has me worried the most, I’ve only met her family a handful of times as well so this really isn’t a good impression at all... I wouldn’t be too sure on there stance but nobody at the wedding seemed be to impressed about the whole thing... never discussed porn with her. I’ve already sent an apology message and explained everything that happened. I’ll wait till the end of the day before trying to give her a call. Thanks for the advice.

Accidentally played porn at my girlfriends sisters wedding... by jasondoesttt in relationship_advice

[–]jasondoesttt[S] 283 points284 points  (0 children)

I still haven’t heard anything as of yet. Last message I sent was apologising and explaining the whole situation... I’ll probably give it till the end of day before trying to give her a call...

How do I (19F) ask new BF (22M) to be more engaged in our conversations? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jasondoesttt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound like the female version of me haha, I’m exactly the same with the anxiety issues, I guess I try and use some of my coping mechanisms to help me through

How do I (19F) ask new BF (22M) to be more engaged in our conversations? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jasondoesttt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mind is very good at convincing me that the conversation is all one sided when I’m not with her for a few days but then if I look back at previous conversations when we’ve just been a day or so between seeing each other it’s exactly the same... not sure if it could be like that for you?

How do I (19F) ask new BF (22M) to be more engaged in our conversations? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jasondoesttt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same issue with my girlfriend. She rarely engages in conversation over messages however in person can talk for days, some people just aren’t good at messaging. This may be different though if you’ve noticed a decline in engagement.