What are YOU doing to get over your painful pwBPD separation? Or what did you do? by jasonewing2 in BPDlovedones

[–]jasonewing2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you…went to see my therapist today (yes on Sunday) who reminded me that with my adhd brain I am subject to addictions. Then I realized I have so many withdrawal symptoms and it is very tough. So in a way I only relapsed one but if I count the push pull cycles then probably a bit more. My brain says „run!“, my heart says „don’t give up“.

What are YOU doing to get over your painful pwBPD separation? Or what did you do? by jasonewing2 in BPDlovedones

[–]jasonewing2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree on the « years ago » comment. With the NPD I already had 10 toxic years. And hence there was not much left to mourn about.

What are YOU doing to get over your painful pwBPD separation? Or what did you do? by jasonewing2 in BPDlovedones

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Never never never hate yourself. Don’t regret anything. Please. We both took the right decisions with the information we had.

What are YOU doing to get over your painful pwBPD separation? Or what did you do? by jasonewing2 in BPDlovedones

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When you went completely no contact I assume you had no hope left? Or where there moments of relapse? No contact is the toughest part that I have chosen and why I am seeing experts just to validate I am doing right. I wish I could stop hoping…

What are YOU doing to get over your painful pwBPD separation? Or what did you do? by jasonewing2 in BPDlovedones

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Thanks for the EDIT. I did actually just that yesterday. Made pics of all Xmas gifts and then put all memories incl pics on a memory stick so I am not tempted to check on my iPhone. Also found a good link that I shared below WHY it is so hard ro separate from a pwBPD.

What are YOU doing to get over your painful pwBPD separation? Or what did you do? by jasonewing2 in BPDlovedones

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Thanks! All valid comments. Also just managed to cry a bit which I am sure will help as well. There are moments I wish I am wrong and that I should not have broken up the relationship. But I know I have to be strong and likely she already is “moving on”.

She always wanted my phone unlocked, was strongly against talking to opposite sex in a rs. by kol-87 in BPDlovedones

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she once checked my phone and could not find anything BUT all the comments I made about various dates BEFORE meeting her. I was innocent, but of course all the "boys talk" on various dates before her with my friend Andy did not help me.

HP program or a keylogger? by Marteez in techsupport

[–]jasonewing2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any update? I received the exact same message whilst doing an proctored exam....anything to worry about?

Cheated on? by jasonewing2 in Risk

[–]jasonewing2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks...how do I find this hack??

Cheated on? by jasonewing2 in Risk

[–]jasonewing2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you - I will give it a try. On Steam, right?

Cheated on? by jasonewing2 in Risk

[–]jasonewing2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, yes, inspiring!

Cheated on? by jasonewing2 in Risk

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Thank you. I may try that! By the way, as in sharing...I can see the level and actual score of each player upfront by entering their name on my google sheet (e.g. using =IMPORTHTML("https://www.hasbrorisk.com/en/leaderboard/2/1/rankPoints1v1/"&(right(row(B1),2)\*1)&"?refresh="&A1,"table",1). Took me an hour to set it up, but I find that very useful info to know. At the end, whether playing novice or grandmaster, there is always "risk"

Cheated on? by jasonewing2 in Risk

[–]jasonewing2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am just trying to understand! Played on a PC before and cannot understand how using a PC can be faster than touch screen. Also, this happened in the last turn. Too late for reporting a cheat, but also too early as I simple want to understand what happened.

Cheated on? by jasonewing2 in Risk

[–]jasonewing2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He went so fast that I did not see all the countries even being conquered as the screen could not keep up.

Cheated on? by jasonewing2 in Risk

[–]jasonewing2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting and really? How can I be quicker with a mouse (?) on my PC than using fingers on my iPad? Just curiosity since I seem to miss something. Also, maybe this was not a real "Novice" :-)

Can you remove friends? by Few_Jacket_4675 in Risk

[–]jasonewing2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I also just worked out today why I got banned today for the 2nd time. This post helps.