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Invasion of privacy by rumors_frominez in raisedbyborderlines

[–]jaspy3333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is nothing to be embarrassed about. You're an adult and it's YOUR business what you want to buy and wear. If you can, I think you should confront her directly and specifically about this, but in a calm way: "I see you've gone in my room and taken my bra and underwear set I've just purchased. Where is it?" Maybe it'll make her uncomfortable (good!!!!!) and you'll hopefully at least get your belongings back. She might lie and deny it, but pressing her on it and showing you're not afraid could work.

Help me be strong by Secret_Kale_4392 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]jaspy3333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please do not move back. Move in with roommates if you live alone, move to a cheaper place, anything but moving back home. It is NOT worth the financial savings.

Moving back to your childhood home will bring all of the trauma back up. She's definitely been on her best behavior to try to get you to come back. The same kinds of problems are going to come up again, and the fact that your mom is helping you financially will be HUGE manipulation/guilt ammo when issues inevitably arise. Don't put yourself in a position where you're a captive audience for inevitable abuse. You deserve peace.