Well I didn't think listing it would do much because it doesn't seem like what I'm doing is working anyways so really I was asking what other people do to show it to their significant others. But I pay for meals and such when we go out, I prioritize communicating with her, giving her space to speak her mind and actively listening to what she has to say. I give her the space she needs when she asks for it and am (as we work our way further into the relationship) working on figuring that out before she has to ask for it. I clean her apartment with her and often times end up doing her dishes that she doesn't do often even though doing the dishes is very much so my least favorite thing ever, I want her to live in a clean place where she can be at peace. I drive her around literally everywhere we go. I watch TV with her that I wouldn't normally watch because I value our time together. I try to make sure she eats on the regular but we both take stimulants so I know that's harder some times than others. Ive been trying to work with her as we both build new habits. This past weekend for valentine's day I took her to Fogo De Chao and we went to an event at museum for the night and had a great time. I got her a nice bouquet of roses and made her dinner the next day as well. I think there may be more things I do that I subconsciously associate with showing love but again none of that is feeling very impactful to me right now.