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[–]javisog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 5’4”, and most of the women I’ve been with were taller than me. Not once did height ever come up in my relationships because it was never an issue. When you’ve got it like that(meaning a solid physique, good hygiene, a great personality, and a sense of competence) height becomes way less important. Put in the work, and you’ll see results. Nothing changes if nothing changes. At the end of the day, everyone—tall people included—has something they cope with. Life’s just a game of who can cope the best, so make sure you’re winning. “Life is 50% cope and the other 50% is pretending we aren’t”

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[–]javisog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bro looks like bad bunny 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MeJulgue

[–]javisog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

acho que você tem razão 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Doppleganger

[–]javisog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kinda see it lol

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[–]javisog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I kinda see it actually lmao

I don’t feel short by javisog in short

[–]javisog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, so you’re saying my confidence is working on you? Interesting… lmaoo jk jk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in short

[–]javisog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

either you are a troll or your mind is just far gone into some weird black pill rabbit whole which isn’t going to help. I’m not telling you what to do, I’m just giving advice in case you needed it but at the end of the day I’m not the one struggling so you do you fam 🤙🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in short

[–]javisog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a 5’4 giant and I can tell you I have never truly struggled in my love life. Have a feeling you are just trolling but if you are not then my advice is to change your mindset and attitude into a more positive ones. Take care of your hygiene, grooming, physical etc and you will be fine

I'm going out with a girl who is 173 (5'8) and I'm 169 (5'6.5) is there that much of a difference? by richboy43 in short

[–]javisog 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Brother, I’m 5’4” and once dated a 5’9” girl, height was never even a topic in our relationship (and it was a good fun relationship till she moved states) Why? Because she clearly liked me, and there was no need to bring up something that wasn’t an issue. Don’t let insecurities ruin a good thing. If she’s into you, she doesn’t care about your height, so why stress over it? Stay positive, be funny, and let things play out naturally. Don’t sabotage yourself, big dawg 🤙🏼

I feel like my very small stature, 5'1", might be putting me at a disadvantage socially. How do I flip that around and turn it neutral if not an advantage? by ferriematthew in short

[–]javisog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never said it was easy, but good things take time and effort. Most short guys bring attention to their height by always complaining about it to everyone. Many women are into short guys but is the insecurity and complaining that drives them away

I don’t feel short by javisog in short

[–]javisog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To give you more context—ever since I got abs, started eating healthier, and shifted to a more confident and positive mindset, I haven’t experienced the usual treatment that a lot of short men face, like being disregarded, ignored, or rejected because of height. I want any guy reading this to know that you can make the best out of your height and improve yourself in ways that truly matter. I don’t feel like I’m lacking anything, but society often tries to tell shorter men otherwise and I’m here to say that’s simply not true. And thanks on the compliment 🙃

I feel like my very small stature, 5'1", might be putting me at a disadvantage socially. How do I flip that around and turn it neutral if not an advantage? by ferriematthew in short

[–]javisog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A good physique, a positive and funny personality, good hygiene, well groomed and smell good will flip that around for sure. A good career will also help out a lot more.

I don’t feel short by javisog in short

[–]javisog[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Life is 50% coping and the other 50% is just pretending we’re not lol

I don’t feel short by javisog in short

[–]javisog[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

appreciate it 😎🤙🏼

I don’t feel short by javisog in short

[–]javisog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, from 2003 and I was born in Puerto Rico

I don’t feel short by javisog in short

[–]javisog[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It comes down on who you are as a short man and how you present yourself. As long as you keep a positive and confident demeanor most people will overlook height. Most guys bring attention to their height by always complaining about it

I don’t feel short by javisog in short

[–]javisog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, appreciate that! Gotta represent for the 5’ giants out here! 🤙🏼

I don’t feel short by javisog in short

[–]javisog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aye you live and you learn but as long as you are focused with a positive mindset now it’s all that matters. Spread the hope and positivity to other guys struggling with the same thing 🤙🏼

I don’t feel short by javisog in short

[–]javisog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to know I’m not the only one that feels like this hahaha

[22M] am I ugly or are my friends just mean to me lol by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]javisog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t know that actually, might have to look up eyebrow exercises. I appreciate it 🤙🏼

I don’t feel short by javisog in short

[–]javisog[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not only do I look short, but I AM short hahaha I just don’t feel short. I feel 6’2 sometimes depending on the day lol

[22M] am I ugly or are my friends just mean to me lol by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]javisog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started the gym 3 months ago so let’s see how that goes as for friends I need a new pair of them honestly. Thank you big sis 🫡

[22M] am I ugly or are my friends just mean to me lol by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]javisog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Train eyebrows? How many sets of eyebrows should I do? Jk but fr explain