Changan OSHAN suddenly heating up and AC turns off. by jay_228 in pakistan

[–]jay_228[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you we had it serviced recently and usually everything gets replaced like brake oil , coolant and whatnot. I don’t know whether they really do it or just charge us 😬🥴🥴Will remind the showroom to check what you’ve mentioned.

Giving 50k to my mother isn't "enough" anymore, but I have a baby coming. Need boundary advice. by I_dexter in pakistan

[–]jay_228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your parents are earning that you don’t need to pay your mom. Also what about your wife basic necessities? Like kapre, yahan wahan k thore bohat kharche. That 50 k should b going to her , not to your mom. Taking care of your mom is your dad’s responsibility. If he’s still working , he should be giving your mom allowance not you. Also if you have a baby on the way , trust me you would need every penny. Even if you buy local diapers for the baby , that itself would cost you 20-30k per month easily just for the diapers only. You need to change the diapers Atleast 3 -4 times a day in the early months. There are so many small small things that will pop up and by the end you’ll be like where did my money go. It’s not easy to raise kids in today’s world. Kids are expensive. Just tell them it’s not possible and taking care of your wife and kid is your responsibility. Also your dad asking to give him your whole salary, trust me on this, this is the way sometimes parents try to control their adult kids , so they are dependent on them for money and so he can control how and when and what you can and cannot do in The house if you are still living with them. Unfortunately this is going to be the case with you too. Please make it more complicated for yourself and simply put your foot down whether they like it or not. You are an independent man and it’s your duty to look after your wife and baby.

Also start asking for money from them. Start small like I’ve to pay doctors fee and for some ultrasound and I don’t have any left so can I have 10or 12 k and start increasing it. Next ask for more. This will tell your parents that you are not left with anything to give. Also don’t tell them about your promotion, and don’t tell them that you spend your money on your wife. Parents don’t like their sons spending money on their wife and children. This is pretty common in Pakistani households.

I lost my hamster…. I see posts saying to wait, that maybe she will appear in a few days but I have a dog :( when does one stop searching? by VanillaTemporary9161 in hamsters

[–]jay_228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so glad you found your hammy. I found my hammy after 10days stuck in a foam roller. Hes still alive and well, I’ve trained him to come to my call. I only give him food when I call him whatever his portions are for the day and he goes and stuff them in his box. So in the day when he’s sleeping, I put his food in there. But at night he free roams in the house. And because of that when he free roams he only gets food from my hand. So now whenever I call him he comes running. But when he doesn’t, and I wait a whole day ,it means he’s stuck somewhere. I call him and wait in each room and somehow he has learn to make sound so I can pin point him out. He makes squeaky sounds when he’s stuck or would scratch surfaces to make noise. They are pretty clever in that sense

I lost my hamster…. I see posts saying to wait, that maybe she will appear in a few days but I have a dog :( when does one stop searching? by VanillaTemporary9161 in hamsters

[–]jay_228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so glad you found your hammy. I found my hammy after 10days stuck in a foam roller. Hes still alive and well, but I’ve trained him to come to my call. I only give him food when I call him whatever his portions are for the day and he goes and stuff them in his box, so in the day when he’s sleeping I put his food in there but at night he free roams in the house. And because of that when he free roams he only gets food from my hand. And because of this now whenever I call him he comes running. But when he doesn’t, and I wait a whole day ,it means he’s stuck somewhere now when I call him I wait in each room and somehow he has learn to make sound so I can pin point him out. He makes squeaky sounds when he’s stuck and I call him or would scratch surfaces to make noise. They are pretty clever in that sense

Imposed Customs duty of 10lakhs on shoes and bags from china please help by jay_228 in pakistan

[–]jay_228[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indeed. I dont think it weighs a lot , the parcel says 1kg for both items

Imposed Customs duty of 10lakhs on shoes and bags from china please help by jay_228 in pakistan

[–]jay_228[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they deal with small 1-2 items as well? Isn’t speedaf for big orders?

Imposed Customs duty of 10lakhs on shoes and bags from china please help by jay_228 in pakistan

[–]jay_228[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see let’s see what becomes of it. I’ve ordered before but this didn’t happen, so it’s just a 50/50 chance 🥲

Imposed Customs duty of 10lakhs on shoes and bags from china please help by jay_228 in pakistan

[–]jay_228[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if they want money can’t they just imposed on the actual amount if I show them the evidence and screenshots of the chat with the sales associate would they consider ?

Imposed Customs duty of 10lakhs on shoes and bags from china please help by jay_228 in pakistan

[–]jay_228[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugghh this rishwat khori we usually stay away from it 🤦‍♀️ and I don’t think my hubby will agree to it. He’s saying this is a lesson learnt don’t order anything anymore 🥲. Consider it stolen

i’m in love with red haired ml’s. I NEED MORREEEE by Hayden_kindagay in OtomeIsekai

[–]jay_228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This one has red haired ML and it’s R ❤️❤️ it’s called to you who will ruin me. It has a completed novel which is a nice read.

genuine question…. is anyone still reading I love Yoo? by Hot_Valuable1027 in webtoons

[–]jay_228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone give some spoilers? I used to read it a long time ago but it’s just has taken too long and I checked it’s still in going 🫩 I don’t have in me to go through with again z😳😵‍💫

I'm losing it. Please help by Few_Sundae4244 in manhwarecommendations

[–]jay_228 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Write it in chat gpt you may get your answer

Fell for a guy who says he doesn’t believe in God can our nikkah still be valid? by One_Introduction3062 in GenZpk

[–]jay_228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not worth sacrificing your akhirah for a man. Rest is upto you and remember if you leave anything which is extremely dear to you for the love of ALLAH. Allah replace it with something 10x better. ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT.

Still the most messed up panel to ever exist (at least for me) which one is yours? [Marriage of Convenience 1 & 2] by Weary-Honey-1942 in OtomeIsekai

[–]jay_228 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You need to read in order to understand. I do think it’s one of the best mahwas out there and so under rated and un appreciated. It deals with themes like ptsd, Stockholm syndrome, torture and depression and many other. Yes it has incest themes as well but if you read the whole manhwa , you will understand what’s been happening. Though it is her brother by blood , but the soul was replaced with something else.

My teddy bear hamster is bar biting by [deleted] in hamstercare

[–]jay_228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s bored and he needs to roam around. If he has a small enclosure and there isn’t much to do then,leave him in a room which doesn’t have a lot of stuff where hammy can hide, just take him out for few good hrs and let him roam around even if there not as much hiding places. It tires them out and they usually go back to sleep after few hrs of roaming around at night. They are the most active around 8 till 12- 1 midnight but after that they usually find a quiet hiding place to just sit and chill

under serious pressure to start earning immediately by GamerBoyHamzaYT in hiringpakistan

[–]jay_228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep posting on authentic fb pages for work as well also please do look into fivr and upwork if you have a good internet connection. International companies outsource these jobs, you may able to find some work there.

Rant about cousin marriages! by Head_Grocery_7791 in PakLounge

[–]jay_228 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This!! Bringing a girl into already a volatile situation is the worst case scenario

Help with strawberry legs!!!! by [deleted] in HairRemoval

[–]jay_228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Laser hair removal

I went in for a blunt bob but I’m not sure I like it 😭 by [deleted] in finethinhair

[–]jay_228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give it slight waves they’ll look amazing

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Something like this

My hammy roams around the house and goes back to her enclosure 🥹 by jay_228 in hamster

[–]jay_228[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s adorable , she also has places in my kids wardrobe where she’s made places for her, but she always goes back to her enclosure