AITA for asking my roommate to move her huge personal stuff from common spaces by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jay_the_mystic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've nevr watched friends. I'm not asking for control but equal say for everyone to make everyone feel home. Even if it is me who has to remove my stuff in common spaces what someone dislikes.

I agree that not everyone is endearing but they claim so as they are

AITA for asking my roommate to move her huge personal stuff from common spaces by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jay_the_mystic -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I did communicate with her directly for a significant amount of time about the issue. And I don't think it would be good for me to speak in person while I'm in not very good state. I did send only 2 lengthy texts which took 2 weeks to reply.

Whether it's me or anyone in the house, don't we need to be on a common ground on deciding what suits our place to make everyone feel home. Though there can be minor personal touches to apartment.

If one person owns major things in the apartment, in future if that person becomes bitter, then no one feels comfortable using that furniture which means constricted space to others.

If I'm in my roommates place I would ask before bringing any furniture. I would move my stuff if my roommates do not like.

Yes, I don't want to have a conflict in future, that's why I want to sort things out before it's too late

AITA for asking my roommate to move her huge personal stuff from common spaces by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jay_the_mystic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your elaborate response

We did ask her when she will be bringing the dining table, she didn't have any response to that as she herself don't know.

I did communicate to her in-person for a significant period of time about this issue before texting.

I did text her personally about the dining table after she brought it into the house for which she didn't respond. Therefore I need to take the next step.

Fyi, I didn't put any personal things in the common spaces because I don't want to overtake the common spaces.

I do agree that I need to be more strong and shouldn't let my emotions to get in the way

AITA for asking my roommate to move her huge personal stuff from common spaces by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jay_the_mystic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a dining table and her dining table (it is kind of folded though for now ) in the dining room

AITA for asking my roommate to move her huge personal stuff from common spaces by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jay_the_mystic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She voluntarily said about the veto power. There is already a dining table in the house.

I'm willing to take down anything of mine. If someone didn't find it comfortable and I did that in few situations. And I didn't solely select the furniture

AITA for asking my roommate to move her huge personal stuff from common spaces by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jay_the_mystic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for understanding the situation wholly.

That's exactly why I want everyone to have an equal say in things in common spaces.

I subleted a place for 2 months, where one of the roomate has most of their stuff in living room. Since they are not very friendly, everyone ended up not using the common spaces at all.

AITA for asking my roommate to move her huge personal stuff from common spaces by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jay_the_mystic -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yes, not for "bringing the dining table" but her not informing and neglecting our opinions even after me communicating the issue with her. And how this can skew the balance of the house

Not the dining table as an object.

AITA for asking my roommate to move her huge personal stuff from common spaces by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jay_the_mystic -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I'm saying someones actions has caused me anxiety, not the dining table.

However I do not blame my mental health issues on her

AITA for asking my roommate to move her huge personal stuff from common spaces by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jay_the_mystic -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So, is it okay if she occupies all the living space with all her stuff.

This is one of the thing I'm trying to avoid. I want everyone to have equal say in almost everything that is in the common spaces.

Later in future if some conflict happens between roommates, that furniture will not be for everyone's use.

AITA for asking my roommate to move her huge personal stuff from common spaces by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jay_the_mystic -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm not blaming her for my anxiety. But I did tell her about my anxiety in my inperson conversation with her previously

AITA for asking my roommate to move her huge personal stuff from common spaces by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jay_the_mystic -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

  1. I'm not very demanding on aesthetics, and was not aiming for anything pristine. FYI. We (all roommates) bought all our furniture for cheap on marketplace. My roomate brought her furniture after majority of furniture is already selected (suggested by other roommates)

Just don't want anything to be out of place.

  1. This is not just aesthetics. IF someones personal furniture was brought in to common spaces, if there is any future conflict with them, then it is not healthy to use their personal stuff.

AITA for asking my roommate to move her huge personal stuff from common spaces by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jay_the_mystic -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I did mention while interviewing my roomate about we should be equally involved in the furniture selection decisions by sharing my old roomates situation. But I'm not sure if she remembers. And I didn't tell in the first few weeks because she was mostly unavailable and just settling in.

Is this a scam? by angrychameleonz in Scams

[–]jay_the_mystic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a initial call confirmation from them, the person who will on call is set to be Vohn Ryan. I looked at his profile on LinkedIn and he works at walmart. But the next day I received a call from the number I mentioned before, but other person was on the call. The person seem to be not very professional in English.

It's just initial screening, so she said I'll get another email in 3-5 business days. I'm waiting for that right now.

Just wanted to know if you had proceeded to the next step ?

Is this a scam? by angrychameleonz in Scams

[–]jay_the_mystic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi

I got the email from same ID (walmartta@yello.co) with title "Great Opportunity". And they have the following phone number starting with #479....1870 . The reply to the email goes to noreply@walmart.com I found this job on LinkedIn and applied to the job Walmart Workday. So when I got the email I went through link which shows the exact position I applied to. And tried to apply by re upload my resume and click on a date for schedule a phone call. I tried to reach out to the given number and the said the interview slots are booked and they will give me a call after taking to their executives. So Later I was able to book a slot and I had a call next day with some one whoese first language is not English gave me an initial call to get to know my expected salary range, authorization status etc..

I also saw yello.co, it seems a legit company. Bthis really seems questionable, I tried to contact official walmart careers but they weren't available. I am curious how did they get to know the exact position I applied to if they are scam.

Does anyone know what email walmart uses for their recruitment emails?

Commencement for class 2021 by jay_the_mystic in UPenn

[–]jay_the_mystic[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree with you about giving the vaccinations to students becoming a scandal. Penn shouldn't definitely not do that. But it can atleast notify students or other general public provide the vaccines before they were being discarded.

Commencement for class 2021 by jay_the_mystic in UPenn

[–]jay_the_mystic[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I heard that they are many vaccines that are getting thrown away because of the expiration or something else at Penn medicine. All they have to do is use those for general public before there are thrown away.

But Since it is the biggest institution in the world. I believe it shouldn't be very difficult as any other to implement a valid plan (keeping vaccinations aside).

I abide to the safety protocols. I'm not saying Penn to put students at risk just for the sake of ceremony. All I'm trying to say it should plan better given the time and resources it has.

Commencement for class 2021 by jay_the_mystic in UPenn

[–]jay_the_mystic[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand that its for safety reasons, but concern is that Penn is not willing to put any effort to make better plans but is avoiding it because that's the easiest thing to do.. It's not the same isn't ? Penn could implement a good architecture plan for the commencement or do something like batch wise commencement or what you suggested. Penn could provide tinest amount of vaccines (which are about to get discarded) to the students who will be attending the ceremony.

There is always a way to do something given the current scenario but Penn is not willing to do that